Family & Relationships - 26 July 2007

Does it sound weird to just wanna live alone maybe with two dogs a Doberman and a Black Lab I dont want kids or marriage or any of that, just a dog or two. I am 18 and I already know I dont want any of that, so dont make a big thing about I am to young to decide. Also dont worry I wont accidently have kids I am antisexual

2007-07-26 06:35:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do we men ever stop checking out girls/chicks/babes/women/birds/hotties/and females in general? What is that thing that I've heard mentioned that clicks where you just say, this on my plate and this is the meal that I'll be having for the rest of my life? Or is that one some myth? Or am I just looking at it the wrong(and if so, could you shed some light on my...well imagination, I guess)?

2007-07-26 06:35:41 · 16 answers · asked by Sviþjóð 1 in Singles & Dating

here is the dealio, my boyfriend and i broke up on the 4th of july but i can't get over him. at night i can't sleep because i'm too busy thinking about him. the best thing about him is that my parents were about as in love with him as i STILL am. we went to a carnival together and my friends (who are also his friends) oohed and awed over the cute couple that we made and that, apparently, was just too much for him because the next day when i called he told me he couldn't date me anymore. he said that the pressure everyone was putting on him to be with me was just to much... he told me it wasn't me it was my friends.
he said he WANTED to be with me but he just couldn't...
i want him back i miss his company. should i ask him to a movie?

please no stupid or rude answers i'm really hurting

2007-07-26 06:34:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mama,just killed a man,
Put a gun against his head,
Pulled my trigger,now hes dead,
Mama,life had just begun,
But now Ive gone and thrown it all away-
Mama ooo,
Didnt mean to make you cry-
If Im not back again this time tomorrow-
Carry on,carry on,as if nothing really matters-

Too late,my time has come,
Sends shivers down my spine-
Bodys aching all the time,
Goodbye everybody-Ive got to go-
Gotta leave you all behind and face the truth-
Mama ooo- (any way the wind blows)
I dont want to die,
I sometimes wish Id never been born at all

2007-07-26 06:33:43 · 1 answers · asked by Devilz Backbone 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been playing soccer for nearly 10 years now, and I have became worn out on the sport and no longer wish to play soccer for my high school. After telling my father that I no longer wished to continue playing soccer and he then threatens me by saying that he will no longer do anything with me and my friends and that i would have to start doing a certain number of chores everyday. Do you have any ideas about what i could say to my father to help him understand that I no longer wish to play soccer for my high school. I am playing on another team, and that still seems to be not enough for him. What are your opinions, thoughts, and suggestions?

2007-07-26 06:33:41 · 8 answers · asked by dogos78 2 in Family

Im not sure what the pension is usually used for.

Retirement is for when you retire I do know that much.

My husband used up a generouse loan from the bank and now promises he will remodel our home with his pension money. Im mad but not sure what this is taking away from us.

Is this good or bad?

2007-07-26 06:32:43 · 9 answers · asked by catchiamigo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad is going to marry this evil woman and i hate her. ive told my dad but he doesnt listen. what should i do about it? please answer seriously, or i will be all like grrrrr. im 13 so i'm kinda helpless in this situation. thx.

2007-07-26 06:32:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

and what makes you cry?
I don't know that can make me cry except death in the family or if I break my leg. I guess it's just genetic.But the last time I cried was when my uncle died 6 years ago. He was one of my best friends.

2007-07-26 06:31:44 · 38 answers · asked by I'M GONNA GO PLACES 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-26 06:31:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-26 06:30:50 · 1 answers · asked by David L 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-26 06:30:20 · 11 answers · asked by gdog4159393 1 in Family

I like to hang out with two guy friends. Every time we hang out with another mutual friend, who happens to be blonde and curvy, my guy friends ignore me. They spend most of the night talking to her, and I feel like I have to force myself into the conversation in order not to be ignored.

My blonde friend loves the attention and claims I'm just being paranoid. She has lots of guy friends. When I pointed out to my guy friends that I was feeling left out, they blamed me, saying, "You should work harder at being part of the group."

I'm mad. What do you think I should do? I feel like dumping all of them and not hanging with them anymore.

2007-07-26 06:29:41 · 5 answers · asked by Vivien 2 in Friends

I am best friends with this girl lets call her "Noel" anyway last night she had a bigggg birthday party. The only problem was she barely spoke to me she was to busy with this other girl we'll call her "brooke" Brooke hates me I think and so does brookes' friend "paige" Can anyone help me find out why my friend Noel totally wouldn't talk to me! I am freaking out! Any advice is appriciated

2007-07-26 06:29:11 · 7 answers · asked by Chels 3 in Friends

what do you guys think of asking your man to marry you? we have been together for over a year and we are now living together. i know that he is waiting to ask until he can afford a ring for me, but that doesn't really matter to me. i love him so much and i want to ask him. obviously, i have nothing to give him either, but i still want to ask. if you think it is a good idea, do you have any suggestions of how to go about it. he will be out of town on business next week, so i do have awhile to plan for when he gets back..thanks to all in advance!

2007-07-26 06:28:30 · 12 answers · asked by nytengayle13 4 in Marriage & Divorce

alone and desperate, as if a man in my life will solve all my problems. I haven't had a boyfriend in awhile now. People say I'm pretty, I'm educated, and am working towards a career that I love. They say I'm a free spirit, but some also say, Diva. There were these wonderful men who liked me before but, I guess I'm afraid of giving my all to someone just for them to leave me...so I keep testing them. Now, I have noone. How do I stop feeling so needy?

2007-07-26 06:26:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he lie ami every time

2007-07-26 06:25:47 · 7 answers · asked by yasmin 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-26 06:25:44 · 54 answers · asked by girlnextdoor409 5 in Marriage & Divorce

when both my parents are at work my brother hits and abuses me . and because he is one year younger he is my parents angel. so i cannot hit him back . then when my parents get home from work he wants to get along with me. i dont get it . he is 14 and im 15. how can i stop his immaturity?

2007-07-26 06:24:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and my best friend have been friends for over 20 years.....her husband made a sexual advance towards me about 2 years ago. I immediately told her even though her husband begged me not to. She was very upset. And she talked with the both of us at the same time and he lied to her about the details. But she believed me. So she said. After it was over she told me she appreciated me telling her and that she would choose our friendship over him anyday. But I havent heard from her since and I have tried calling her but she wont even answer my calls when I call her at work. What do I do?

2007-07-26 06:23:06 · 5 answers · asked by oklasoonersgrl 2 in Friends

Im crazy about him and hes mad about me. but we fight like hell and disagree on everything. i want to live life my way and dont like his interferance but i need him even when im really frustrated with his deeds. i cant stand him at times but i love him even at times when i hate him the most on the planet.

2007-07-26 06:22:11 · 20 answers · asked by hihello 2 in Singles & Dating

I think it's very true and real. I hate when the person you love does something wrong, what you hate and when they tell you that they r sorry. I hate it.

2007-07-26 06:21:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-26 06:18:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-26 06:17:25 · 8 answers · asked by h@voc 3 in Friends

My girlfriend is about to marry someone that gets violent when they drink. He's not going to quit drinking anytime soon and I've been there when he's "gotten out of line" - is there a way of preventing her from marrying him?? It's going to be a disaster!

2007-07-26 06:15:56 · 23 answers · asked by michelle59872 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i know all parents fight sometimes. but mine fight ALL THE TIME! my mom swore to me and my brother that she will never divorce. I kinda want her to tho. my dad is horrible to her and me and my brother. he makes us feel like **** all the time. he made me cry on my birthday! i know my dad has some issues that he never admits to but thats not my problem. i just want the fighting to stop! i woke up 2 days in a row to have my mom screaming and swearing at my dad because of something i dont know... one of their fights a little while ago got physical and my dad ended up having this huuuge scratch mark on his arm. i know this sounds like my dad is the victim here but he always provokes us and verbally abuses us. i just want the fighting to stop. i know my mom will never divorce my dad because she told me that if she divorced him, me and my brother would be alone with him and he would ruin our lives and she doesnt want that to happen. any advice??? PLEASE HELP??

2007-07-26 06:11:45 · 21 answers · asked by Hannah G 2 in Family

There is huge conflict as my husband doesn't get on with his daughter's choice of partner. At our wedding he only invited Sarah and not her partner (I didn't agree with this but had to let it go). She didn't turn up at all. Should I go to the wedding and the reception, or just the wedding. I say this because I dread places where there might be an atmosphere and there are so many tensions. Luckily my best friend and my husband's is going to the wedding but not the reception so I know I have support.

2007-07-26 06:09:24 · 13 answers · asked by Angel_Daisy 2 in Weddings

There are people on my husbands side of the family that are very opinionated and at times obstinate to deal with and I love them dearly because they have been very good to us I dont want to be like my husbands cousin who can be a drama queen and make a big deal when things are said about her.

My husband leaned over and gave me a hug and I hugged back and his uncle said you both look like dogs in heat, I overlooked that comment and I prayed for him because his marraige has problems also.

How can I be christ like when people say things that arent nice or try to medicate a situaion with a poor choice of words?

For example we told my husband realtive that we could not have kids and she said it was just as well and that I should get a puppy and that would be our baby. I was horrified that she thought getting a puppy would be like a baby to us and I was very insulted.

What are ways to show the love of Christ and be a witness in these situations?

2007-07-26 06:09:04 · 29 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs no kids yet..When we were dating/newlyweds and thru out the yrs we have never made love everyday or several times a day or for hrs and hrs like i have heard or read about most if not all couples doing..Are we rare or are there other couples like this..We usually make love 2 to 3 times a week...This doesnt bother us cause we are both happy,content and satisfied with the loving making and amount but im just curious about this.

2007-07-26 06:08:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

instead of going for the guy who will treat them like a lady - respectfully, etc ?/??? - And women know that it is true !!!!! So if you are a nice guy then should u expect to be sh*tted on ??

2007-07-26 06:08:41 · 11 answers · asked by questions 1 in Singles & Dating

I was married for 27 years had two children and keep dreaming of my ex Boy friend. What is up with that. My husband is deceased, and the ex is with someone else. why do I keep dreaming of him

2007-07-26 06:07:31 · 3 answers · asked by Bonnie J 1 in Marriage & Divorce