Family & Relationships - 11 August 2007

I'm 24 & husband's 25 & have been married 4.5 years w/2 kids. Last November I found out we're pg & due in July. I had also found out he's seeing another woman. I confronted him & we split for awhile, was going to file for divorce, but then ended working things out. We're back together now. My husband swears that things are great between us & that he's not going anywhere, but something inside me tells different. This other woman (is 38 years old) & swears that she's madly in love w/my husband & texts/calls him everyday on his cell. He texts her back. I dont want this other woman in our marriage @ all & when I ask him if he stills talks to her, he said every now & then through texts & that he isn't going anywhere. I tell him that he shouldnt be talking to her cause she's 1 of the reasons why we'd problems & he just doesn't understand that he cant be friends with her. I don't know what to do anymore. I hate knowing that they're talking through text & wish that itd stop! Any advice?

2007-08-11 07:45:29 · 30 answers · asked by tinkerbell2001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My younger son is 6 and my older son is 8. I stopped doing parties for friends for a while, and have been just doing a small party/get together with family(grandparents, aunts, uncles...total of about 10 people). But they seem to think that this is not appropriate every year by this age. I don't ask them to bring presents..just to come over and celebrate and have cake and ice cream. Is this too much to ask? Is this not appropriate?

2007-08-11 07:42:24 · 9 answers · asked by paganmom26 3 in Family

I am not sure how to set people up in our receiving line after our ceremony. Do I need to include all the bridesmaids and groomsmen in the line? Also, do ushers dismiss the guests from the pews after the ceremony so they then file through the receiving line?

2007-08-11 07:38:46 · 4 answers · asked by SMLB78 1 in Weddings

Im am madly in love with this guy and have been for many many yrs.But now is not the right time to be together.School and distance keeps that from happening right now.My question is this.The whole me and him thing stresses me out.I wonder if im wasting my time,he still talks to his ex's and not just ex girlfriends but ex lovers..and plays games with them to make them think hes going to be with them..he claims he likes to make them out to be a fool but hes 29,shouldnt the games be over!I told him he sounds like and asshole,who wants attention.lol.He claims he wants to be with me and no one else,but he does not know the future and wants to try and make it work when he gets out of school but he don't know where hes going to be..he maybe out of state for 3yrs but if hes around me he would like to make it work.Am i dumb?Do I not see whats infront of me?My point is this.this..........

2007-08-11 07:34:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

On the side, I make invitations from my home. They are "message in a bottle" invitations. I am proud of my work and I do them quite well! I know that I have the best prices, too. I can't seem to get my name out there, though. How can I get more business? I already advertise on Craigslist.
Thanks!

2007-08-11 07:28:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husbands family, other than his mother, didn't acknowledge our wedding. He was previously married and chose not to have his previous marriage annulled because of the children....he could have, but didn't. It has been three years and not a note, or anything. What is going on?

2007-08-11 07:17:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

then expect monogamy out of our men?

2007-08-11 07:16:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She moved in April over four hours away to live with her boyfriend and has never paid any child support and hasn't worked much since she has been there. The court awarded my husband sole custody and has given her 30 days to get a job to establish shild support. Can he be made to meet her half way every other weekend? This would equate to 5 hours travel after work on Friday and 5 hours travel on Sunday. We would never put ourselves in a position to have to travel like that as my husband has had back surgery and has back problems if he is in a car too long. I have a eleven year old and we have a 3 year old together. We both work full time and feel this was her choice to do this and it is her responsibility to do the traveling. We would never leave our children like that. This is her only child.

2007-08-11 07:13:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what would be best number of times in a day?

2007-08-11 07:07:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-11 07:06:50 · 12 answers · asked by shortdaylongnight 5 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have been together for 3 years we where very close and in love at one time he had a very hott temper after we got married and i couldnt take it anymore so i put a restraining order on him which gives him no chance to speak to me but i want to talk to him so bad just to hear his voice and that he is doen ok and yes i think of him everyday life hasnt been the same since we split up i stay home alot besides goen to work and errands i may have to do and keep busy with my son which is not my husbands do u think i should contact him next sunday on our anniversary i will be thinken about him ty for your input tc jewels

2007-08-11 07:04:25 · 7 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i work at this restaruan that not that many hot girls go
but i work friday and sat where alot of hot girls go most of the times
but im always busy and i wanna flirt with some of them cuz they keep looking at me but im trying to make money u know and i want this girls to get impresed by me
anyone know how to flirst
by the way u know these to day are mad busy at my place

well this wat i do to like kinda flirst

serve her the food (is not my job)
smile at her all the time
look at her
try to make sure the pp;l who shes with is confortable
but u know that girls know that does my job so they dnt realy apretiate it
so anyone
help me with this one
plz
ill really apretiate this

2007-08-11 06:57:53 · 8 answers · asked by mr. curious 3 in Singles & Dating

Guys always call me "cute", "pretty", and "beautiful".
but they never call me hott. What does that mean? Which is better?

2007-08-11 06:55:34 · 47 answers · asked by Chanel 2 in Singles & Dating

The number of people with no kids?
The number of people with the first kid a girl?
The number of people with the first kid a boy?

2007-08-11 06:54:21 · 5 answers · asked by essi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to date, kiss, marry, have sex, or any of that stuff. How do I tell them I wish to stay single forever? I'm 27 by the way.

2007-08-11 06:50:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

GUYS: say if your girlfriend asked you if you have cheated and you hestitated, what do you think she should be thinking?

GIRLS: we ask our man if he has ever cheated and he hesitated what is the first thing that comes to your mind?

NB. guys if you have not cheated you have no right to hestitate, right?
do you think the same too girls?
let me hear your thoughts everyone, thanks

2007-08-11 06:47:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love being submissive to my husband and taking care of him by catering to his every whim in and out of the bedroom. his wish is my command. honestly, it feels so natural and right to me. i like making him happy and pleasing him. so why aren't more women like me? and why is submissive such a bad word now? people think that submissive = doormat with no opinions. this is so not true, i'm an intelligent woman (im in my 2nd year at college studying microbiology & immunology and my dream is to be a medical researcher). im not religious either so this has nothing to do with the bible. all i know is im a lot happier when my husband is the "King of the castle" and he likes it this way too. he treats me like his queen. why don't other women want this? seriously?

2007-08-11 06:45:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can anyone recommend nice places in Birmingham, UK to have a wedding reception?

2007-08-11 06:43:23 · 6 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Weddings

I would so love to live like I was rich with no care in the world.

2007-08-11 06:40:51 · 6 answers · asked by jennybug 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she does a bunch of gay stuff like "webkinz" and watches "hannah montana" and is obsessed with the disney channel and does retarded dances to get attention. I know shes pretty cool... but all that crap she does worries me. I don't want her to be the "retarded girl who watches hannah montana" in her eighth grade year!

2007-08-11 06:32:27 · 7 answers · asked by mando9kid 1 in Family

to be final next month... I am really going through anger and pain and fear... just need a boost. I know I sound really stupid like a chid maybe, but the pain and fear is real.

2007-08-11 06:32:02 · 9 answers · asked by Centered 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is ALWAYS late. He's late to work everyday, if we're going out with friends, he's late, if we're going to a movie, he's late, if it's at all important to me, he's late. What can I do to communicate to him that his being late is making everyone around us upset?

2007-08-11 06:29:04 · 9 answers · asked by sarahbeth 4 in Family

This guy and I have know each other for almost 10 years. I was 19 he was 31 and a family friend, so dating him was a NO. However, during that time he gave me signs - I think. He came to my defence when in a group of people I was getting teased he stood up and told them all to #$%*#( off and leave me alone - my knight! lol..I would catch him looking at me and then he'd look away..then many times he would go out of his way to come and say hi, he would remember things I said in detail weeks before and was just basically very nice to me. I totally didn't see this and continued to date for years -I'm told he hasn't dated much and wasn't happy when he would see me with someone else- Now I'm almost 30 and still find him sweet/attractive and he's single and I'm not "a kid" anymore and it wouldn't be so wrong....so do I make a move?

2007-08-11 06:20:53 · 23 answers · asked by northernchicka77 1 in Singles & Dating

15 & everyone hates me. i have no friends. its summer. school out. im bored. everyday i sit home bored. nothing to do. i just sit in my bedroom & talk to the walls. all my movies are gone. there isnt anyone i can call. i dont know anyones number. im dead serious. everyday is wasted because i have nothing to do. today is another day wasted. im an only child. i hate being alone. i want a friend. please help me! im lonely! im sitting in the corner of my room watching the clock tick. im so bored. i dont want to leave the house unless if grandma takes me somewhere. now im bored. help! im sick of being stuck here.

2007-08-11 06:18:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2007-08-11 06:17:13 · 1 answers · asked by howardramclam 2 in Friends

I have a wonderful boyfriend who makes me laugh and i love him loads!
But there are these two other guys who I have been seeing behind he back, not becuase I hate him but for....money.
Im not a whore or nothing and they both have girlfriends it just that meeting up with them and havin sex, turns me on so much, and I get paid, really good, money. The buy me saucy outfits to were and play around in. I like the sneaking around part of it.
We meet up in hotel rooms, or were ever the back of cars and have sex like crazy. Screaming and moaning becuase its sooo good. I get loadsa money for it £200 a time.
But I need to stop! and I dont know how, my boyfriend doesnt know, but both of the guys have threatened to tell him if I stop seeing them, and I dont want to loose him.
HELP!! :(

2007-08-11 06:11:28 · 21 answers · asked by Flo C 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't understand this. Why is this acceptable? Does anyone else agree it's rude? Reasons why I think it's rude:

-your guests travel to your reception site, get dressed up, buy and gift.....AND you expect them to bring their own food. OMG, rude

-Sanitary Reasons. I've worked in restuarants and catering. I know a lot about food safety and such. How are you sure people use proper sanitaization in their home kitchens? Are you sure they don't have bugs? Did they wash their hands while preparing food? Was it cross contimated with raw chicken or egg?

As a guest, I don't eat potluck unless I know every single person present. If I don't know you, how can I be sure what I'm eating is sanitary. Just grosses me out and you never know every single person there.


-What if you invite 50 people and only 25 bring food. How are you going to feed all those people?

-What if the guest can't afford to bring anything. Say Great Aunt Jane lives on a fixed income

2007-08-11 06:10:40 · 18 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Weddings

i need to know wat to do i cry my self to sleep everynight
no one here like s me i don't live with my real parenets
i haven't heard from my bf in so long
i have none i can talk to
i don't have any of my stuff yeah i have clothes but they were all bought wit a vcocher
i have to obey the foster care rules
i need to know if i should stay here and cry myself to sleep everynigt or if i should talk my anunt into gettting gardinship of me and go back to my real home and live in caldwel agian and go back to my skool and have my friends
wat do i do i want to leave but yet i don't want to turn my back on this family
but yet i don't want to cry myself to sleep at night
HELP!!!!????!!!!....

2007-08-11 06:09:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-11 06:02:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to get her boyfriend? (she is not a friend or anything)
Her boyfriend told me i'm a hottie and asked me if i had anyone. and i like him back...?
they've been together for a few years but me and the guy met and the chemistry between us is amazing. I know him for almost 6 months and i like him more and more and he does the same. but we didn't even kiss, all we did was talk. but we both can see the attraction is amazing...
On the other hand, he lives in the same place with his gf and go to the same university. He also has a job that takes him a lot of time...
But i really like him, and I feel he feels the same...
do you think i have a chance to be with him?

2007-08-11 06:02:09 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating