Also she has a 15 year old son because she is divoced but it wasn't her fault. The reason why she got divorced was because she found out that her ex husband was dating behind her back and her son lives with her ex husband. And her son is 15 and I am 23. Is it still allowed? Also this women is related to me by marriage already because she is my sister-in-law's cousin by blood. So we are already related by marriage. I have had a crush on her since I was 13, wich was when my brother first met his wife who is now my sister-in-law, and now our family and her family are all family now. My sister-in-law's cousin has known me since I was 13 and she does not know that I have had a crush on her all these years. I even remeber when her son was 5 years old at that time when my brother was getting engaged to her cousin. Now I am 23 and she is 38 and I still have a crush on her. Am I allowed to marry her?
2007-08-11 04:33:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
See a psychiatrist. You need one really badly.
2007-08-11 04:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph C 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
This sounds a bit confusing and no offence, a bit 'red neck' like. So long as you are not actually related to her by blood then i think you would be allowed; i don't see why not. Age may not be a major issue now, but it could very likley be in the future; that all depends how much you both really and truely feel about eachother. Although I think you would be far better finding someone else, the choice is both of yours to make; whatever you decide.. good luck.
2007-08-11 05:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by laura j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are legally allowed to marry her, but it doesn't sound like you are anywhere close to marriage. 8 years of a crush? Starting when you were 13 and she was 28? Sounds more like the type of thing for a mother substitute. If not, it doesn't sound like something that will develop into mature love. Besides, she's almost 40--is she even interested in being with someone who's almost half her age?
2007-08-11 04:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by glurpy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHOAAAAAAAAAAA yes u can marry her legally, but really? Do u at 23 really want to get into this spider web? I wish you the best, and as a mom I would say take it slow and truly think about this decision. Sounds like a life full of DRAMA darlin
2016-04-01 04:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she know you like her and does she like you?? I think that the age difference is definitely a factor in the many reasons you shouldn't marry her....But, you are allowed to marry her all the same.
2007-08-11 04:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by avonwithjulie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally, I think so, since you two are not blood related. But if you just have a "crush", and not a serious relationship, this question is probably premature... try dating first and see if she's interested in you the same way.
2007-08-11 04:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by flybaby_amy 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes
2007-08-11 04:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely! Your over the age of 18 years of age.
2007-08-11 04:57:10 · answer #8 · answered by aintlifegrand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally, yes, but I SERIOUSLY advise you to reconsider pursuing this relationship. It doesn't have healthly beginnings. Try to find someone without so many family connections and issues.
2007-08-11 04:49:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief! Heed Joseph C.
2007-08-11 04:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing legal or biological that would prevent this. However, there likely will be some family members that may take issue with it.
2007-08-11 04:39:36 · answer #11 · answered by OOO! I know! I know! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋