what if I just work on reverse pschycology with both of them,If I stand aside and let him have his hearts fill it is not possible for mother & son to always see eye to eye give him the secluded cold shoulder without any confrontation . This wayhe getsto figure out himself what he has done and if this relationship is worth saving for him he will think more seriously about his mothers behaviour and see what he needs to do?
2007-08-11 04:50:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no it does not make sense
2007-08-15 02:01:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As people do not read minds very well this tactic will most often backfire on you. Good relationships, strong relationships develop from good communications. That means you may have to actually talk to your husband and work out some kind of agreement on how you BOTH want to handle any situation with his mother. At least if the relationship is worth saving for you.
2007-08-11 12:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by Critter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this question didn't make a lot of sense to me, except it seems your husband and his mother have some issues between them and don't always get along?
if this is the case, let them figure it out. stay out of the middle.
and keep the peace in your relationship with each one...
it's their problem, not yours, hon.
2007-08-11 12:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋