I always hear so many stories of Doctors who cheat on their Spouses... We are happily married... great sex and all... but Doctors work so many hours with the same people... what do you do to make sure you aren't another wife or husband who has been cheated on because of this?
I know the obvious... if he loves u and you have a great marriage, that won't be an option, but thats bull because their are lots of good people out there in the work world and it's hard not to fall for people you work with. What's a wife to do?
2007-08-11 11:34:38 · 20 answers · asked by lizzie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Plain and simple, if two people that are married
are happy; committed to each other; supportive of
each other; love each other; are honest to each
other; respect each other; then no-one or nothing
can step into their marriage habitat and ruin any-
thing- why because they have built such a solid
foundation it can not be broken into., I know as I
am married over20yrs.
2007-08-11 16:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by RudiA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-30 19:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure there are stories of doctors having an affair with someone they work with, there are also the same kind of stories about ditch diggers, or any other profession. If an individual is inclined to have an affair it doesn't make any difference what their profession is. If you and your husband have a good marriage he is probably not going to have an affair unless that is the kind of man he already is. So be the good loving wife and mother you have always bee and trust your husband. If you let these thoughts run your life then chances are your marriage will have trouble. This is something you should have resolved in your mind before you ever got married. Doctors do have a hard life and work longer then many but they are still humans and are not that much different then anyone else when it comes to their personal life.
2007-08-11 11:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by K K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not making light of your question or situation but people in all walks of life, regardless of their profession, cheat on their spouses. Doctor, barber, lawyer, secretary... universal. I will say this though that by the time a person goes through all of the school and training to be a doctor they usually gain a pretty large ego... and in my opinion men with large egos are more likely to cheat... not to mention that a doctor may age but they are usually surrounded by an endless wave of young and pretty nurses. Most of all you just have to trust your man... that is what it comes down to. If you make your affections available for him and the two of you work hard to build your life around one another, what else can you do?
2007-08-11 11:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you. Don't too many of them cheat. They are too tired if they work in the hospital. The answer is yes. They do cheat like all other men. Doctors in private practice are more prone to cheat than the ones working in the hospital. It's really nothing you can do. Just pray that you don't have to endure such pain. The mayor of Los Angeles just broke up his marriage because he is hot in the pants. And found a tramp to adhere to his wishes. Everybody will do what ever they please. And we can't stop them.
2007-08-11 11:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I work at a hospital and one of the married doctors had an affair with a Unit Clerk.
His wife didnt want children but his mistress was glad to pop one out for him.
It happens all the time and it takes a strong man to resist all the temptation...
2007-08-11 12:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do, and I speak from experience. I work at a well known hospital and see how married doctors, nurses, nurse assistants, you name it...ALL cheat! One of the CNA's that works here is seeing a married doctor, a lot of people know, but no one tells them anything! YES.......AND I'M SURE IT HAPPENS EVERYWHERE ELSE, NOT JUST IN THE MEDICAL PRACTICE!
2007-08-11 12:17:48 · answer #7 · answered by In love with love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A coworker who is by all accounts happily married is attempting to begin an affair with me right now. His wife has NO clue. Unfortunately there is no way to ever be sure.
2007-08-11 11:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Maple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've worked with doctors for 8 years.
None of the doctors i have ever worked with had an affair with anyone in the office.
I have worked at one practice with 5 doctors, and another practice with 15 doctors.
Don't worry. :)
2007-08-11 11:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"it's hard not to fall for people you work with" No it's not. You simply make the CHOICE not to fall for people you work with. ANYONE who truly loves their spouse wouldn't be inclined to fall for someone they work with, simply because their love wouldn't allow them to. If a wife doesn't trust her spouse then she obviously wasn't ready for marriage to begin with and should have worked out her trust/self esteem issues prior to saying "I do". If you don't trust your spouse based upon what other people do then you've already doomed your marriage to failure.
2007-08-11 11:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋