my boyfriend has been my best friend for 10 years, weve been dating for like 2ish months and i have to break up with him. im 16 and hes 18. i am a competitive figure skater and that is all i do lol. i recently broke my foot and i am still on a break from skating for 2 weeks. my coach is making me break up with him because he is a "distraction" he tries to work with my scheudual but i really only get to see him for like an hour on sundays and like 10 mins a day durring the school year. its really not fair to him but he says he loves me and hes happy with the time he does get to see me. he even watches me at practice but my coach says that he cant and i talked to him and hes said "its skating or me" i train from 4-7, do to school 7:30 till 12(i get to leave early so i can train, on the ice 12:30 - 5, then the gym 5-7 and back on the ice 7-9. so i train 11 and a 1/2 hours 6 days a week and on sundays i train a half day. how do i break up with him and not hurt him?
2007-08-11 09:38:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
durring the summer i train from 5-5 7 days a week so i get to see him a lot more in the summer, my coach says i have to break up with him if i cant make it work. do you have any idea how i can make it work? but durring the school year i have a 10 oclock cerfew and i have to get up a like 3:30 for practice, so durring school time i can never see him but he usually just sleeps over cause he lives next door. so now that he cant come to practices he usually comes to visit during my 30 min dinner break but it sucks that we never see each other. can i make it work?
2007-08-11 09:39:33 · update #1
You can't make this work. As a skater it's clear it takes ALL your time.
He will be hurt no matter what....just be honest with him.
2007-08-12 08:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋