I have a wonderful boyfriend who makes me laugh and i love him loads!
But there are these two other guys who I have been seeing behind he back, not becuase I hate him but for....money.
Im not a whore or nothing and they both have girlfriends it just that meeting up with them and havin sex, turns me on so much, and I get paid, really good, money. The buy me saucy outfits to were and play around in. I like the sneaking around part of it.
We meet up in hotel rooms, or were ever the back of cars and have sex like crazy. Screaming and moaning becuase its sooo good. I get loadsa money for it £200 a time.
But I need to stop! and I dont know how, my boyfriend doesnt know, but both of the guys have threatened to tell him if I stop seeing them, and I dont want to loose him.
HELP!! :(
2007-08-11 06:11:28 · 21 answers · asked by Flo C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, you just gotta spice it up a little more. Only 2 guys? Only 200 dollars? What are you thinking?
I guarantee you can get at least 4 other guys to join in the sex if you talk to the other 2, and if each chips in only 100 dollars thats already 600 dollars. And imagine how many orgasms you will have with 6 guys!
If you bf isn't down with you having a good time and exploring yourself sexually then he obviously isn't much of a boyfriend. If he really loved you he would encourage you to have as many gang bangs as possible.
2007-08-11 06:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to look past the dictionary terminology. The truth is that yes while that is the dictionary/medical/sociological term, to actually be gay in current society there needs to be more than just a physical aspect, but a mental/emotional aspect as well. Despite what the medical definition may say, men who have sex with other men without a mental attraction are not gay, they're just men who have sex with men. What you do in bed does not determine your sexuality, it just determines how open minded/kinky you are. Unfortunately in the aspect of gay issues and terminology the medical understandings are still decades behind.
2016-04-01 04:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its too late for that.
I hope you learn something from this.
I can't imagine how many people those guys you are sleeping with have already told. Guys always tell their friends everything. Only wimps will break down and spill the beans to a girl but chances are a ton of people already no.
And what you are doing is in fact whorish and prostitution.
If you want to live that lifestyle you can't really have a significant other. You are being very selfish.
2007-08-11 06:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by Jeseth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your boyfriend yourself as soon as possible. It always hurts less when it comes directly from the source and not from other people. And once you tell him, he'll either accept it & love you for who/what you are, or he'll freak out and leave you. Either way, you owe it to him not to deceive him any longer.
If you really like the money and you really like the sex, do what makes you happy. But if you really love your boyfriend and want to be with him, then talk to him about it and if he wants you to, then give up the prostitution. But don't go on keeping this from him at the risk of being outted by one of the other men!!!!
2007-08-11 06:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jemmie Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what a whore is?
Forget that part; you really can't have it both ways - at least not forever. Either you quit or come clean.
The worst could happen if someone else tells him
Good luck
2007-08-11 06:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by true_value5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are a whore, infact some people might have the impression your a hooker or a prostitute.... If you need money why don't you just get a job besides selling yourself for sex?
2007-08-11 06:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by AZTECAMAN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide. Maybe you can have it both ways, but he catches you, he will leave. Some get caught. Some don't.
They are black mailing you. If you do decided to quit, tell him first, before they do. He probably won't understand, but he might. You might also talk to the cops. But stop taking the money.
2007-08-11 06:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with having fun.
It is of course not nice for your boyfriend to do it behind his back. But don't listen to these people calling you bad names. They are nasty, prejudice and probably religious in a bad way. They always judge other people. You are not killing anybody.........
2007-08-12 03:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by Jimster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made your bed so you have to deal with the consequences of your actions.. It sounds like it is time to be honest.. But get ready for a break up...
2007-08-11 06:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by precious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously enjoy the danger aspect. Consider though that you may bring a STD (or worse) back to your real life.
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2007-08-11 06:18:43 · answer #10 · answered by ♪ Pamela ♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋