I know that it's been really difficult for him to forget what his ex done to him, but I really hate to hear those things. I always say to him: " Oh god! It's already over!!!!". I try to give him a chance, but it doesn't work out-----If you hear a song for million times, you would get bored of it right?
Should I break up with him?
2007-08-11 11:26:50 · 22 answers · asked by ☆Im_not_myself_today☆ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's tough for people to forget about the past - if you love him, be patient - he's just scared of being destroyed by another female - be the one girl who gets him and lets him be himself
2007-08-19 06:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't break up with him, because he might need you there for support, but he doesn't need you there to rush his healing process. He's going at his own pace - listening to music for as many times as he likes. This helps him, believe me. It sounds to me like he got into a new relationship too quickly and he's not over his ex yet, sorry. Ask him to re-evaluate what he wants, and that you'll understand if he needs space.
2007-08-11 18:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Understood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he have a future with you if he is still living in the past? -Move on.
Ecclesiastes 7:10 (NIV)
10 Do not say, "Why were the old days better than these?"
For it is not wise to ask such questions.
2007-08-19 06:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously can't let whatever it is go. Sit him down and tell him what you've just written: that it makes you really uncomfortable and that you could repeat it all in your sleep. You have to at least let him know just how serious you are about this. If he still can't stop, break up.
2007-08-11 18:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by ferrisulf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should. Tell him that when he's put the past to rest, you might be available.....but until then, he's too tied up with his past gf to give you the time and depth of emotion a healthy relationship deserves.
2007-08-11 18:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he still isn't over his ex. But what you can do is have a nice long talk with him about how he keeping talking about her. ANd if he doesn't change just kick him to the curb and move on.
2007-08-11 18:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave him alone quickly. apparently he is not over his ex and the need for him to keep talking about it is crazy. tell him to call you when he is finish crying about his ex and can put that time and energy into you and the relationship. GodBless
2007-08-19 18:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really need more information. time.
together and so on.
But I'll try and help you as much as i can.
Yes..Leave him girl.
I cant stand to be near anybody who continually harps on about their ex.
Get over it yesterday and grow up. Are my words for Mr. Depression
Good Luck to you
2007-08-19 18:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if something as simple as a song bothers him, then he obviously still cares... save yourself the time and the heartache and walk away from him now. the longer you wait the harder it will be. sounds to me like you're just a rebound, and nobody likes to be in you're position. if he really cared about you he would be more considerate of your feelings.
2007-08-11 18:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by Kendra420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he doesnt need or is ready for a new girlfriend...maybe all he needs right now is a good friend who can listen and help him put the past in the past.
2007-08-18 22:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋