Ok so im dating this guy but he lies so much about what he does with me. And im gettin tired of it...and so is everyone else. Now we have all talked to him about everything but he denies it all and i want to break up with him for that but i like him alot and i think thats the only reason i push the lies to the side. And also im still in love with my ex.(and he called me a few weeks ago, i think trying to get back with me.) And everyone tells me that both guys are wrong for me but i dont want to let go of my past with my ex. and i dont wanna lose what i have with my current boyfriend...what should i do??
2007-08-11 04:40:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let them both go. Take some time and figure out what YOU really want.
2007-08-11 04:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your liar of a boyfriend!
Do not get back with your ex, all it might be is a 'rebound relationship', and those do not last...
Do not date anyone for a while,
Figure out what YOU want in a relationship
Then find your boundaries
Stick to your guns
Then look for someone that is more compatible...
There you will have a better relationship with someone that would be, I am quite shure, better than the ones with your ex- and current boyfriend.
If you can let go, then you can have an opportunity to get one better!
=]
2007-08-11 11:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dee_Smithers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for option #3, a new totally different boyfriend unlike #s 1&2. There is a reason why #1 is an ex and his lying is why #2 is about to become another ex.You dont need neither one so its time to move on and try another. Good luck
2007-08-11 11:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to fix yourself first. Never mind the boyfriends, they are not you although they reflect your choices. I would say get rid of them both. Then do something for yourself for a change. Get into a new hobby / sports. Join a guild / club. Anything that will take you away from these things into something a little more wholesome. Let the tumult and confusion die down.
Then, when things have calmed down and you are more in control of yourself, love will just naturally come your way and you will be in a much better position to enjoy it for all it has to offer.
2007-08-11 11:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey there are way too many men out there for you to settle for two losers. I know it is hard to be alone but believe me it is better than you think. You will find the right guy when you are not looking. Get rid of both of them and concentrate on yourself, your career or school, and your friends, who will stick around to help you get over both guys.
2007-08-11 11:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by tuckerjess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you sound pretty messed up lol. You know he lies to you, but you will push that to the side to be with him. I would go with what every1 says on this one. Both are wrong.
2007-08-11 11:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by Will999909 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you'll just have to cheat with both of them or make a decision. Of course, you could always try and find someone new so you won't have these issues. Good luck babe,
askaman
2007-08-11 13:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by www.askaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on, get rid of both of them and find a new person. There are plenty of better people out there for you.
Good luck
2007-08-11 11:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Lemonade is Good 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, and stay away from both. the ex is an ex for a reason.
2007-08-11 11:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL i got the same problem but with girls 2 years ago
i just started over
2007-08-11 11:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by othman c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋