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real answer please,, good or bad,, real answer please

2007-08-11 05:40:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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My thoughts are most women (not all) appear to be templates set by magazine and TV. Besides looks, there's really not anything that sets them apart. I wonder if this is media protrayal of women, like their mission in life is solely to socially fit in, and to find the right guy. Like having a real drive towards some persuit is being too bold, almost feminist, and being different is just being weird.

Most women I talked to (not all) arn't super passionate about anything. I ask them what they like to do during their time on a date, they give me the typical "hanging out with friends and shopping". I ask them what they do with their friends, and the answer again is "hanging out and shopping". I would like to hear something Ambitious such as "I want to be the first millionaire in the family" or "I want to save the rain forest" (and mean it) Some sort of life persuit is what I'm getting at. I've been to speed dating once, and I swear all 27 of the 30 women I met that day said the same things.

Also I find women's friendship are reallly weak when dating. They'll see their friends every once in a while. They would say so and so is a friend, but rarely ever close to their friends. They can make and lose friends very easily. It could be best friends at one day, then after dating someone you liked, be nothinig to each other after that. It seems like most women I meet, have more guy friends than girlfriends. Which I suspect is thier way of just keeping back-up boyfriends. I say this because I think their conversations just seem pretty shallow, and I'm wondering why are they even friends. Just seems like they met at a wedding party and obligated to say Hi when they see each other at an event. When guys talk to other guy friends, the conversations are alot more dynamic, we really get into the hobbies whether it's a sport game, business, etc... It's a never a 4 line conversation like, "hi how's your weekend", "It's nice, did this and this", "wow, that's cool. we should keep in touch". "yeah, we should, call me"

On the brightside, with all the available media, girls are looking alot better these days. Don't know if I'm getting old, but the average girl seems pretty reasonable hot. You don't see too many fat chicks these days. So women are sure putting the effort to looking good. I also like how women pay attention to details. I'm a strategic person, on vacation I just pick a destination, outline some days and some activities to do, the girlfriend fits all of those things into a schedule with all the reservations booked. I swear women are natural travel agents.

Maybe I"m saying this because I know more guys than girls. And most the the girls I meet were girls I dated at one point, or friends of girls I've dated. (You can't expect something too different if you don't venture far from the same tree)

2007-08-11 06:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well considering the ways in which women are portrayed in the media...

Be prepared for some real perverted/ misogynistic answers!
(aaaah! l can hear people clicking the thumbs down!)

2007-08-11 12:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Same as days in the past. Theres all types of women. Good, bad, freindly, mean, honest, unfaithful,.....same as men.

2007-08-11 12:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

with all due respect to the "fairer" sex, I really don't see the maturity growth difference between a 21 year old and a 29 year old, they bothed acted really immature, where are the mature women.

2007-08-11 12:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by Greg 7 · 0 0

women have the quality of making a man content.

a woman can bring serenity and happiness and all the other benefits.

2007-08-11 13:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by ramni222 6 · 1 0

The best thing ever to look at! Higher than video games which is pretty damn hard so i would say... THEY ROCK!... except for some of their personalitys.... eh

2007-08-11 12:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by Drew H 2 · 0 1

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