How do I get a girlfriend when I'm too shy?

Question

As the topic says, I don't really get well when it's up to girls. I just seem to get blocked and don't know what to say when I'm near a girl I like. I think i'm too shy, alot more then I'm supposed to be, and definetly i lack self-confidence, i feel ugly, stupid etc... I think i need help here. Any advices?

Here's a photo of myself:
http://i195.photobucket.com/albums/z203/martin2_j/DSC01615.jpg

Answer 1

haha dude i know your feeling kinda. Best advice i can give after being 18 for a few months and going out 2 clubs is. Socialise with as many girls as you can speak to, even if they are not attractive try throw in flirtatious comments and stuff and work on the postive and negative responses you get. I know it's dead hard to do it especially when your sober but chicks don't come to you. You really have to speak to them and if its to a chick you like then plan at least the first 2 minutes of conversation out dude as in be prepared for what she is going to say and have questions to put forth then after that initial greeting state, just throw anything in your mind at her thats a general sorta question then work with more questions based on her. Worked for me and i use to be absolutely dead shy but the thing you should think about is, their are a zillion chicks out their don't feel as if you have her until you actual are going out on a date or something. That way you won't feel as nervous if you were to get rejected and you'll get over it alot quicker.

HOpe this helps :D

Answer 2

For heaven's sake why would you think that ? I saw your picture you are a very good looking guy, listen you have to be strong ... men get rejected all the time even the good looking ones, the different between a ladies man and a regular guy is only I repeat only self confidence and being able to accept rejection, ask the girl you like out what's the worst that can happen? she's going to say no OK so ! if you don't ask you still have the same result but if you ask and she says yes ....think about it.

Answer 3

Practice makes perfect. Man up. Start talking to girls. it doesn't matter if their hot or not, as long their of the opposite gender. do some of your friends talk to girls? If so then talk to girls while in a group with your friends, it will make things easier. Also, start working out, at the gym or free weights. that usually gives me a lot of self-confidence. Keep doing these things and in time you'll feel better about yourself.

Answer 4

You don't. Until you grow a spine and take a risk, you will never have a girlfriend.

Answer 5

My friend... You know what you need to work on... Which is too shy... Work on that and you're fixed. Easy huh? = )

Answer 6

FYI: You're not alone. ;-)