Family & Relationships - 11 August 2007

Im talkin about dating a certain female friend of mine..well the other day we found out that her cousin(like 2nd cousin) has a cousin who is my cousin..does this relate us?

2007-08-11 04:01:54 · 16 answers · asked by D-rok G 2 in Family

My little Sister is out camping and doesnt know yet. She is a fragile person, whats a good way to break this news to her? I am headed up to get her. Stupid question i know but im still in shock and finding it hard to think straight.

2007-08-11 04:01:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm a bridesmaid, what do I give for a gift?

2007-08-11 03:56:58 · 9 answers · asked by Captivated 4 in Weddings

Hello everyone. I love u guys.
my BF and I been together for 11 month now. and its great. I love him to death and his too. I fell like IAm so lucky that I have him. his A wonderful guy. he been there for me in my hard times. and my good times. he dose his best to protect and respect and love me. 3 months a go. I lost my Car and my job. it was my fault and I learn from it. I didn't have anybody to turn too but him. he stand there and get my car and money I never asked him for anything. I used to find money in my puers. all the time. he always say. Iam ganna do my best to love u and give anything u need. making u happy is my duty. I never had anybody who take care of me and love like him. except ,parents. and him. I fell so good when I am with him. my family doesn't believe in dating before marriage. or sex or any relationship before marriage. and because my culture. I cant married who came from a different country. I am from north Africa and his from south Asia we bouth share the same religon. and belive . but my family dosent like it. I dont really care. IAm 21 and his 23 and bouth of our familys dosent support us with money or anything. in fact I support my family and he sepurrt his family too> Why is the colture make it hard for people to live. I love him so mush and ther nothing in thsi world can change my mind. I can see him with the next 30 years. u know whats that mean. LOVE??!!!
thank u guy I and hope u get the idea

2007-08-11 03:52:01 · 12 answers · asked by I_belong_to_me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

but i am also sponsored by nike so i go to lots of basket ball games and girls give me their numbers and do weird things and when i go out with them i spend A LOT cuz i am nice like that. Then i have a feeling that they just want my money. how can i tell?

2007-08-11 03:50:52 · 6 answers · asked by othman c 2 in Singles & Dating

we want about what kind of papers a person need when she is married and she wants to go to near her husband .

2007-08-11 03:49:50 · 5 answers · asked by sandy b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I'm really confused right now. And it's really disturbing me for days already. I even cried before asking this question. Sigh.
I've asked this question on Y! Answer but I didn't get the answer I really want. I know it's a long question. :/ But I'm desperate to get a real answer!

So um yeah. I've been texting this guy for months already. He studies in my school, but he's being suspended for 2 weeks now. He's not a bad guy or something. He brought his handphone to school . And there was a spotcheck. We aren't allowed to bring handphones, mp3/Ipods or laptops to school.

He has a gf already and he still texts me sweet words like " Miss ya and xoxoxo " . He lives on my street and his house is very near mine. Sometimes, he texted me and ask me to go to his house to hug and sleep with him. Dont get it wrong! It's not making love. Just sleeping together. But I never went to his house to do all that stuff cause I know it would be like cheating on his gf with him.

to be continued

2007-08-11 03:49:47 · 12 answers · asked by Isabelle 3 in Singles & Dating

I was on an online dating site when a Russian woman contacted me. That's how I found out about the mail bride thing. I have done some research on several web sites about mail bride scam. I read that if she contacted you first is more than likely that she is a scammer, it's that true?

2007-08-11 03:47:47 · 7 answers · asked by Obi_Wen 1 in Weddings

i love being submissive to my husband and taking care of him by catering to his every whim in and out of the bedroom. his wish is my command. honestly, it feels so natural and right to me. i like making him happy and pleasing him. so why aren't more women like me? and why is submissive such a bad word now? people think that submissive = doormat with no opinions. this is so not true, i'm an intelligent woman (im in my 2nd year at college studying microbiology & immunology and my dream is to be a medical researcher). im not religious either so this has nothing to do with the bible. all i know is im a lot happier when my husband is the "King of the castle" and he likes it this way too. he treats me like his queen. why don't other women want this? seriously?

2007-08-11 03:47:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter recently she got herself into some major trouble with the law, and we are helping her out. When we first told her we would help she said, I know I messed up. I know I need to change. Now its I am confused. I want to go back to where I have friends and connection (she wants to be a music producer/artist). I have tried to explain to her, that she can still do that, but you must find a job to be able to take care of yourself. She can be in the "studio" all night if she wants to, but she must finance her dream. How will you eat? How will you survive? Surely not by living off of me, and your friends will only deal with you for so long. We have always been supportive of our children no matter what, only providing the basics until we see they are really serious a hobby,sport, etc. I feel like how many times can I let her slap me in the face. Is it wrong for me to cut all ties if she choses to go back to her friends/environment, who I believe are the reason for her troubles.

2007-08-11 03:42:29 · 9 answers · asked by anuevomi 1 in Family

hi my boyfriend is suffering from depression. basically he telling me he sometimes doesnt want to be alive. over the past month at first i thought i could handle it, but it started to effect our relationship, he gone off sex, i fully supported him, told him to go and see a counceller which he did, he met my parents on sat just gone, everything went well. he even brought his son, but sunday i just felt awful. and i had to talk to him, i told him how i felt, and monday he decided that we should take a break, as hes decided to go camping with his mom and sister, ive not heard of him since monday. which i didnt think i would as we are on a break, i just dunno what to do now, i dont know if where i stand, i gave him so many opportunties to say this isnt what he wants or needs so, we could end things, but he didnt he kept telling me he loved me and he get through it. hes back tomorro, but what happend come sunday he hasnt phoned to i attempt to phone him? what would you guys do??

2007-08-11 03:39:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-11 03:38:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-11 03:32:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am the wife who's asking this question. My hubby and I have kinda played around with this. He was just planning on taking me out to dinner. I said, "No! You have to buy me a gift for our anniversary." I've already taken it upon myself to buy him something nice and he was just going to sit back, relax and not even consider a gift exchange. I'm not upset, but don't you think a man should buy a gift for his wife on their 1st wedding anniversary? btw, he is now going out to buy something today since I've been riding his back. Should I feel materialistic or does he need to wake up?

2007-08-11 03:30:40 · 17 answers · asked by royo32 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-11 03:29:29 · 3 answers · asked by JiveMan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

together....i am not allowed to greet or talk to any man....if I was still beautiful and had a figure to die for maybe I could understand his state of mind. no matter what i say it only result in a argument. we are both in out forties...i dearly love him...but this un-called jealousy is killing me slowly but surely!

2007-08-11 03:27:21 · 3 answers · asked by wife in South Africa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, this is hard to explain so pay close attention.

So, there is this guy and he likes my best friend... although he often says that she gets mad too easily and personally... I DO NOT disagree, she has been really hurtful lately.

This is where it gets weird. Okay, this boy that likes her... he tells me all the time how hott i am and he flirts with me all the time, i would never want to betray her. so i never say these things back.

Now it gets even worse.

Just recently this boy told me that his best friend likes me... but i don't really like him, and he's not all that cute. We haven't really ever talked before though...

also... i think he's waaay cuter than his BFF, and umm AAAH!

Here's the question:
-Should I give his BFF a chance?
-Should I try not to get closer to him?
-What about by BFF?

AAAAH! confusing... just spill give me all the advice you can think of. I need it!

2007-08-11 03:26:46 · 15 answers · asked by kadeyp 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-11 03:18:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So you would NOT date a woman in her twenties that looks like a minor(she can't help it) and sounds like a minor(her voice not what she says)?

2007-08-11 03:08:11 · 8 answers · asked by Inferna Dragon 1 in Singles & Dating

or does it depends?

2007-08-11 03:07:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife recently found some porn on my computer, and she freaked out. She wouldnt talk to me all day, and I was truly afraid that she sould leave me because of it. We have gotten over the worst of it, but she now questions my love for her. I tell her all the time how much I love her and I hate myself for causing her this pain. But my words dont seem like enough. I need to be able to show her or prove to her how much I love her. I know that time heals all wouns but I cant take a passive approach to this. She is the only thing in the world that I care about and I am lost without her. Would gifts make it seem that I am trying to buy her forgiveness? I need to know what to do. Just knowing that she is angry with me is worse than any pain that I have ever experienced. And I am not looking for an answer like she is being too sensitive or that what I did is ok because it isnt, and Ive already given her my word that I would never look at that stuff again. Help please.

2007-08-11 03:03:46 · 18 answers · asked by Bitcasso 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-11 03:02:50 · 15 answers · asked by YO Mama 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 26 and i have a good body. i look good in them so no bagging on the suit.

2007-08-11 03:02:36 · 12 answers · asked by julian k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-11 03:01:30 · 9 answers · asked by tatinurwidjaya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

MY HUSBAND AND I WERE TALKING ABOUT OTHER MARRIED COUPLES TO A FRIEND, SAYING HOW COULD THEY POSSIBLY MAKE IT FOREVER BECAUSE THEY HAVE SUCH DIFFERENT VALUES AND UPBRINGING. THEN MY HUSBAND SAID TO THIS FRIEND, WELL, LOOK AT US, WE CAME FROM THE OPPOSITE SIDES OF THE TRACKS, AND WE ARE STILL TOGETHER AFTER 13 YEARS, BUT IT BROKE MY HEART, THINKING HE IS BETTER THAN ME. WOULD YOU THINK I HAVE A RIGHT TO BE UPSET, WHAT DOES IT REALLY MEAN. I CANNOT GET OVER THE FACT HE SAID THAT TO ANOTHER PERSON WITH NO REGRET OR THOUGHT.

2007-08-11 02:55:13 · 5 answers · asked by WRangler 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing this guy for 5 months, and I just realised not once did we discuss why or what we were to each other. We haven't had sex yet, and although he's made it clear he wants to, he knows Im not too keen. When we meet we kiss for 3-4 hours, and I always say No, and he says 'that's cool'. He calls me daily, replies to my msgs straight away, and so on! He'll come over to my place (which is a 1hr train ride) just to kiss and hang and watch movies. When we watch movies he wants me to lie with him, and then he hugs me and touches my hand and piches my cheeks...(god i sound lame :P). Im a really perceptive person, and I don't wanna be naive at all. Are some players aware that in order to get sex from a chick who's not easy, they have to try the 'boyfriend' tactic, in order to gain her trust??? Pls if someone has had a similar experience, let me know...

2007-08-11 02:54:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-11 02:54:13 · 16 answers · asked by j034nn3 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-11 02:48:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a relationship survey for married couples on my website at;
http://www.whenharrymarriedsally.com
It is to help assist me in collecting data for a book I am writing on marriage and to better help me to understand the issues that married couples may need help resolving.
I would greatly appreciate all those who can spare the time to take the survey.
In addition you will be able to take up the offer for 20 minutes of FREE online marriage (or premarital) counselling.
Even if you don't have any problems in your marriage, any relationship may benefit from counselling to 'iron' out little concerns, or to find great ways to put the sizzle back into your relationship!

2007-08-11 02:47:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she asked me and i came up speachless, what are somethings i should say?

2007-08-11 02:42:57 · 3 answers · asked by Tim M 1 in Singles & Dating