i need to know wat to do i cry my self to sleep everynight
no one here like s me i don't live with my real parenets
i haven't heard from my bf in so long
i have none i can talk to
i don't have any of my stuff yeah i have clothes but they were all bought wit a vcocher
i have to obey the foster care rules
i need to know if i should stay here and cry myself to sleep everynigt or if i should talk my anunt into gettting gardinship of me and go back to my real home and live in caldwel agian and go back to my skool and have my friends
wat do i do i want to leave but yet i don't want to turn my back on this family
but yet i don't want to cry myself to sleep at night
HELP!!!!????!!!!....
2007-08-11 06:09:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ma you really need to take a real look around you because what you are saying is really serious problem. And before I answer you I need to tell you I ain't no professional here. I'm just stating my opinion. You need to stay were you are and let your foster parents know exactly how you feel. Yes you should ask your aunt if she would take you in. I always said family should always stick together. And if she says yeah then sit down with your foster parents and let them know nothing personal but you miss your family and would like to go back to them. SILAS
2007-08-11 06:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by Silas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your pain. And sometimes you don't think your foster parents could ever understand what you are feeling. You can try to get your aunt to get guardianship of you; But chances are, the court is making that hard to happen. See, if it is your mother that you were taken from, then the court will make it hard for anyone on her side of the family to take you into their home. I'll bet you feel so lost that you don't know which way to turn. You need a friend right now more than anything else in this world. You can email me anytime, and I don't think that you are that far from me. I am a mother and an aunt who was lucky enough to get guardianship of my neice and nephew. They are just as close to me as my own children. They are treated as equals in my home. But these two children are grown now and have been able to go where they want. I can only imagine the stress that you are going through. You should take that chance and talk to your foster parents. I know that they understand the pain that you are feeling. Just talk to them, and you can meet new friends. It's not that you have lost any of your olds ones, but you have the opprotunity to make new ones. Don't dispair, this is only a temporary thing for you. And while you feel that you are at the end of your rope, you will soon be with your family again.
2007-08-11 13:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry it really sounds like you are having a hard time. I think that you need to talk to your foster parents and let them know how you are feeling, they are there to help you.
You can also talk to your aunt but I have a feeling that their is a reason you are in foster care.
I feel for you. Maybe things won't be so bad when school starts and you can make some friends to talk to.
I hope that things for you get better soon hon. Take care.
2007-08-11 13:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by krissy1190 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, you have to talk to an adult, someone you can trust and them them how you've been feeling...If you don't have someone in your home you can speak with, go to the guidance counselor at your school, I know someone will help you, if you just as for the help..I know right now you feel all alone but you aren't. I'm sure you have friends and family...talk to some of them and see if they can' give you some advice1 Good luck to ya.......
2007-08-11 13:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like youve been through hell and back... the only sugestion that i can make is to just go with it.. be greatful that your with a family that is willing to take you in their home and let you stay with them... to take away your stress you should try putting it on/ into something els like writing or painting sculpting.. there are soo many great artest that have terrible lives and use it to creat amazing thing... you will be just fine you sound like your a strong person and i hope that things clear up for you and that you have an amazing future!
2007-08-11 13:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by USELESS_WINGS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! I totally feel bad! if you need someone to talk to, you can totally count on me cuz I could help you. DO not run away. Hold on and don't cry anymore...your just looking at the negatives....call your bf, talk to your foster ppl....everything just might be okay.
2007-08-11 13:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by ♫мυѕι¢♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some one who needs a friend and be their friend: best way to chase the blues. If you feel totally trapped: talk to someone: school counselor, clergy, any one. Join some clubs. Take lots of walks.
2007-08-11 13:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont like it there then maybe you should talk to your aunt i mean your not turning your back on them because they turned their back on you && they wont listen maybe if you go back with your aunt it will get much better well i wish u the best of luck
GOD BlESS
=D
2007-08-11 13:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by V'Nicole. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure if this family loves you, they will understand that you want to go back, just try talking to them.
2007-08-11 13:13:06 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Sara :] ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them your problem & tell them you would wish to get in touch with your aunte x
2007-08-11 13:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by BeckyC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋