Is there any possible way to make someone fall in love with you?

Question

Ive seen people just keep going and going after that special someone till they get them in the end is that not making someone fall for you?

Answer 1

No, you can set up a situation, but you can't force love

Answer 2

I don't think that is something that you can make happen. You can do everything in your power to see that he has all of your best qualities and that he knows what direction you are trying to go in but don't rush it. You just have to be patient until he either comes around on his own or you realise it is useless. But you can't make anyone fall in love with you and sometimes when that happens people will say things to you that they think you want to hear and not the truth. Just hold on and ask questions like "do you think you could fallin love with me?" or "if you feel like being with someone is not working and you can't fall in love with them do you let go or hold on?" then take it from there.

Answer 3

Not necessarily... I do not believe that you can MAKE someone love you. I have seen some people "give-in" to later discover that no matter how much someone else says they love you, if you don't feel it, you can't fake it.

Sometimes it takes awhile for someone to realize that another person is the one that they would choose to be with.
It's OK to make an effort to let someone know you are interested in them, but I don't think it is healthy to try to hard-sell yourself to someone. You are human, not a product.

If he/she doesn't appreciate your desire to be a couple, go on with your life. HE/She could realize at a later time that it would be nice to be with you...or you could find the RIGHT person in someone else.

Answer 4

You can't make anyone fall in proper "love" with you. Love is from the heart and it can't be forced. But the best way to get a guy to fancy you is to get his attention. Stamp on his foot, pour a drink on him accidentally on purpose, do everything you can to get his attention - then completely ignore him. If it doesn't work then look at some other people's answers.

Answer 5

i was in a relationship with a guy and before 2 months went by he said, and i quote "i hope someday you will be my wife"... HELLO? we didn't even KNOW each other that well, and i don't know where that stupid statement came from!?

well he saw the look on my face and never said it again.

after a year went by he was trying to PRESSURE me into saying i love you.. he even text messaged me "i hope someday you will say I LOVE YOU to me"... i wanted to strangle him. can you imagine the pressure and stress i was under? i didn't LOVE him and still don't... and i totally resent him trying to force me to tell him i love him when i didn't.

i'm old enough to realize that we don't know a person that well for at least 1-2 years anyway... i found out things about him after the first year that made my hair curl... he is irresponsible, doesn't pay his bills, but has the money, is a control freak, is needy and doesn't know how he really feels about anything.

NO you can't "make someone fall in love with you" and the more you try the further away you will shove them.

my boyfriend shoved me right out with all the pressure and neediness.... yikes.

Answer 6

what you need is
1 bats wings
2 eye of newt.
3 sperm of jelly fish
4 ear wax of Mongolian goat herder.
5 a McDonald's happy meal.
6 rats milk
7 water that collects in the bough of a yew tree.
then mix all that together.
and pop in the microwave for 3 minutes.
leave to cool.
then add that to a drink of some sort and give to the person .
and wham bam they fall in love with the first person they see.
a tried and tested recipe never fails

Answer 7

I don't think you can make someone fall for you. How someone feels is within themselves. You can get to know them and they may fall naturally.

You can deceive them and fool them to fall in love with what they think you are....but that isn't them falling in love with you it's them falling in love with what they think you are. not the same.

Going after someone....maybe they are guilted into trying the relationship. Maybe they realize the person really is right for them.

Answer 8

you can only make someone fall for you if you are what they are looking for. If youre not their cup of tea or pot of coffee or whatever then there is nothing you can do to 'make' them fall for you.
Over-persistance can be just annoying and scary if the person just isnt interested.

Or become a professional hypnotist!

Answer 9

You can't make anyone fall in love with you just like that. Just be yourself, of course show that you acknowledge them and have interests in their interests and then from there see what happens. If he likes you for who you are, not what you pretend to be then its sealed gold, if not then it wasn't meant to be.

For someone to love you too, it should not be that hard to get their attention. Maybe you would have to initiate conversation but you shouldn't have to go completely out of your way for them.

Best Wishes

Answer 10

Obviously you have fallen for someone, why don't you ask a friend to ask him if he likes you (if that is possible in your situation), if there has been a bond sure there would be every reason to keep going, once you don't become obssessed with it or soooo persistent that it freaks him out/your scary.

Answer 11

I don't know about making them fall in love with you! But you can make sure they see all your appealing qualities and sometimes that may work!

Then again maybe the old saying "Persistence Pays" is true!