Family & Relationships - 11 August 2007

I have a pretty big problem. I have this one group of friends that I just like sometimes.... but then, they just act all imiture. Plus, they are always never wanting to do ANYTHING!

The other friends that I have are like the coolest at school and things like that. They are the funnest, to be around.;My friend and I don't know who to hang out with. She feels the exact same way.. The worst part is that we all can't hang out with each other because they despise each other! They would rather jump off a cliff than be w/ each other for an hour. I can't just like say to these friends: I don't want to hang out with you. Because, I have been friends with them since Kindergarten. And they have done some things to make me not like them too! Who should I choose and How???? HELP!

2007-08-11 04:59:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i dont even know the stinking guy!!!! its disgusting! anyways...could i be pregnant?

2007-08-11 04:59:14 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my best friends like one of our guy best friends. my best friend is in the 5th grade im in the 6th grade and he's in the 7th grade. he's really short and were taller than him. shes known him longer and has been friends with him longer. and this has happened with another friend b4 but was totally different and she said that she should go out with him bcuz she knew him longer and i ended up with the guy! my best friend has three guys to choose from and i dont have anybody else. except for him. who should have the guy. vote girl1 for me and girl2 for my best friend

2007-08-11 04:52:53 · 19 answers · asked by Andrezza F 2 in Friends

i want to do something for a person that i love and i told him things i didnt mean what can i do for him to forgive me

2007-08-11 04:52:26 · 15 answers · asked by Girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If i say his hair is freaky in the morning he will sigh a mean sigh.And if i ever mess with him like play he will scream and hit me.And sometimes he will just scream randomly my mom keeps trying to stop.but it wont work with him i think he has a.d.d

2007-08-11 04:51:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what if I just work on reverse pschycology with both of them,If I stand aside and let him have his hearts fill it is not possible for mother & son to always see eye to eye give him the secluded cold shoulder without any confrontation . This wayhe getsto figure out himself what he has done and if this relationship is worth saving for him he will think more seriously about his mothers behaviour and see what he needs to do?

2007-08-11 04:50:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when they end up with a younger and prettier girl? do you feel hurt? thanks for answering

2007-08-11 04:49:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you date a single mother? And how should she behave on the first date: tell all the worse that happen in her life or just to have some fun? I feel bad now because on my first date I said the guy that I live on my own. I have enough memories of guys reactions when they were told that I have two kids on my first dates. It turned me away... meaning that I was loosing a hope of finding with a man, not only to be with, but to build a relationship with. So, In my last situation I wanted to have a special date w/o any pressure and when he asked: do you live by yourself, I said yes, meaning for myself : I am living by myself with my two children... When he was observing my car, he might see a car sit, but he didn't say anything. Today he saw a sit again and kissed as usual, but was little nervous. This image is familiar to me. Should I stop looking for a man and better concentrate on my children, or there are any hope for me to get some luck with guys? I don't want to lie.

2007-08-11 04:47:34 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for 3 years and at 1st the in-laws didn’t like me. Now I am 8 mos pregnant and my husband leaves me alone at home when he visits his family. We have them over for holidays occasionally but they ask him to meet them for lunch during the week (when I’m at work), or to come over to their home and he never invites me. His mother asked him not to bring me over because she had to move to a bad area and is embarrassed. I talked to him about this and he still leaves me at home when he goes. Since we will all be completely family when the baby comes I want to get closer to them but my husband is not helping the situation.

2007-08-11 04:47:20 · 13 answers · asked by femscorp2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok ive had tons of guys nod at me and i thoguth it meant they liked you like if they do it a certain way but my mom says it means like how u doin or sumthin but dont yall think it mean they like you?

2007-08-11 04:45:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is that a bad thing they say i am a hooker kinda

2007-08-11 04:44:26 · 5 answers · asked by mandi 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so im dating this guy but he lies so much about what he does with me. And im gettin tired of it...and so is everyone else. Now we have all talked to him about everything but he denies it all and i want to break up with him for that but i like him alot and i think thats the only reason i push the lies to the side. And also im still in love with my ex.(and he called me a few weeks ago, i think trying to get back with me.) And everyone tells me that both guys are wrong for me but i dont want to let go of my past with my ex. and i dont wanna lose what i have with my current boyfriend...what should i do??

2007-08-11 04:40:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-11 04:37:24 · 11 answers · asked by Crystal C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-11 04:35:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lately ive been obsessed with porn and erotic stories online. i've always felt ashamed i want to stop. i just read a so called erotic story, that i wish i haven't read. im disgusted and want to throw up. military men raped military women. Im serious. i think that story turned me off to sex and these stories all together, what really got to me is that this really happens in the military, wish i never read it. im sick to my stomach and upset.

2007-08-11 04:35:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Also she has a 15 year old son because she is divoced but it wasn't her fault. The reason why she got divorced was because she found out that her ex husband was dating behind her back and her son lives with her ex husband. And her son is 15 and I am 23. Is it still allowed? Also this women is related to me by marriage already because she is my sister-in-law's cousin by blood. So we are already related by marriage. I have had a crush on her since I was 13, wich was when my brother first met his wife who is now my sister-in-law, and now our family and her family are all family now. My sister-in-law's cousin has known me since I was 13 and she does not know that I have had a crush on her all these years. I even remeber when her son was 5 years old at that time when my brother was getting engaged to her cousin. Now I am 23 and she is 38 and I still have a crush on her. Am I allowed to marry her?

2007-08-11 04:33:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Gingers???....Whats The Big Wrong Doing About Them && Would You Be Embarassed To Ever Date One??...If Yes Then Why??....I Dont Understand The Big Problem!

Ps.Ive Alredy Asked This Question But Only Got One Answer

2007-08-11 04:32:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-11 04:30:28 · 9 answers · asked by Ashwin 1 in Singles & Dating

Back when we were dating my wife and I had a MMF threesome with one of my friends. She was really into and had a great time. After it was over she promised me she would have a FFM threesome with me and another girl. The problem is we have had a couple of oppotunities, but she always backs out. Any advice?

2007-08-11 04:28:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf has a friend, who is his ex-gf from the past and I dont want them 2 b friends. She has caused strife in his previous relationship, where she tried to sleep w/ him and want him to leave his ex-gf. My bf went to visit her and claim that she tried 2 sleep w/ him, but nothing happen. When confronted w/ the story again, he claimed that he made it up. He went and bought bikes w/ her, and didnt tell me b/c I was ready to leave him over her. She currently lives in VA and has a man, but I dont care. I still dont want my bf and her friends. Is it my place to make that demand?

2007-08-11 04:26:09 · 40 answers · asked by Linda J 2 in Singles & Dating

so my bf and I were at his house and it started to rain. Since we both love the rain we went out and played in it. I was soaked and instead of me driving home to get new cloths he found some of his things that we could make fit me, and I went home in them. Do I wash them and return them, or are they my little prize to keep?

2007-08-11 04:24:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Shes always invading my privacy and going thru my things.

She went on my aim sn and had all these conversations with my friends pretending it was me and if im talking to a boy on the phone she'll laugh and be like "Sabrina has a new boyfriend!" in front of my parents.

Shes a TOTAL nightmare, I've even cried at some of the things shes done. Everybody says she will get better later but I need her to change TODAY!! I'm going thru some really difficult things right now and I need her to leave me alone.

2007-08-11 04:18:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I do not know if I should call her a prima donna. And I do not know why.. I have been disliking my mother for a long time. No matter how good I am to her, she still thinks it isn't enough. She is the centre of the universe. When she isn't treated like a queen, she flares up. And it is never her fault, she'll always find someone to blame. I can't walk out on her because she did take care of us when we were young. My father is ignoring her for years now because he is fed up with her. But she thinks my dad is the one at fault. It is very frustrating to live with someone like this cos she thinks she is either always right or always being victimised.

2007-08-11 04:17:55 · 1 answers · asked by Puffersheep 2 in Family

the condom's expiration date is 10-2011. now, i've seen other comdoms around the house. We have been living together for a little more than a year. We've been married for about 10 months. i didn't worry about the other ones because i knew they were old with the dates being 2002, 2003. he probably just kept those things around. But i just found this one last week, i had been looking for something in my drawer, and then he looked in the one besides it, which is where he keeps some of his things. I couldn't find what i was looking for, so i decided to double check both drawers. And they were, right down at the bottom. I asked him about it and he got all defensive and angry. i remained calm, but he still had an attitude. I know damn well it's not mine, and everytime i asked him he changed up his answer. First, he said that he found it on the floor and put on the 2nd shelf in his cabinet, then he said the first. I told him it wasn't in the cabinet and he said that he forgot where he put i

2007-08-11 04:17:23 · 28 answers · asked by Micole M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a friend of mine had been cheated on by her boyfriend. he did tell her, told her he screwd up, biggest mistake ever he says. this guy was very persistant, for 6 months straight, begging her to forgive and take him back, leaving flowers on her windscreen, chocolates at her doorstep and if he wasnt at work,he'd be sleeping on her doorstep. today, 12 years of marriage with 2 kids, they are still strong. he knew what he would lose. he swore he never do that again. and she is a very bright and clued on women and she knows he hasnt done anything that would suspect otherwise. HOW DID /WOULD SHE HAVE OVERCOME THAT? did she just know? is it his actions that proved to be worthy?

i always believed a cheater will never change its spots.

2007-08-11 04:16:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ever since his father's death, my husband has single handedly taken the responsibility of taking care & making his mother happy. Youngest if the four siblings he beleives that it is his most important duty. last year she moved in with us and I tried to welcome her to the best of my abilty, however I have soon realised that she is playing mind games & dirty games spoiling my r'ship with my husband. She behaves differently in front of him &behind his back makes me feel as an outsider in my own house. She would pass sly comments under her breath so I can hear but will always behave as the ever loving always comprimising mother in front of him. I understand her games and it makes me mad,but despite my making my husband aware of the situation he takes her side and blames me for being a drama queen and overreacting. All this is putting a heavy toll on our marraige as I can see my husband drifting away from me and hating me for not loving his motherthe way he does.

2007-08-11 04:11:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A group of physicologist explain. When they are taken by and older man he virtually becomes their father. So they never have to grow up and take on any responsibility. The older wives do most of the work and the youngest is pretty much always the favorite and treated as a child. She has an instand family with a mother and father who care for her all her life.
When she even becomes 30 her husband is usually 60 so even when she is 40 she seems young to a man and his older wives of 70. Even the children she has is cared for by older children, the men are schooled and seperated from the female children who are gone before their teenage years. They are married usually before puberty. That makes it easier for them to accept and older husband as a father figure. Hence there is no jealousy because they are just another child.
what do you think about this freedom from ever having any responsibility? someone a male relative holds your hand while you go to the store?

2007-08-11 04:09:56 · 8 answers · asked by Steven 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-11 04:09:36 · 7 answers · asked by IVELINA C 1 in Friends

I don't know how to approach the topic of next steps for myself and my daughter with my parents. They are very opinionated and dominating.

I have to decide if my ex-husband, daughter and I will live together once again as a family or my daughter will stay with me. We live in different states.

I have to make plans soon as my daughter's school starts soon and she needs to be mentally prepared for which school she is going to attend.

My father thinks that he and my mother should talk to my daughter and convince her that she should stay in California.

My daughter feels that my life will be smoother here, but more normal with her father.

I don't want to same situation to repeat with my ex-husband. It was hard for me to deal with his controlling ways and he could be verbally mean.

My dad gives too much importance to my job which will be ending soon anyway since its contract.

How do I start discussing this topic with my parents?

2007-08-11 04:08:24 · 12 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

I'm dating this guy his divorce will be over in two weeks He is the one that filed for the divorce she cheated on him they got married to quick as well. He treats me really well takes me out to dinner walks on the beach holding hands. We spend hours talking and enjoy being togeater. My friends think he is the perfect guy for me. He wanted our picture taken togeather and gave each of us a copy of it. He treats me better than any other man I have gone out with we have allot in common and get along great. He was upfront with me from the start that he is interested in me but since he is going through a divorce he said he needs space he wants to date me and others he said he is not looking for someone else date but does not want to feel restricted for ahwhile. He told me not to get my hopes up since he is not sure when he will want a relationship but said over time maybe. I'm very comforting to him through his hard times. He sure acts like he will want more in the future. What do you think?

2007-08-11 04:07:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating