Ok,So I really like this guy.
He doesnt talk much though and he is SO cute.
Anyway I want to make him like me. I know I cant really MAKE him but ...What should I say to him. I got his phone #. Well I want to text him. But what should I say?? Please help
2007-08-11 05:01:26 · 32 answers · asked by H0TTCHiCK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Hey, want to go see 'Bourne Ultimatum'?"
2007-08-11 05:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first call a group party and plan to go to the mall or the movies. This is a great way to start out because neither of you will be uncomfortable when there's a whole group of friends having a good time. If he's shy, I'm sure on a first date there will be a lot of awkward silent moments, and then you'll end up saying something dumb just to start a conversation.
2007-08-11 05:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by aberhollister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hand write him a letter if he doesnt talk much. I wish you would have included more info about him. IF he's a darker personality, which Is what I am assuming, then the letter is def the way to go. It says I took time and thought about what to say and put it on paper. If he doesn't talk much and hes a pretty happy go lucky guy who always has a lot of friends then maybe hes not into you. Maybe hes just shy and a nice little letter will pique his interest.
2007-08-11 05:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by wherewasgodforthelost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you got a shy guy on your hands. The best thing to do when someone is shy and you want to gain their interest is to make the first move and call them. If you know his interests at all and you have some common ground then use that to your advantage and suggest a place you would both enjoy, meet up and have fun. That's all i can say without knowing more that what you've written.
2007-08-11 05:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by miahj2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do - don't throw yourself at him.
Next - don't gush when you talk to him. Find out if he likes a sport and then research that sport for LOCAL games.
THEN DO THIS: As you walk by him, say hi, how are you? and let it go- walk on by. Do that a couple of times and then STOP and ask him if saw or heard about the local game. That should get him started. Let him talk and YOU listen. Even if he talks about different kinds of surfboard waxes. You listen. Guys like females who are good listeners.
2007-08-11 05:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by 8-) Nurf Herder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him there is a lot of things you have to tell him and you hope to learn somethings from him.
invite him on a date with a whole bunch of other kids. this way he wont feel stuck and don't know what to say.
when you go out on the group date, be certain to ask if he is ok and comfortable. touch his hand when you have the chance. hold hands for a few seconds.
smile, stick close to him without being too obvious.
after the date, let him know how much you enjoyed it, especially holding hands even for a little bit.
let him know it was very special because he was there. position the conversation so that its easy for him to ask you you. if he doesn't ask, you tell him you would like to go out again.
don't be too pushy, but let him know like him much.
goof luck!
2007-08-11 05:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is quiet cause he doesn't know what to say around you. This is probably a good sign for you cause it means that he doesn't want to say anything stupid. You need confidence, you seem intimidated and you shouldn't be you already have his number. If he didn't like you he would have blown you off already, so make your move and believe me he will respond. Find out what his intrests are and ask about them, that will get him to talk.
2007-08-11 05:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by C-Bus Topcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, I really can't tell you how to talk to him. I can tell you a number of things to tell him and it would be right or wrong, depending on the person.
I say just say what you feel in your heart. There is nothing better than that. Talking from your heart is way better than getting suggestions from people who might just tell you the wrong thing. It would be more sincere, trust me.
2007-08-11 05:09:55 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Kristin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off you want to be FRIENDS nothing special. Next you need to learn more about him/ fears, hopes, likes, dislikes, etc. Next you need to ask him to see a movie or something cool that he likes, but don't bring him too movies like legally blond... guys don't want to see that! so offer for him to choose the movie. Make sure that he knows that you're only going out as friends. Finally ask him if he wants to go out. Thats what my girlfriend did for me and were going out on dates to this day.
2007-08-11 05:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jensen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's shy, then start off slow. Don't come across as needy or overly pushy. Invite him to go out on a 'group outing' (the word date might freak him out). Take a large group of friends and go to a movie, get ice cream, something but not too formal.
2007-08-11 05:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by XxKatiexX 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm. . . ok. . .
you have to TEXT him. . .
what to tell??
hmmm. . . why not start with a simple "hi". . .
and then. . . tell him who you are. . . and say informations about him that you know. . .
then, start with it! when he said something that is somehow common with you, ellaborate those things that he said to expand the conversation you are having. . .
and maybe, text him oftenly. . . until it's a habit for the both of you to text each other. . .
and then maybe, he might like you. . .
just find the right timming. . .
GO GIRL!! ;)
2007-08-11 05:13:53 · answer #11 · answered by emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋