Would you be mad if someone did this?

Question

Your "BFF" won't return your phone calls, myspace comments, and IMs- Would you be mad?

Answer 1

at first. but maybe your friend is going through something rite now and cant find time to return to ur messages.

Answer 2

I think I would be more concerned than mad. If this is a friend that usually gets back to you quickly, you may have to consider that something is wrong...and not in your friendship. You need to really think about what kind of things may keep this friend from getting back to you. Are they working crazy hours? Are they getting ready to go back to school? Is it possible someone in the family is sick? Maybe they are sick and just haven't gotten around to being able to call/comment back/IM back. These are just things to take into consideration. But if it has been a good amount of time that you've been ignored, then, yes I think being angry would make sense. It is not right not to know why you are being ignored.

Answer 3

Well, how long has it been since your friend hasn't responded to you? If it's been only a day or two, I wouldn't worry much. People get busy, and perhaps he/she isn't deliberately snubbing you. If you really think that this person is avoiding you, you're gonna need to ask. I always feel like if I ask, and you don't tell me then it isn't really fair to be mad. Just let the person know "Hey, I haven't heard from you in a while and I'm wondering if something is wrong? Did I do something to offend you? Or is there something going on at home/work that you need some help with?"
Try this for starters.

Answer 4

I'm not sure if I would be mad, I would certainly have my feelings hurt. Sometimes the more you try to make contact the more they back away. Perhaps you could wait a little while and email your friend and ask if you have done something that up set her/him. Let them know if so it was unintentional and you would like to correct the error. If you get no response you should leave the situation alone. Sometimes friends fade apart and will dodge the other rather that say something mean or something to hurt the others feelings. Good Luck

Answer 5

This is why I am not to fond of electronic communication.

People are too sensitive about matters they cant control.
How do you know that maybe your friend wants to respond but just cant.

Or maybe they dont even know you tried contacting them.

I understand the personally communicating can be difficult, but its the best way.

Dont beat yourself up because your best friend isnt responding right now. If you are truly best friends, there must be a reason and you need to be patient.

Answer 6

I think I'd be more hurt then I would be mad. Maybe you should stop by her/his house and see if she's upset about something. She could just be going through a rough time and not want to deal with anyone. Give her some time and see if she tells you what's up.

Answer 7

I would be mad, but before I go torch their house, I'd go see them in person and make sure that they are okay and see if they have a good reason for not returning my calls.

Answer 8

Yes. But that's because I'm an over-sensitive person...so I don't know. That's why I never show my name either. A guy that's emotional shows that he has a weak spot. Am I weak. That gives me an idea for a question, but I'm too lazy to type it down right now. Urgh...

Answer 9

Not at first I wouldn't. If it continued for a long time I would be more concerned rather then mad

Answer 10

No, she just wouldn't be my BFF anymore. She shouldn't ignore you when she wants to and talk to you when she wants to. Leave her alone, TRUE friends dont act like that.