Much HELP Needed!!!?

Question

I really like my step-sisters best friend, Stephanie, I have posted 2 more questions on this topic, and haven't really got the answer I am looking for. My step-sister won't help me, says to ask her myself. I have no experience with dealing with girls,so could someone give me somewhat like a brief summary of what I would say to her. I do not want to look stupid in front of her or anyone else around her. Help is appreciated.

For those of you wondering, I'm 15

My step-sister has already mentioned to her that I like her.

Answer 1

Start off by trying to be a friend. TRY to talk to her like you would a friend. Get to know what she likes, what music she likes, the kind of stuff you and your friends talk about OR the kind of stuff her and her friends talk about. Starting off trying to be friends is the best way to get to know someone. You may get to know her and fins out you dont want to date her anymore. Getting to know her will help in the long run like when her birthday comes around because you will know what she likes and that makes it easier to get her a gift or something. Let things fall in to place by developing a friendship. That will give you a chance to see if she may like you by how she responds. Then pretty soon your step sister will not be the only person she will be calling and asking to speak to:-)
If she does not respond the way yyou would hope then you have not felt embarressed by letting her know too soon that you liked her.
Good luck- I am rooting for you!

Answer 2

This is more for the younger crowd but take it for what it's worth:

Do something that keeps you moving, like walking in the park.
- Keeps you from being too fidgety
- Allows you to break eye contact when you’re nervous
- The environment may feed your brain for conversation topics
- You can be close to her without being too awkward

You have your basic topics (school/music/hobbies) but try to be dymanic, it will help you in the long run. Next time you take a walk look around and see if you can feed off your surroundings to generate topics. Stay away from Y/N questions, you want to know her opinion/feelings.

When you do get on a topic and she talks get quicky interested and if you can relate, add to the conversation. When you talk about your interest, sound passionate about it and maintain eye contact. If you find yourself carrying the conversation try to integrate her into it (What do you think? or what would you do in that situation?).

If the conversion becomes more natural and you're comfortable enough then find a good place sit next to each other.

Answer 3

Lets see...I have been there before...How old is this girl...that matters...

I first would try and create an environment to where she would be more confortable and more apt to talk to and be more receptive to you. Try and take her out to a picnic or watch a movie at home or something. SOMETHING..where its just you two and not your step-sister. Obviously your step-sister is alright with the fact of you liking Stephanie, but dont rule out the fact that your step-sister has probably already told Stephanie about your desire for her, so make sure that your first chance to make your desire known is as perfect as possible. You may only get one chance. Dont fumble with your words. Talk to her about how you feel (after you have her in the environment you have created) directly, carefully, but emotionally. Dont hold anything back and speak from the heart and she will melt like butter on a hot muffin. Once you have her undivided attention lay it on thick!

good luck and I know you can get this Stephanie girl! Dont be afraid to try and get what your heart desires!

Answer 4

Hi! I have the same stand point with your step sister. You know, there isn't really a perfect thing to say in that situation.

Just be yourself. It will be better if you and your step sister's best friend are already friends as well.

I believe that you won't be looking like stupid in front of her when you confess your feeling as long as she is also into you. I believe, that when a person likes someone, it really doesn't matter how you say the words or how much effort you exert. Even the simplest and the wackiest thing looks perfect and extraordinary in eyes of person who really likes you.

Just give it your best shot... Remember... you have nothing to loose anyway.. but you got the best price if you win!!!

Good luck!

Answer 5

Try a compliment. Like if she's hanging out with your step-sister at your house, and you happen to pass her alone in the hall or even with your step-sister there in the kitchen, say something like "I never noticed how pretty your eyes are"

If you don't get a chance like that, like she's always surrounded by her friends, involve or tell her and her friends a joke (if you're funny, if your not you can try) that has something to do with what they are doing, or completely random, your choice, but look her in the eyes the most when you talk to them.

Answer 6

Just Kind of Find out What She Likes and Dislikes By Hanging Around her and Maybe Making some Small talk. Throw In a Joke every now and Then. Don't come Off to Strong though. and Don't Tell her You Love her before you two get serious! it really makes them feel like They are Obligated and Sometimes even trapped.And you have to Remember her name and Her Birthday! they Like That. hope I helped.

Answer 7

She'll probably be around your house a lot of the time. Just tell her that her dress looks nice or that she has the nicest eyes you've ever seen or something similar to that. You could take a risk and tell her that she's got sweet ti*ts or a nice ar*se. Frankly some girls are turned on by that prospect. Or you could just say that you like her and ask her if she wants to go to the movies with her sometime.

Answer 8

My sister won't hook me up with any of her friends either. But thats my fault. She knows exactly what I'm after and it ain't conversation. The best advice I can give you is do for yourself what your sister won't do for you. Start talking to the girl when she comes over and find out what her interest are. Women love to talk about themselves so as long as you listen you're good. Remember her likes such a daises or a certain kind of chocolate. Then when she comes over next time give her exactly what she likes. It works 88% of the time. But always remember listen.

Answer 9

lol wow i never (some) guys could get nervous or speechless when it came to girls. but no, dont worry i'm not sayin its like a bad thing. You just need to look confident when you see her. Take it slow, BUT not to sllooowwww. For ex. when you see her walk by her and nod your head up and say HEY. But in like a sexy kind of voice. Then day 2, if you see her alone walk up to her with a smile and say What are you doing, huh? Shoudn't you be out somewhere with my step-sis? but remember say it with a smile. lol. or if shes not alone and happens to be with your step-sis drop by and ask what they're doin? and then just leave sayin oh that kool. Then day 3, and thats wen u speed things up a bit. Try to catch her when she's alone, and when you do ask her if she wants to hang out with you. And from there i think you can handle it. But if somewhere along the way you find youself stuck. Just ask or keep us up-to-date. well hope this helps.

Answer 10

ok so what I would do is if you see her one day, just be like, "hey what's up?". Best thing is to keep it casual. You don't want to come off as too nervous or scared. If you're confident, you will be a lot braver once you talk to her. Think of questions you could ask her too, cuz if you create conversations, you're relationship will grow. Don't be shy. If she doesn't end up liking you, there are more fish in the sea!!! Good Luck.