i want her boyfriend to be mine?

Question

I want to get her boyfriend? (she is not a friend or anything)
Her boyfriend told me i'm a hottie and asked me if i had anyone. and i like him back...?
they've been together for a few years but me and the guy met and the chemistry between us is amazing. I know him for almost 6 months and i like him more and more and he does the same. but we didn't even kiss, all we did was talk. but we both can see the attraction is amazing...
On the other hand, he lives in the same place with his gf and go to the same university. He also has a job that takes him a lot of time...
But i really like him, and I feel he feels the same...
do you think i have a chance to be with him?

Answer 1

Would you really want to be with somebody who might do the same thing to you later on? The chemistry may be there, but obviously he likes to play the field more than his girlfriend knows and probably even you know. Don't you think you deserve someone better than that?

Answer 2

Questions like the one you're asking piss me off dd. That's wrong and you know it. If it so happens that you end up with this guy you like so much, he's gonna end up really hurting his current girlfriend and god knows what kind of effect that's going to have on her. How would you feel if that girl was you? Did you think about that? Would you like it if you were live in boyfriend was cheating on you with a girl who has the same motives as you do? Besides, you don't want to be with a guy who's willing to leave his girlfriend who probably Love's and ADORES him. Does that mean anything to you dd? Well, it does to his girlfriend. I actually feel sorry for this creeps girlfriend. And guess what? If you do end up with him, not only is he gonna devastate her, but he's gonna eventually get tired of you and find someone else even HOTTER than you and ultimately devistate you too dd! Do you have a chance with him you ask? NO! It's non-nogotiable. You're gonna do an about-face and stop talking to him and leave their relationship alone. And don't ever think about trying to destroy someone els's life again! You understand? Chemistry or not, don't even go there. COMPRENDE?

Answer 3

Leave them alone.
Honestly, if you DID get the guy, how would you feel if he did that to another girl and she tried to steal him away from you? Would you like it? Put yourself in his current girlfriend's shoes. Besides, he doesn't seem very faithful judging from the way he talks to other girls while he has a girlfriend. But if they're happy together, leave them be, because I know that I'd sure as hell beat up the girl who tried to rip my boyfriend away from me...

There are plenty of other guys out there, who are single. While you're looking, you can pray that they break up or something. But in the meantime, don't meddle. You don't want to become a homewrecker..do you?

Answer 4

If that guy still also in a good relationship with his current girlfriend, and you just a company, I'm not trying to been rude, but don't you think you a little try to ruin their relation ship?
If he love you, and he follow you, and what happen to the other girl ?
Imagine if you were in the other girl role, would you accept to hear this, and been heart broken ?
But i don't know, and it will be a love triangle, you can only solve this with your lover and your self, nobody can help you about your serious relation ship!
- I wish everything going well on your relation ship, and the future!

Answer 5

They've been together for a few years, so she is not just a passing thing. They have been establishing emotional roots together. He may be attracted to you, hot chemsitry and all that, but he's looking for something on the side. Don't set yourself up for a world of hurt. He's not leaving her for you.

Answer 6

why why? He sounds just awful and what he is doing to his gf he would do to you. Do you need that experience?----sounds like pain---is this the chemistry you want ? He's a cad stay well away and pity the girl that has to put up with this sort of behaviour. Would you really like it to be you? Are you a glutton for punishment ?

Answer 7

You'd be getting yourself a bad reputation if you tried to split this guy and his girlfriend up. I suggest just either waiting until the pair split up themselves (baring in mind that may not happen for several months/years) or just move on and find yourself a SINGLE guy; that's the best policy. Good luck!

Answer 8

Here's some food for thought. If this guy dumps his current girl friend to be with you, what's to say he wouldn't do the same to you somewhere down the line when he meets someone new. I you like this guy and want to be with him, I would suggest you tell him to sort things out with his current girl friend and then look you up when/if he's single.

Answer 9

i think there are two impotrant pionts that you know are they are not easy and they show many deitals. (1)they are they've been together for a few years buttt you know him for 6 mounths.(2)he lives in the same place with his gf, which means they are in big love with each other.(3)he go to the same university. if he told you that he love you than is is easy to test his love to you , that is by teling him to leave this girl friend. if he did that he realy love you, but if he did nottt that he does not love you and you should leave him as fast as you can. it is easy for boys to love any girl and broke with her, but it is not easy to girl to love any boy and leave him. so just be carful and test his love to you.

Answer 10

Yep youll get together for a couple months then break up and both be without...leave him alone and go find someone that isnt in a relationship. Its people like you that screw up a good thing.