Family & Relationships - 26 July 2007

Well, my fiancee (ex fiancee now) is 26 years old, and she lives in TX. I am 31 years old and live in SC. We have been engaged for a year now (well a little under). I called the whole thing off this past Friday for two things that she did that were the final straws in many. The two things were that i called her cell phone saying that i really missed her and needed to hear from her. Well that was Tuesday before i broke it off, and she hadnt called at all that week. The second one was a day after i called, i gave her a text message saying i DESPERATLY needed to hear i love you. Nothing came from her the whole week. So, midnight Friday i gave her a text message asking for my ring back. The whole time i thought it was her that didnt want to message me or call, but i just found out from her mom that she is the one that told her not to call or message me, and that really hurts and makes me mad. I know what im leaning towards, but could i have some input from other people out there

2007-07-26 03:05:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I originally missed my mark with hooking up with this girl i met back in january. She has a long distance boyfriend (everybody knew it wasnt a good idea). Now I think I may have another shot. She complains that he doesnt visit enough and would rather spend money buying a truck rather then buying plane tickets to see her. So my question is, should I wait until they are completly broken up or make a move now? Serious answers only please. not because i think this is important, because i really don't, but because imature answers tend to get on my nerves

2007-07-26 03:03:32 · 16 answers · asked by YWWE>BVW>mwwe 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok here's the deal. I'm a 21 year old college student living with a controlling dad. My life is a living hell because he nicks and picks at every little thing I do. He even gets mad at me because I stay out all night. The reason why I stay out all night if I stay out past 10 is because he didn't want me coming in late like 3 a.m( you know respect the house stuff). When I told him I was moving and my plans he blew up and started tripping on me(Called me stupid and crap like that blah blah blah).You guys have pretty good idea on how controlling parents act.

Ok , Me and and two friends got a deal on a apartment for
$560 a month. I've been planning this for while. By living at this place I would have to commute until may of next year, then I would be going to a school in that area. The commute is a total distance of 32.14 miles. Should I do it or wait till I'm done with school in the area that I'm in? extra info:I have a 219 car payment and I have a $4500 loan support

2007-07-26 03:01:56 · 17 answers · asked by YellowCard 2 in Family

from everbody else?

2007-07-26 03:01:53 · 19 answers · asked by pookie 1 in Singles & Dating

they become more fascinated by you

2007-07-26 03:01:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-26 02:59:10 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have a boy freind that in fact we were just freind like other my freinds.but after some month he said me that he love me & ask me 4 marriege him.i ddn't accept bc i don't love him & he don't have necessery things 4 start living.in fact i can not love him.so some days after (that i said him my negative answer) i heard that he want 2 kill himself if i dd'nt back.i saw him when he was crying so hard.i couldn't beleive that so i was mixed.he said me 2 kill himself.i do'nt love him.also he was my best freind he dd 4 me every thing that a freand can do 4 me .EVERY THING.he is great but i can not feel relax near him & i can not love him.but i afraid.plz help me i need ur help.what shall i do?tks

2007-07-26 02:55:24 · 14 answers · asked by paras2 s 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont get it and to make it worse she has cheated on me and is a comulsive liar and we were suppose to be working out our issues together one being I feel she is not faithful. There is plenty more but is it appropriate at any time for your wife to talk sex and be making out like she is organising sex and having whats supposively a good friend of the opposite sex talk to her as if he wants to have sex with her and she says things like she would love for that to happen.

2007-07-26 02:55:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-26 02:54:38 · 12 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

why is it women in a long term relationship go off sex before the men do? and is this the cause of men having affairs?

2007-07-26 02:53:29 · 15 answers · asked by mike b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I just recently started talking again. I left the house about 24 days ago. When we started talking again he told me he met someone at a bar and had a one night stand. This is botheing me a bit. I mean it was only 10 days after I left our home (we were living together) He does tell me, the Ross line "We were on a break". This is true, but I can't belive he did that already... Should this bother me enough not to try and start slow again which is what he wants? Any advice would help...Thanks.

2007-07-26 02:52:21 · 34 answers · asked by bailey626 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

basically because when reading the question you can tell it was going to be one of those questions where if you disagreed with that person they wouldnt pick you.

surprise! the answer that got best is the one that agreed(even though its never a good answer)

2007-07-26 02:51:23 · 15 answers · asked by mannyg2199 4 in Singles & Dating

We were together for 3 years. We were mean to each other. We have been married for 8 months. We had an argument and thats when it all came out. About how we were unhappy. We talked about divorce but then decided to work it out. Change ourselves for the better. A week later my husband and I talked and he said that he feels that things wont get better, its not the same. He says that he loves me, but the love isnt there anymore and he doesnt see me the same. We cried. A week has passed and have agreed to divorce. He will continue living here with me and my daughter. She is not his. She is 9. He will pay the bills until he moves out this November. Giving me enough time to save to be on my own. We still sleep in the same bed. We have agreed to not get intimate. Its just like we are friends now. We are both nicer to each other. It hurts me because I dont want a divorce. Why does it hurt him if thats what he wants? I wish he would have a change of heart. Is that possible?

2007-07-26 02:51:03 · 26 answers · asked by DDee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to hurt his feeling, so I don't want to tell him that I don't love him anymore, but it's not working out for me anymore. Simply because I don't love him anymore. He didn't do anything, the love just faded...

*Can't do it in person...it's a long distance thing*

2007-07-26 02:48:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I never dreamed of getting married, or what I would look like in the perfect dress, with the perfect guy.

So I want you to share yours. Can you picture the guy? What the wedding would be like, or how your dress would be?

Maybe you've already had all that?

2007-07-26 02:47:14 · 21 answers · asked by hating the imprints & the girl 3 in Weddings

I’m 20, about to be engaged. We’ve had sex and it’s like the more and more I fall in love with him the harder it is to think about him with 3 other women previously, doing the same stuff to them as to me... I’ve been with one, and he’s forgiven me, I’ve forgiven him, etc, and he knows this. How do I know he isn’t comparing me? I already feel insecure about myself because of this, but before I met him, I didn’t. Please please help……

2007-07-26 02:46:59 · 4 answers · asked by lysendon20 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is expecting her first child. Her ob/gyn has advised her to go out and buy an umbilical cord to insert into her uterus so that her unborn baby will have something to feed off of. He says that its easier on the baby than waiting on a new cord to grow.
My daughter and I aren't exactly sure where to go out and buy a fresh, sanitary cord. My neighbor offered to sell her one of her old ones for a pretty reasonable rate. And I also have my old umbilical cords from all of my pregnancies still stored inside of my freezer.
Are these cords still safe to use? Should we go out to a discount store or fresh fish market to try to find a pretty new one? Help please!

2007-07-26 02:46:22 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do i keep a 2 year relationship going.. like how do i keep him interested in me.. any ideas..

2007-07-26 02:43:26 · 22 answers · asked by Carrolyn <3 2 in Singles & Dating

I have almost all the proof I need. I will tend to the husband issue seperately. I would however like this slut behind bars.

2007-07-26 02:43:01 · 27 answers · asked by skiphop32 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend so much. we have been together for nearly a year. I recently did something that I regret so much and he forgave me but he said he could never trust me again. How can I tell him how sorry I am and how much I love him...I've never been any good with saying things the right way...help me please. What should I do?

2007-07-26 02:40:08 · 9 answers · asked by kitsune_miko18 2 in Singles & Dating

I have the most beautiful, most smart wife and I cannot see myself without her. We have been married for 9 years and have been dating since she was 15. I love her and have done everything for her including putting her through school. About three weeks I found out she had an affair for two years with another and was planning a future with him. Because I married her really young I tried not to be in her face alot and gave her alot of space. She has always taken good care of me as a wife, cooking, cleaning, managing my finances well. We have no kids. She graduated from university of honors. She now has a way better paying job than me. She is 24 and I am 36 about 12 years older than her. She was to leave me. Even though she cheated I am willing to forgive her. Even if I ever lost everything in this world I want her. Everything was going well until I saw emails and pictures of her with him and his family. His family loves her. Everyone who meets her loves her. I can't let go, Please Help!

2007-07-26 02:38:21 · 21 answers · asked by Jason 1 in Family

I have a guy-friend that I have known almost 28 yrs. We lost contact 12 yrs ago. I found him last summer. Have never had romantic feelings for him, but always had unconditional love for him as a friend. I broke up with my BF in May. The very next day, my guy-friend tells me that he has been in love w/me for 27 yrs. This was like dropping a bomb on me. After the shock, I thought to myself, "maybe?..." But... he is married and I told him I would NOT have an affair. He filed for divorce. I told him that I did not want to be portrayed as the reason why he was filing for divorce. (Because his claims were that his marriage never grew and they had no marriage). I wanted to end all contact until he was divorced and he had time to heal. It was at this point that he became the stereotypical stalker. I am torn because I feel guilt for hurting him, but at the same time, he is scaring me. I have only been telling him (NO!) to all his repeat contacts. I never saw stalker in him. What to expect next?

2007-07-26 02:35:26 · 4 answers · asked by Hallie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-26 02:35:26 · 13 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

We've had an up and down relationship. But I know he loves me, at least he did. I just have this gut feeling that we are going towards a bad breakup soon or later. I need to tell him and help myself get over him.

2007-07-26 02:33:03 · 8 answers · asked by Cecilia 1 in Singles & Dating

I like a guy I work with, and from the advice I've gotten from other questions I've asked about him, I think he def might like me as well. Problem is that he's leaving for college around August 20th. So I'm trying to figure out how, when and if I should tell him that I like him. I'm thinking of either telling him through AIM or in person. So what do you think?

If I tell him through AIM, should I send him a long message while he's away? Or just start a normal convo with him and just bring it up somehow? Any ideas how I could say it?

Or if I tell him in person, like at work or somethin, how could I say it without straight out saying I like you?

Also, I'm not sure when I should tell him. I'm going away July 29- August 8. I'm only working with him one day until I go away, and then only like 3 days between me coming back and him leaving for college. Should I tell him before I go away? While I'm away? When I come back? Before he goes to college? While he's there? Any help would be great!

2007-07-26 02:31:23 · 2 answers · asked by dreamer55 2 in Singles & Dating

So my broyfriend and I have lived togther a year and his family is having a family camping party this weekend. We are in our twenties. My boyfriends parents will be there and they are VERY religious. They told my boyfriend to bring two tents for him and I. How would you feel about this whole situation? He told me he is going to sneak in my tent. What if they see him leaving my tent in the morning? I have a 6 year old and I feel like a child having to hide. lol

2007-07-26 02:30:40 · 13 answers · asked by Sales Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex bf broke up for very dumb reasons... i have still been seeing him every few days or so. He says he misses me like crazy and he has thought about coming back but he doesn't know if he should or if he should just move on. I am not sure if I should hang on and see what happens or if I should let him move on and have no contact with him. he also says that he is not worried about us right now and he wants to do his own thing. what should I do I love this man more than anything and I know I have done really dumb things to him to make him leave... but talking is not doing anything and he says that I cant do anything to bring him back he is going to have to make up his own mind but right now it is pointing to no. Please help my heart is breaking everyday!

2007-07-26 02:30:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Come on folks! We can make it together!

2007-07-26 02:28:00 · 8 answers · asked by Closed for business 5 in Friends

like the other day i was walking past her and she asked me why i was giving her nasty looks i said no apparently her mates said i was so i said fine be there mates im not bovvered

2007-07-26 02:25:49 · 7 answers · asked by loz4646556 1 in Friends

2007-07-26 02:25:39 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating