My little Sister is out camping and doesnt know yet. She is a fragile person, whats a good way to break this news to her? I am headed up to get her. Stupid question i know but im still in shock and finding it hard to think straight.
2007-08-11 04:01:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I was woken up with that same news in 2004. It was a shock!
Though you may want to tell her right away, it might be best to wait until you are home. In the car could be dangerous if she really loses it. Or tell her somewhere private before leaving for home, but I would suggest not doing it in the car.
When it does come time, just tell her what happened. There is no way you can say it that will make it easier... none.
It is going to be a tough time in all of your lives, stick together and you will get through it.
2007-08-11 04:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be in shock for a long time. I have lost both my parents and it never gets easier. Your sister will be devastated but so long as you are prepared for this you can suffer the pain together and be supporive of one another. When you get to her tell her there is something you need to tell her, but wait untill she is alone with you before you break the news to her. If she needs you to pull over, then pull over and give her the biggest cuddle. You are hurting just as much as she is and you probably need one as much as she will. Tell her you will both have to be strong and face this together. I'm so sorry for your loss and I wish you every happiness in the future.
2007-08-11 04:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is extremely no longer a accident. I had something like that ensue to me some years in the past while my dad exceeded. right here is the story... i haven't considered my dad for extra or less 2 years, because i desperate to leave each and every thing and everybody in Poland and flow to the States. He had maximum cancers. He additionally exceeded directly to the finished beyond in February, yet 6 years in the past. nicely the evening in the previous my birthday (October), I went to sleep... at that factor I lived with that American kinfolk, yet they have been away for trip, so i became there with the canines. every time I stayed there by way of myself, i could enable the canines sleep on my mattress. It became a great, yellow lab. day after today early in the morning, that canines began barking. That became form of surprising, because of the fact he became previous and lazy, under no circumstances extremely barking lots. It became approximately 7 am, so i theory "ok, time to enable him out". As I opened the door, I observed that balloon acceptable in front of my door, out in the hallway. It became completely in the middle, like somebody only measured the area from the two components. It mentioned satisfied Birthday. of path I knew it became my dad, i began out crying.... i do no longer understand how that baloon have been given it the residing house, as i did no longer see it in the previous. and no-one had birthday around that factor. It ought to have been someplace in a first mattress room, yet even there, I ought to have observed it. i think of it became my dad telling me satisfied Birthday. :)
2016-11-12 01:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear about your father's death.... it's difficult when we experience the loss of a loved one, that's for sure.
i suppose that, you will just have to sit down with your sister and tell her your father is gone. no matter what, she will be upset.
everyone has a different way of handling death and dying. you could do a search on "coping with grief" or simply grief for some self-help, if you find either you or your sister need some support. also "coping with a father/parent death" as well.
take care and i wish you all the best. hugs
2007-08-11 04:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your dad. There really isn't any way. But i was the one too tell some of my brothers. I just stopped by his place. And made it the first thing i said. didn't say hi how are you any of it. Just said Dad died last night.
Had i waited he would have been mad for me waiting. He said later TY for doing it when you did. she'll realize there isn't any good time or way to tell someone thissort of news.
2007-08-11 04:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by ball 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that... break the news to her calmly. Take it easy although it hard..... to have someone we love and being with us for years has gone. She is fragile person and of course you are strong to make sure she overcome this sad news.
2007-08-13 02:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by Violet1972 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. :(
When you pick up your little sister, just be as gentle and understanding as you can. You will need to greive together, so make sure that both of you take the time...
Either way, she is going to be upset, understandably, so just try your best to remain calm, but don't be stoney...she will need to know that you are upset as well...
2007-08-11 09:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by xylina_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, so sorry to hear that... maybe you should wait and tell her after you get home, where she can be with rest of the family, might be a lot easier on you both. you have my condolences for your loss, God will give you guidance , take a minute and pray with him before you go to be with your sister.
2007-08-11 04:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my deepest sympathies to you and your family, I know the pain you are going through,
2007-08-11 04:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by mutt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋