How does this boy feel about me?

Question

I have liked this guy for a long time and have talked to him for quite a while. It all started last year and a long time ago I actually asked him to do something with me, but he wasn`t interested. After a while I talked to him again.
Here are all of the things that he does: when I talk to him he is nice and I feel like he talks to me like one of his guy friends. I don`t feel tension when I talk to him. After I talk to him he tends to look at me and occasionally glance over his shoulder. When we pass eachother in the hall he will first look at me with a shy smile and then when our eyes meet he will timidly look away or even walk in a different direction. He tends to avoid me and looks nervous when I am around. When I walk over to talk to him sometimes he literally runs away.

I can`t figure out if he likes me just as a friendly person, has a crush on me, or finds me annoying and doesn`t want to talk to me. He IS nice when I talk to him and looks me in the eyes and laughs at times.

I have a problem, though. I can only talk to him for so long because I`m not very talkative and funny. Our conversations tend to be kind of ackward because I don`t know how to keep them going. He is also quiet and kind of shy. Sometimes we`ll just walk away from eachtother without really ending the conversation. What can I do to prevent this? But mainly how might he feel if he acts this way?
I`m the only girl that he talks to in our marching band practice, but only when I approach him first.

Someone actually told him that I liked him, but that was months ago. I just don`t know how he`s feeling. Any advice?

Answer 1

Sounds like he really likes you but he's nervous. The more you talk to him, the more you'll feel comfortable around him. So, maybe next time if you feel like you're in a good conversation, just ask him if he wants to hang out with you sometime.

Answer 2

well babe. there is only one way to find out how he feels about you. when i like a guy i dont really tend to beat around the bush. i straight up tell him that i kinda am liking him and tell him that it doesn't matter to you what he feels you are just putting your feelings out there, but if this guy is shy, it may take him a little while to open up. i would just tell him how you feel. see what feedback you get. and as for your problem, don't ever walk away without ending the conversation. if you are at school casually stop by his locker or whatever and just say hey whats up how is your day going or start complaining about how much you hate a teacher and say she gives alot of homework. just keeping the jucices flowing when you are talking. speak up and let him know that you are there. confidence is the number one thing you can have in a relationship. i hope this helps. (:

Answer 3

Well, it sounds like he does like you, but he also sounds REALLY shy. He may not know how to act around you and feels a little awkward around you. If anything is going to come of you two, it sounds likes you are going to have to be the person that takes the initiative. Ask him if he wants to hang out sometime...don't make it sound like a date or anything, but just see if he wants to do something. If he says "no" again, then maybe jyou should just lay low for awhile. He may not be looking for that kind of relationship right now....

Answer 4

Well, why not try to be more open to him. Tell him more personal things about yourself. Maybe by doing so, He'll be at ease to open up to you. Like, about your hobbies or family perhaps? Then when you are having a conversation with him, try to listen carefully to what he's saying and make follow up questions.. When you run out of questions, try to comment on how he answers, or the facial expression/s he make/s. That way, you'll have a more lengthy exchange of dialogues with him. Also try make research of your own as to what he likes to do. That way, you wouldn't run out of topics

Answer 5

He's shy from what i can tell. He seems to definitely like you but doesn't no how to approach you. And if you really like him let him no in a secretly sort of way (if you no what i mean) and he might just have the courage to come and ask you out or something.

Answer 6

Don't know how old you are but it sounds like he is flattered that you like him, which may be a good sign....he does like to talk to you, but you can't make him show an interest....just be friendly and eventually he might relax and ask you out...if you are old enough. Sounds like he is shy....if he wanted to avoid you, he could....so just show an interest in what he is interested in...when he feels comfortable, that will help...but don't push him, or you might scare him off.

Answer 7

wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!
someones got the hots for Dia!!!!

Too show how much u do and so he nos u like him more than a freind go to a private spot and talk and then say dang look at the time then hug and giv him a little peck on the cheek and say hey why dont we catch a movie something... well catch ya later

Answer 8

well I think both of you must pretty nervous, at school or public places you should avoid each other because it makes him nervous!

Find a private place like at home to talk to him, and make a move!

Answer 9

he may like you but what are you going to do? are you going to talk to him and say hey or what. you have to be careful with someone that is shy. so slowly but begin talking to him but seems in a way he doen'st want to be seen with you and wondering why? i mean so just feel your way and find out what is up and then act.

Answer 10

HE LIKES YOU!!!!!!!! :>), he's just scared that you might not like him, try to show him how you feel, don't use the words i love you, uses words that should like it, and don't kiss him. keep on talking to him to get to know him and let him get to know you.

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