Back when we were dating my wife and I had a MMF threesome with one of my friends. She was really into and had a great time. After it was over she promised me she would have a FFM threesome with me and another girl. The problem is we have had a couple of oppotunities, but she always backs out. Any advice?
2007-08-11 04:28:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
apparently she has grown up, matured and changed her mind.
keep pestering her about it and ruin your marriage, if that is what you want.
a threesome doesn't have any place in a marital bed.
2007-08-11 04:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 6⤊ 4⤋
Yikes. I'm afraid you're between a rock and a hard place!! I know she promised you to do this, but you're time may have elapsed to give her crap. You've grown a little more, you're married now, she's probably settled and not wanting to throw that into the mix.
You can do whatever you want, but pressuring her may turn out bad for you. She could get really defensive, start accusing you of cheating or saying she's not enough for you, etc.
Also, if you get what you want....I've heard that many marriages has suffered due to FFM threesomes. Mainly because the woman can't get the image out of her head of her man having sex with someone else, even if she did agree to it. I know three couples, 2 that led to divorce and 1 that's still on the rocks 3 years later that was in this situation.
Just be careful. I'm not saying it's fair to you, but you may not have any other choice.
2007-08-11 04:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ffm Wife
2016-12-17 17:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wife Ffm
2016-10-01 23:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude... most females would rather have a mmf threesome... good luck getting a ffm threesome...
I would advice letting the subject go as when your wife is ready and wants to have a FFM threesome she will tell you... Until then dont pressure her to do so, cause she will never do it...
2007-08-11 04:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by always wonderin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why don't you ask her why, tell her its ok if she doesn't want to do it (even though u might want to) You can tell her that if she really enjoyed it the last time how about trying it with another girl? tell her that it would make you happy, ask her what she would want in return? maybe she doesn't want a FFM, maybe she wants another MMF, find a median between the two of you, and you should be alright. And remember don't force it on her, it seems like you have a god relationship, no sense in ruining it over sex.
2007-08-11 04:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by PMCQ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that things must be different now, you are married. How many years ago did this MMF happen? I know that I have done a lot of crazy s**t before my husband and I were married but would never do now. Ask her if this is it. I am curious
2007-08-11 04:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by julia b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesn't want to anymore. If you love your wife, don't push it. It's gonna hurt her feelings. Maybe you could talk to her about it.. say..
"I've noticed that we've had a couple opportunites for this threesome, and you've backed away... have you changed your mind?" Then she'll let you know what up. Sorry if it doesn't work out
2007-08-11 04:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by sugarcookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you do not have any kids. Then tell her to get a good divorce lawyer and dump you.
Marriage is suppose to be a sacred thing. Adding another person to the mix takes anything good and positive out of the equation.
Maybe she told you she was into threesomes, because for some unknown reason she wanted to hang on to you.
Women have a tendancy to be very territorial toward their husbands. Hell should freeze over before you add another person regardless to their gender.
2007-08-11 04:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mom of 2 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Well, I do not have any advise but I have question for you: "Why in the world would you marry that girl that you have had MMF? especially with your friend?"
2013-12-30 07:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were a fool. To any man looking to share threesome fantasies with your wife, a piece of advice..ALWAYS get the FFM threesome first and choose the hottest women you can find. I say this because she will choose the guy with the muscular body and the huge slong. So you may as well get equal 3rd parties out of the experience.
My women and I discussed this after we found out a couple we knew were into the lifestyle. She want the MMF first and I said no way. I told her it will be the FFM first or none at all. She asked me why and I told her because I know you will back out of the FFM, but you would love the MMF. She said How do you know that? I said because you love when we use toys to DP you.
Big surprise neither ever happened. BE A MAN, and get what you want first.!
2014-05-19 11:34:03 · answer #11 · answered by newgunowner 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋