Family & Relationships - 22 July 2007

hi there, my birthday was on wednsday and i met my gf for it. i wanted to spend the day with her, and i told her my mum wanted to spend the day with me but i chose to spend it with her. I went there for a couple of hours and we made love for the first time on my bday and then she just had a shower and said to me she is going to go see her mate and i said but i wanted to spend time with you. she replied saying i should be with my family even tho i wanted to spend time with her. each time i see her and i want to spend time with her she stays with me for a 2 to 4 hours and then says she wants to go see her mate or cousins so on. i feel as if tho she gets bored with me and she does this all time trying to get away from me after a while. i only see her once or twice a week and want to see her more. i asked her why she behaves this way she said " i dnt want 2 talk about this now, maybe i want 2 much cos on my days off i wants to 2 spend tym wiv u n my friends" what should i do ? help

2007-07-22 23:48:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got back from my 20th high school reunion weekend,wife did not go mostly because she didn't want to and most of my old friends weren't bringing spouses so a couple of us just roomed together.I had a good time seeing old friends we talked and laughed,drank a little and did some danceing.
She is mad because I didn't call and check in at night,we were out late,and that I danced with other women,nothing happened,just friends having fun.Did I do anything wrong?

2007-07-22 23:43:49 · 9 answers · asked by sch1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am us army person when i came back from basic and AIT traning after 6 month i discover on x mass day that my wife slept with another person and then she said it was her mistake sorry etc etc and i had given her another chance because every one in the life do the mistake, but on my 3rd marrige anniversary i find out that now she is having another boy friend named steeve, before i say any thing she took my car and left to michigan and i end up in jail because she filed an report of domestic voilence against me for which judge cancilled the case because he said there are no way this thing happned, but i endup with mental tension and broken heart. Can any sensitive person tell me why a person do this type of things and why we donot beleave in happey family ,morals etc

2007-07-22 23:29:08 · 13 answers · asked by Vivek M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 19 and my mum n dad split when i was little and my dad wasnt very interested in me and hardly saw me unless it suited him, my mum died when i was 15 and my dad dint ring me or get in any contact at all afterward, even tho i'm his only child and he wasnt bothered, i dint get a card or he dint ask if i was ok, nothing, could u forgive him?

2007-07-22 23:21:15 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she is telling me she will put it on the internet and my secrets will be out what should i do? plz tell me

2007-07-22 23:07:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to give Divorce to my husband. It is mutural consent. I want file it without the help of any lawyers. Is it possible? If possible what is the procedures and what all the papers I have to prepare. Please help me. I stay in Bangalroe

2007-07-22 22:51:39 · 13 answers · asked by Jay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is marriage considered as a:
a. sacrament
b. sacred contract
c. gift
d. servanthood
e. advocation

Thanks in advance.. God bless...

2007-07-22 22:46:23 · 3 answers · asked by Menz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-girl called me one day and kept telling me to take her back forgiving her for starting a relationship with another guy (where in their very brief romance they had sex - she told me) .

I said if she waits for me a year without forming any relationships with guys (she's still 18) and can control herself for that time I would take her back - she showered me with lots of kisses (over the phone) said thank you a million times, promised that she'll do it and I did not hear from her since - this happened like a month ago.

Yesterday one of my friends has seen her with another guy whose not family at 10 p.m. on a mobike. WTF??? WTF am I to do??? I just feel like killing this *****!!!! WTF am I to do????

2007-07-22 22:39:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

your partner? a good friend? family?

2007-07-22 22:37:36 · 38 answers · asked by Ms. 10 2 in Singles & Dating

a couple of years ago my uncle commited suicided, in our garage. it was really sad. my dad found him hanging there on new years day. we have moved out of that house since as we couldn't stand to live there anymore.
i loved my uncle, and i had no idea that he could do somthing like this.
i really hate it when cartoons have people hanging them self.
i'm 13 years old and i was wondering if anyone has anything that has happend to them that is similar to this.

2007-07-22 22:15:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-22 22:12:23 · 19 answers · asked by subu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

u and ur wife depended on your maid servant to do the washing of the dishes, sweeping the floor and drying out clothes. then suddenly one morning you are told she will not be coming. what happens?

2007-07-22 22:04:41 · 10 answers · asked by jimmybond 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Ihave been seeing my Boyfirend for nearly a year now but I cant seem to stop getting so jealous and paranoid of him having girlfriends or even speakin to girls in General. I have no right to be like this as i was a bit of a girl in the past and was often hurt. he knows everything which hurt him really bad knowing i wasnt as gd as i made out. The thing that hurts me the most is he is best firends with his ex, which i just cant understand. They work together phone each other (he even confided in her re my past!) I know they have no intention of gettin back together but ho can i get past these feelings?

2007-07-22 21:56:47 · 5 answers · asked by Natalie F 3 in Singles & Dating

i only split with her a week ago, there was a man who was a friend of her sisters who was going round there and yesterday she said shes with him now, i get anxious and panicy and cant seem to get the thoughts out my head, especially at night, thoughts of them having sex and stuff, its killing me please help

2007-07-22 21:53:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anthony K 1 in Singles & Dating

women that want to work there tail off, or when they dont want to have kids people think it ok cuz they are a independent and are living there life the way they want to

but when a man acts like that he is the worse thing in the world

2007-07-22 21:51:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

WE ARE 20 YRS APART. hAE ALOT IN COMMON THE BESTSEX EVER AND CAN OPEN UP TO EACHOTHE LIKE O ONE WE HAVE KNOWN OR BEEN MARRIED TO BEFORE.

2007-07-22 21:44:23 · 3 answers · asked by THEPLAYFULLCOUPLE 1 in Weddings

http://www.wethepeoplefoundation.org/UPDATE/Update2007-07-19.htm

2007-07-22 21:34:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

To kiss a girl. Does that mean hes too shy to kiss her when hes sober and doesnt have the guts to kiss her unless hes drunk

2007-07-22 21:30:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so he was having some trouble at home & needed a place to crash for the night. he asked if he could crash at my place but i told him he couldnt cuz my parents would flip. so i told my best friend about his situation but i didn't think she'd invite him to stay at her place. so that night he called & said he was spending the night at his friend's apartment. so then my best friend went to go visit him & his friend. then when she was there she told him that he could crash at her place and he agreed. but he called me to ask if it would be fine with me if i let him crash at her house. i had a bad feeling at the start but i let him anyways. then later that night while he was already at her house i started thinking that it was really suspicious to me that she would immediatly offer him to crash at her place. long story short i find out a week later that he & my best friend got drunk that night and did some stuff together...he cheated on me with my best friend. wat do i do about my best friend?

2007-07-22 21:26:51 · 17 answers · asked by chocolateT 2 in Singles & Dating

but they all have ther own ideas. an trust i like the ideas but how can i get them to come together on this, because they all want to help me out

2007-07-22 21:25:38 · 9 answers · asked by TennisStar 1 in Friends

2007-07-22 21:24:00 · 6 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Family

i speak to this girls alot and we r getting close whats something nice i can say to her? we are 15??

i give top answer

2007-07-22 21:19:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-22 21:15:38 · 5 answers · asked by john d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

As the topic says, I don't really get well when it's up to girls. I just seem to get blocked and don't know what to say when I'm near a girl I like. I think i'm too shy, alot more then I'm supposed to be, and definetly i lack self-confidence, i feel ugly, stupid etc... I think i need help here. Any advices?

Here's a photo of myself:
http://i195.photobucket.com/albums/z203/martin2_j/DSC01615.jpg

2007-07-22 21:15:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boy friend and i have a special relationship, i can see the way he's looking at me, it's full of love and passion, and so do i, the only problem that we're facing is his jealousy, it drives me crasy, he tells me sometimes that the reason behind his jealousy is the fact that every time we're together with my friends he just can't let go their looks to me , and he always says to me that he doesn't trust them or any other guy i meet,so is it me that can't regonize men's intention or it's just his blind jealousy?

2007-07-22 21:14:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is "changing my number" a statement of moving on or am i running away?

2007-07-22 21:11:21 · 4 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So my friend has myspace and she was crying that no one comments her etc. sooo with her birthday coming up, I started leaving her early birthday comments on her page... I left over 100 of them...... She lives far away and yes I know myspace is gay VERY gay but oh well. ... so all week long Im' wishing her a happy birthday telling her she's awesome etc. and today on her birthday I call her (yes I sent her a present too and she didnt sound thrilled about that either, but she had a hang-over) and she was like.. "OMG how sweet David (her internet boyfriend) was the first to wish me a happy birthday, he called me at midnight" I feel like she didnt appreciate the time I took to leave her those damn comments.... she didnt even say thank you after she was crying about she wanted a bunch of b-day comments.... should I be upset...? It kind of hurt me that she said david was the first to wish her a happy birthday :(

2007-07-22 21:10:56 · 3 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Friends

single, dating, flirting, movies, kissing, holding hands, notes, letters, emails, romantice stuff.... anything halpful would do please???

2007-07-22 20:44:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-22 20:37:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

name some examples of when this has happened and your feelings as well.....

2007-07-22 20:36:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating