need some advice please
2007-08-11 05:20:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well in my eyes i think that if you are alone in school, then that is sometimes ok. its happened to me the whole year. so just say if you dont like me then i dont need someone like you to hang out with because then i would just be as stupid and stubborn as you!!!! if that dont work then sorry
2007-08-11 05:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Nemo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt that way sometimes in High school, I had the friends, but I sometimes felt like they did not know the real me. After a while that really didn't phase me. Look at it this way,
all those people who are popular will not be later after graduation. You'll probably run into them at a fast food restaurant working the grill or cleaning tables. You probably will not ever see them again. You are not a looser, so get that out of your head. Just because you don't follow the incrowd does not make you a looser. It makes you a leader not a follower. If you want to make some honest friends, be confident, have a sense of humor, and just be yourself. "You'll find that you may catch more bees with honey."
Just focus on graduating and going to college.
-Be the next Bill Gates! Good luck!
2007-08-19 05:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to be alone but not ok to feel like a loser! If you do want to make friends start out by complimenting them or asking them something about themselves. They will always have something to say.
2007-08-19 00:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by SinSister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to make more of an effort to fit in.One thing you should do is try to make conversation with others. With a pleasant smile, get in the habit of say 'hi' or 'good morning' to others. Sometimes you have to ask questions to show you have an interest in others.
Examples:
"Did you have nice summer?" or "Did you have a nice weekend?" "Did you watch the game last night?"
"Did you study up for the test in ______?"
Or statements: "That's a nice shirt; I like it"
You may be shy and have to take the first step in talking to others. Soon you'll be getting into conversations and making friends. Loosen up and give it a try. Practice, practice, practice! That's all it takes. Good luck, my friend!
2007-08-18 23:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have it different cause I am home alone from what I was previous. But I have Y/A's where I ask questions and that! What is your prime subject or know more of? Sorry no other advice but have a good day!
2007-08-11 12:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes at lunch i cant find anyone to sit with in the highschool cafeteria so i scarf down my food and walk in the halls. i hate feeling alone at lunch so i just act like im bunking and then ill go by classes waving at the people i know. but i never really feel alone at skool but i practically have friends in every class and i am always making oppurtunities to make new friends.
2007-08-19 10:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by Subtle Revenge 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean alone as in having no friends I dont think thats socialy "healthy". But if you mean like having to sit alone somewhere or walking alone, or waiting alone then yes I know what you mean and it sucks. I think it has to do with feeling vulnerable and self concious. When your with your friends its comforting.
2007-08-11 12:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by Catmandu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its ok to be alone. maybe you are a high achiever and no one else is. maybe you are quiet and no one else is. maybe you are too loud and no one else it? sometimes its best to be alone and look and learn. when you are ready to blossom you will and then its time. but right now heck enjoy school and the soltice you have its only for a period and then things get hectic.
2007-08-18 23:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like 2 years i did because i think i kinda liked being alone thinking about problems or things i was gna do later in my life but then i started 2 feel depressed and loney if you ever get this feeling start 2 go 2 a local commentity centre or typein google the area you live in and see if they have any groups there 2 help you gain friends Trust
me its a lot better cause then youve got the choise and it feels like your acually liked x
Good luck on w.e you Doo ! x
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2007-08-11 12:31:09 · answer #9 · answered by jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ok to be alone at sometimes but there is a problem if you dont have any friends so TALK TO PEOPLE!!! the best way to make friends already happend to me
2007-08-19 11:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by ++++Iron Man++++ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋