If you sleep with a men after knowing you for 4 years..will he consider you marriage material?

Question

or does it depends?

after knowing him my bad lol

especially now he tells me he miss me
i could be his fiance
he will consider us being in a relationship one day

never said these things before


kit in mind not sleeping together for 4 years..just slept together after being his friend for all of these years....once

Answer 1

It depends on the situation itself. If he is single and available, if you had a stable friendship and if you were dating for a little while, exclusively.
The fact that you knew each other and for how long is not always the deciding factor, there are all sorts of variables, plus let's see where your relationship goes from here, after you slept with the guy, how is he treating you now?

Answer 2

What do you think, marriage is material? You obviously think you are a piece of material and that is probably correct if you're just sleeping with some guy for 4 years.. That has nothing to do with marriage.

The only couple that should get married is the couple that are truly in LOVE!

I already know the answer to these questions: Does he love you? Do you love him? Have you been dating for those 4 years? Are you ages late 20's, early 30's. Do you know that marriage is a commitment to spend the rest of your lives together till death do you part?

The answer to all of those questions is NO. Don't even mention the word marriage. You don't just think that the guy who is just using you for sex for 4 years, might want to get married!

Answer 3

Getting into bed with someone makes you THINK you love them.....this is so common and sad.

People base their feelings on an activity that says very little about who a person really is, especially if you're looking for lifetime commitment.

Odds are against you...if you've already "given" yourself away...he's already tested the goods...no need for him to marry you. You're giving away something precious...for FREE.

So, yeah..it depends...if you keep giving it up for nothin'....you won't be a woman that a man will cherish.

Answer 4

It could go either way. He may think you are marriage material, but on the bad side, he knows you pretty well and he may not be interested.


Me and my husband got married kinda quick. and found out a lot of things we didn't really like about each other later on. We have gotten past it, and we have no regrets about our marriage. But had I known somethings before I would not have married him.

Answer 5

i don't think whether you sleep with the guy or not matters. If you have been together for 4 yrs and your relationship is strong, then you could be considered marriage material.

But it always depends on the other person as well.

Answer 6

I would say no. I was with a woman i have known 4 about 4 years, and I have never given one thought of marrying her. Bottom line, it depends on both of ur personalities, likes, dislikes, and what u have in common.

Answer 7

Time doesn't have much to do with it. At least he'll know you're not easy, but that doesn't mean you are marriage material. There's a lot more involved, like your personality and how the two of you click.

Answer 8

Chances are no. On the other hand if you are meant to be together, nothing will change his mind. Do not move in with him, until you are either engaged with a date or already married.

Answer 9

Take it slow....I don't think that sleeping with a man, because he says, "You could be my fiance" is a great idea.

I mean, to build up to marriage, you must get to know each other and see what it's like to be in a relationship with each other.

Answer 10

If you slept with him after four years to get him to ask you, get a grip, girl. he isn't going to ask you. Four years? Come on. Let him go. Many other men out there.