Family & Relationships - 11 August 2007

Alot of you asked how old she is.. Well,, she's 23 years old...

2007-08-11 11:56:51 · 10 answers · asked by lo_bug@sbcglobal.net 1 in Weddings

my wife of 10 years left me 4 months ago we have 4 children together (2,3,7,8,)she is 27 Im 28 ,Ive tried everything to get her back and I know if I get her back I have my kids under the same roof as me < she said she left me because we argue this that etc,etc, But come to find out she started to see her ex from high school who dumped her 12 years ago 4 her freind, Ilove my family i still cry every day and call her everyday asking her back my heart has been ripped out steped on and kicked around I wish I didnt have feelings IT HURTS IT HURTS SO BAD that somedays ijust want to end it but my kids keep me going (the smiles on their faces when they see me but then the tears in their eyes when they have to leave,I have hit my knees praying every day, I ask everyone to please pray for my family,Its so hard to love one woman deeply and not be loved back my friends say to replace her but im a one woman man and married,I just wish the pain would leave I hurt so so deep,any advice

2007-08-11 11:55:35 · 20 answers · asked by ELITE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was at the mall and I saw a gorgeous woman. She is far prettier than my current girlfriend. I haven't asked the woman if she's single yet. But I've been with my girlfriend for two years so how do I break up with her?

2007-08-11 11:54:51 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that she is much loved by her family when her friends have so very much influence?

2007-08-11 11:54:10 · 4 answers · asked by Walking on Sunshine 7 in Family

2007-08-11 11:51:33 · 13 answers · asked by kc 3 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so there's this boy, right. he's my dad's friend's son. He likes me. (well he likes the way i look) when i seen him,,he hasn't rele got a chance to talk to me. He said hi once.

But, anyway. I didn't know he liked me,,until yEstErdAy. he gave my dad hershey kisses to give to me. This suprised me,, becuz im just at the age when boys are starting to notice me. And a boy never thought about me,,to give me anything before. And i never thought a boy would be attracted to me. Now he wants to talk to me AND im am a-hella-nervous!!

does anyone have advice??

2007-08-11 11:49:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have never seen a counselor before, but I need to see one now. I was sexually abused as a kid, I have major trust issues and I really don't take rejection very well. I have anger management problems, exspecially when I feel rejected. Last night I lost it, my husband wouldn't kiss me because he didn't want to feel like he was forced to, I was so hurt, it was like tearing my heart out! I got drunk (not something that I usually do), I threw a mirior at the floor and broke it (yep 7 years of bad luck) I hit him and then, well then I really just wanted to grab a knife and kill myself! The only thing that stopped me was that I didn't know how to stab myself that would make me die, then I would end up in a hospital in the psych ward and I am closterphobic (is that how you spell it?) so that would not be good - so what kind of counselor do I need??

2007-08-11 11:49:10 · 14 answers · asked by Rosie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance' of 3yrs, 4 almost the first year the sex was great. I could feel everything everytime! all of a sudden one day. We had sex I ,amost fell in.. Later i asked her about it she said she didnt know why. ok, I love her so i tried not to worry about it. I slacked up on sex to try and see if it would go back to normal We agreed this would be a might work. This was 1 1/2 yrs ago. There times since when it seemed like it was getting better and some not. Well just recently we had sex and it felt even more loose than ever. She still doesnt know why. I cant figure out why neither of us can enjoy sex togther, it was so good during that 1st yr. now my motivation isnt there, She is very quiet and polite, but she has alway like to check out guys even when were together. She only goes to work and come hom, but there has been times whenshe when she left work and lied and said she didnt.I can deal w not entiely enjoy the sex. But I dolike honesty and she is always lying. Am I fooling myself?

2007-08-11 11:47:49 · 43 answers · asked by rocky1 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend [he's nearly as old as my dad] and he's always used to my jokes and witisisms, and I'm used to his. But today, he got pissed when I told him jokingly that he looks like Matthew Cuthbert from Anne of Green Gables. Well, he really does look like the old man--with white receding hair, white mustache, and whatnot.

2007-08-11 11:47:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well lets see here I have a boyfriend and we were together for a couple of weeks before I left for a summer program.He is 17 and I am 15. In the couple of weeks he asked me to marry him I said yes and then 3 or 4 days later I broke up with him. Then like a week later we get back together and he asked me agian to marry him. I said yes once again and now I am thinking that I am making the biggest mistake of my life what should I do

2007-08-11 11:44:03 · 22 answers · asked by Megan H 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my kids, I really do... but they are all teens now - all 3 of them.
They are great kids, and most things we handle together, but sometimes their logic and attitude are just beyond frustrating.

Do you have a story to share about your teenager?

2007-08-11 11:40:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i was supposed to see him i said ni feel sick. because i want to be with my 11 yr old daughter and 9 yr old neice. before i could tell him that he says whatever and hangs up on me. in all honisty i was supposed to see him friday. could not i was not well. well i have not seen him for w days and cried on two ocasiond when he hung up on me.

2007-08-11 11:38:49 · 33 answers · asked by gulible 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and i have being married for 7 year this month.we have had our ups and downs and lately we have not being able to stop arguing.
we have a beautiful 7 month old baby girl. she is the reason why I want to avoid the divorce. However my wife does not. i fear that baby will suffer the results of our decision.. I love my wife to death and i would do anything for her. and i know she loves me too deep in side. even though claims she is falling out of love for me.. she still tells me she loves me.. and that gives me hope.. I do not know what to do. she does not want counseling... but has agreed to it... but she says that she does not think it will help..
What can i do to save my marriage when she some times does not want to? i want to avoid us all three the pain of divorse. any advise will be helpful.

2007-08-11 11:38:07 · 32 answers · asked by jay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am going back to school monday and i am really nervous! what can i do? i am a sophmore but i am worried that my friends and i won't be friends and i have worried about that all summer. i know i should not care but all my friends are really mean to me and i dread going back what should i do?

2007-08-11 11:37:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We are both 15 just to point that out. We've been going out for about 2 mouths. He was the first one to say that he loves me. Then after about 1 millon times that he told me that, I told him that I loved him. He has slowly started to touch me. Last night he was really feeling me up. He stuck his hand under my shirt and sqeeze my boob. Then he was trying to put his hand down the front of my pants but I wouldn't let him. I didn't really have any control of the back of my pants. So he put his hand down there. Anyways, The TV was on and it said somthing about getting P*ssy. (We was watching the devils rejects)
He looked at me and said "Thats what I need." I was like "what?" He's like "I need some P*ssy." I was like "Oh..." He looked at me and said "Whenever your ready though, Okay?"

2007-08-11 11:37:32 · 11 answers · asked by Dr.DRE 4 in Singles & Dating

I always hear so many stories of Doctors who cheat on their Spouses... We are happily married... great sex and all... but Doctors work so many hours with the same people... what do you do to make sure you aren't another wife or husband who has been cheated on because of this?

I know the obvious... if he loves u and you have a great marriage, that won't be an option, but thats bull because their are lots of good people out there in the work world and it's hard not to fall for people you work with. What's a wife to do?

2007-08-11 11:34:38 · 20 answers · asked by lizzie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have alot of guys who just stare at me without even turning their head. They just stare at my face. Even if they see that I notice them, they just stand there keeping their keeping their eyes on me. So why do you guys do this? Is it natural to you all?

2007-08-11 11:32:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yeah should i, im nervous and shy around girls.

2007-08-11 11:27:36 · 21 answers · asked by CoolbutLonely =/ 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that it's been really difficult for him to forget what his ex done to him, but I really hate to hear those things. I always say to him: " Oh god! It's already over!!!!". I try to give him a chance, but it doesn't work out-----If you hear a song for million times, you would get bored of it right?

Should I break up with him?

2007-08-11 11:26:50 · 22 answers · asked by ☆Im_not_myself_today☆ 1 in Singles & Dating

i changed my colors to blue and white for my january wedding.I am wanting a snowflake themed wedding, since we live in south texas and it never snows. how would i go about doing a centerpiece? i like something with a candle....i also love the idea of using fake snow.....thanx

2007-08-11 11:25:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I don't think arranged marriage is that bad.... the divorce rates are lower...

2007-08-11 11:16:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It starts with a s and ends with a e and it is a weird name. What is her name?

2007-08-11 11:16:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My cousins wedding is today and she told me to write something on her car with that window paint any ideas???

2007-08-11 11:15:35 · 4 answers · asked by jcheek2010 2 in Weddings

My wife and I have been seperated since 2003.We have a 5 year old daughter.IWe have never been to court for divorce,child support or any of that.Even tho we havent been to court i have been paying child support anyways.theres a good chance the child is not even mine.Do i have to pay child support by law if we havent been to court.And Im in Texas

2007-08-11 11:14:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-11 11:12:25 · 6 answers · asked by Pinklady 1 in Weddings

My son lives with me goes to school from my home, and his mother lives in South Florida and has basically abandoned him and while visiting this week has abruptly demanded that he is staying with her now after a year, there is no custody order and he is with her right now so im trying to find advice on everything... it just happened a few hours ago so i am distraught but have typed up a much longer explanation that yahoo wont allow me to post here:

http://www.weneedmovers.com/letter.doc

Anyone who has gone through this before with any advice legal or anything would be greatly appreciated.

2007-08-11 11:11:26 · 8 answers · asked by J. Fitz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-11 11:10:32 · 18 answers · asked by Vicki 1 in Weddings

Ok she crys at the drop of a hat if i even look at another girl shes ready to cry and say i'm ready to cheat on her. Like wtf we are engaged im not going to cheat so chill the f out. Anyways whats her deal and what should I do?

2007-08-11 11:09:21 · 25 answers · asked by spayhappy 4 in Singles & Dating

they just really are not in to you? if they truly think thats the way you need to act for a fling - they should just come right out and say it. we either accept that or move on - then the next morning there is no recapping becuase the official intent is clear..
Im currently going through this right now....

2007-08-11 11:09:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do i get props for that? he was crying and got and ear infection. after that i told him it was his sister and now they dont talk but we're in our late 20's so he wouldnt talk to his sis anyway. i made fun of him only a little because he was crying during his doctorade degree celbration or watever from some "college" he calls northwestern, im like what a flipping liar thats a flippin' hotel or airlines, but whatever hes paying my bills anyways but dont tell him (im stealing his money) what a loser, ive nown him since 8th grade.


do i get props for that but my other frend says it was a little rude. he's such a baby.

2007-08-11 11:03:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends