i want to do something for a person that i love and i told him things i didnt mean what can i do for him to forgive me
2007-08-11 04:52:26 · 15 answers · asked by Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try to explain to him what really happened and ask for his forgiveness. He will have to decide whether or not he will forgive. You can't make him forgive you but you can try your hardest to make sure that it happens if you love him that much. Depending on the person and sometimes what is said, it may take some time which means that there may have to be a lot of patience involved from you. You just have to let him deal in his own way and eventually if/when he opens up then that's your chance to completely explain. Just have patience and be understanding.
2007-08-11 05:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by mamashortydoowop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach the person and apologize. Start off by saying you understand how they felt when you hurt them and you were wrong. Most people just want to know that you understand their feelings and for you to realize you were wrong. Just by saying those few words can help everything fall into place and put the person on the road to forgiveness.
2007-08-11 12:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sincere apology is a good start. you can tell him face to face, if you want. Or, you can write a sincere letter.
I personally would like to receive a letter that states what was done that was hurtful, how you realize that it was hurtful (immature etc), how you think it impacted your friend (made him feel). It would be nice if your owned up to everything and state how valuable your friendship is to you. Ask what you can do to repair the relationship, and be willing to do what is needed to repair the damaged friendship.
Give your friend some time to re-read the letter, think about it, and make a decision. Honor his decision.
2007-08-11 12:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by terry p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just apologize - face to face - look them in the eyes when you say it and ask for forgiveness. If this doens't work, then back off a bit and give them time to soak it all in. If the friendship is true, they should respect your apology and move on. If not,well then you know.
2007-08-11 11:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by dparra33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at him in the eyes and say a simple honest Apologize..
and don't forget, do not push him to forgive you..
2007-08-11 12:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by ViLandRa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly what did you tell him? Well whatever it is just apologise and tell him that you didn't mean to say whatever you said. Just send him chocolate. Or a cake decorated with the word "SORRY". Maybe he'll forgive.If you were a little more specific i'd have given you a better answer
2007-08-11 12:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Drools over home made food 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have made an honest effort to attone for your words, then back off. He needs time. Give him space and tell him why you are giving him space. Show respect for him. If he decides are you not for him, respect that.
2007-08-11 11:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by Mom of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to invite the person where you both often visit,try to express your feelings convincingly and ask him to apologise you as he have love for you he will definetly forgive you.
2007-08-11 12:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to forgive you!
2007-08-11 11:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize sincerely.
trying to smooth things over by "doing things for" the other peson isn't the way to go about it.. believe me, this is what my ex boyfriend did... it was beyond him to open his mouth and say "i'm truly sorry for hurting you"...
2007-08-11 11:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋