well, i'm with a guy right now and we just recently became bf/gf and whatnot. i mean noone knows him like i do... he tells me more things than he tells anyone so we have a great connection. every keeps telling me he's bad news and that i should stay away and all that jazz but i don't really see why they are saying it. we've been with each other pretty much every day for 2.5 months and have only had one argument that lasted a total of like 4 minutes.
everyone's opinion is getting on my nerves... am i doing the right thing by listening to my heart and not others?
2007-08-11 05:20:12 · 9 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so the thing is... no i haven't known him the longest... and no i dont' know everything about him. but his best friend whom he's known forever and a day tells me i'm making a really good choice by being with him. and he can tell that i've changed him without trying to at all. so somehow or another i've impacted his life and still managed to stay the same.
the people telling me he's bad news have known him less than i have.
2007-08-11 05:35:16 · update #1
You might think you know him the very best, but they may have known him longer and know more about him than you. Ask them a few questions, what do they mean, how do they know, when was this? Some people have a great way of hiding things till it gets so deep in a relationship before you know.
Don't mean to be negative, but many years of experience have taught me, I am an older woman and know how it works.
After they explain you may change your mind or confront him, that is your decission, be you may want to be careful not to get your heart broken and be safe. Love can be blind !!!
2007-08-11 05:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by lana s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there must be reasons why people are telling you he's bad news. You didn't include any of that. Just be careful. I've been in the same boat as you a couple of times. Saying "I know him differently than everyone else." Turns out, everyone else was right and I just wanted to believe all that wasn't true. Until a year of my life was wasted. Sometimes we put on rose colored glasses to see what we want to see in someone. And sometimes it's genuine. Only you can know the answer and ultimately, you're the opinion that matters, not everyone elses. If you feel being with him is right and there's nothing making you think otherwise, than go for it. If there is a little concern about being with him, really ask yourself what you're getting into, talk to people that you're closest to, and make a decision based on your future, not how you feel now.
2007-08-11 12:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is some doubt in your mind that leads you to wonder though, otherwise you wouldn't be on here asking us, you should ask yourself a really important question, what do I really know about this guy.
2007-08-11 12:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely
2007-08-11 12:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Riddle 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
y dont you ask the people that is tell you he is a bad person y they think he is a bad person then try telling them that you hang with him all the time and you don't see hime as a bad person.
2007-08-11 12:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by rainbow stud 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes!Dont listen to other people cuz its your relationship and not theirs.So listen to yourself not what other people say.It's your bisness so you can tell them to stay out of your bisness.Its up to you about how you feel about a guy!Good luck!Bye!
2007-08-11 12:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by TayTay 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
YES YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING CAUSE EVERYBODY ELSE OPINION DOESN'T MATTER JUST YOURS IT YOUR CHOICE NO ONE ELSE
2007-08-11 12:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by marie8701 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do what you want.
2007-08-11 12:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by packerswes4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give a krap about what other poops think
2007-08-11 12:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jensen 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋