2007-08-11 05:44:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't jump at those words. In fact, I won't date a girl who doesn't see marriage in her future.
2007-08-11 07:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are either mentioning it too soon or they don'y want it. If you want to hear those types of words act like you don't want a commitment and you aren't sure that they are the right fish in the sea. I never mentioned marriage or commitment to my fiance or the last three guys that proposed to me. I had the attitude like "why should I settle for you?". Why WOULD you mention it? Don't you need time to make sure the person is right for you before you get married? My advice: date as many men as possible; two in one day if you can. Go to the best restaurants and wherever else you want to go. HAVE FUN. If you DO like one of them make him wait and earn it if you know what I mean by "it". I recommend one to three months. The other ones you don't care about you can have sex with in the meanwhile.
2007-08-11 13:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Exipnei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If women were a video game that guys could rent or buy, they would willing jump in and try the woman (game) until they complete the game or get bored with it. Then, they go out and rent or buy another game. They would like it to be the same with women. They don't want to play the same game or share a life with the same woman...... forever.
2007-08-11 12:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the guys who jump .those guys are either only interested in sex or else there are some guys they love but they are not financially not prepared for the marriage.so they are not talking about that and when the girl everytimes sticks to the same topic .then they get splits i know it is not the mistake of any girl to ask for their marriage infact it is good .but everyone is not like me .i have a financial problem ,but iam not waiting for it to get all finish ,because if i will wait for all my dream come true it may take a long time .and i dont want to spoil my young days .but listen carefully the one who loves you truly.whether he is rich or poor .he is ready for everything,he can even speak to your parents directly.
2007-08-11 13:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by pirsa363 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this can be classified as a guy thing anymore. I am a divorced woman who is absolutely commitment phobic and I have plenty of other divorced female friends who are exactly the same way.
2007-08-11 13:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by littleone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a guy does that it only means (and im quite sure of it and i know a lot of guys know it but prefer not to tell it) that he doesnt love you that much... or he just thinks he loves you but doesnt....or he doesnt understand what love is... that is, he hasnt experienced true love with you. lol im serious.
if you are in ra elationship with such a man then your relationship is just superficial. it's almost meaningless if not for sex. in reality, men do commit and men do marry especially the girls they truly love and adore and worship. im so sorry that your bf doesnt do that to you.
2007-08-11 12:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do some people use stereotypes to define an entire group?
2007-08-11 12:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by John R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's one of those stressful topics -- like "remote" or "hot dog"....i guess some would call it male instinct. when things start to get "long term', it can make them feel unnerved or uneasy - natural.
2007-08-11 12:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by waddlin' along 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when women are pushy or demanding it can scare a guy.
2007-08-11 12:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry for the women... this guys are only playing around! they only need S**!
2007-08-11 12:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by R.A. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋