So I asked a question wondering if other girls started to think about what kind of a husband, provider, father etc... a guy would be when you really start to get interested in him.
NOw I want to know if guys do the same thing. Do you think about your future with her? Consider what kind of a mother, wife, provider etc...she would be?
2007-08-11 05:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea i like to know what her future plans are and how we could spend our future together etc
2007-08-11 05:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by daz1190 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys brains arnt wired that way,really we think about what shes going to look like at 30, 40 etc..guys are visual and since that is the case especially in a young relatiionship even when we get serious we dont think that way..really,, now if you already have a child in the picture that would for sure be a consideration..
2007-08-11 12:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
itssalloverated,My dear no it is not,love is the best ! Yes I thought about all that before I was married but boy was I wrong ! I made the mistake of letting my pity for her cloud my vision. After7 years of being used as a money tree, she divorced me ! Now I wait and leave it up to the lord. If he puts a lady in my life who is pretty, compassionet,a true best friend and truehearted wife who loves the lord and my family I may marry again ! If not oh well I messed up.
2007-08-11 13:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But I try not to. This is NOT the best thing to do if you are starting out. you would be painting a future that is so perfect and when the relationship fails, you will feel the weight of this illusion fall down on you. Yes, but i try not to.
2007-08-11 12:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think about that long before I would ask a girl out. If I don't think a girl would make a good mother, I wouldn't date her.
2007-08-11 14:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do becuase having a child of my own alredy i always think of his needs first so this girl would have to be a good mother to become my wife
2007-08-11 12:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by zack_attack. so original right? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nobody is perfect
I need a woman ;) , is there any these days ;) ?
2007-08-11 12:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋