Ive been with my bf for 3 years and the sex is really dull its becoming more like a chore than anything.
Any one got any tips to make it more exciting thanks
2007-08-11 05:53:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on what you guys are comfortable with trying. new rooms, new posistions...
try getting a sexy new nighty and surprise him when he comes in one day. ask him and tell him about your fantasies or things you've wanted to do or try.
as long as you guys are up for it, there are endless ways to keep the sex new and fun.
good luck and have fun!
2007-08-11 06:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you love him? it doesnt matter what food you put on each other or where you do it etc, if you dont feel a connection when you have sex then all these different techniques and games will soon become boring and chore-like until they are all used up and you are back to square-one. Concentrate on getting into the spiritual side of sex and actually making a connection then whatever you add to the sex will only help to enhance this connection rather than just serve as an alternative.
2007-08-11 13:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Chris H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a very similar situation. All of the suggestions on here are really good for what you do DURING sex, but I think it has just as much to do with BEFORE sex. Really, how long has it been since the two of you dressed up for eachother and went on a hot date? You remember how you used to spend so long getting ready to look hot for him? I bet the two of you couldn't wait to get home to make love. And that kind of sex isnt dull or boring...its exciting and powerful.
So plan a date night, dress up, look beautiful, and flirt like crazy the whole time. make him want you so bad he cant wait to get home. I tried this a couple of months ago and we ended up doing it in his truck....in the parking lot! He just couldn't wait. It was dark of course..........
Good luck!
2007-08-11 13:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex has not limitations in bed.The bedroom must be full of exiting and you must do with your boy friend and he must do the same to you from A to Z.Be kinky.Kinky is the name of the game.Don't be shame,is only you and him in the room.Remember this, not limitations.Never.
2007-08-11 13:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Toys,Role Playing....try having sex in different places, like outside or in a public place...
2007-08-11 13:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by wdm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some spiked high heels, some fishnet stockings and lace panties. If that don't spice things up, I don't know what will.
2007-08-12 04:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it in a different location. Incorporate erotica books or sexy movies. Maybe even incorporate toys or role play.
2007-08-11 12:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by mz_neemarie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up and get a new partner. That will spice things up for sure.
2007-08-11 16:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by Savage H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Meet him at the door wearing your sexy underwear.
2007-08-11 13:01:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
roll play and fulfill each others fantasy...and/or do an4l
2007-08-11 12:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋