Family & Relationships - 19 July 2007

Really good looking guy/girl with a not so nice personality or a not so good looking guy/girl with a great personality? And why?

2007-07-19 23:56:25 · 30 answers · asked by Kristy 4 in Singles & Dating

im divorced and hav 2 kids and live on my own and even then my mum controlles me to the extent that its becum suffocating she even cums to live with me cuz she dus not think i shud live my own life im very unhappy about situation .thanks for all support, silky1978

2007-07-19 23:56:13 · 13 answers · asked by silky1978 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just a question...Why are so many whiney A** people on Answers

2007-07-19 23:54:34 · 5 answers · asked by yo_dre 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 23:52:53 · 13 answers · asked by sach 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a huge problem.I am now out of a long term relationship&I really dont now how to get through it.It's very difficult...

2007-07-19 23:41:12 · 8 answers · asked by ogies 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 17 years old and all my life guys been treating me as a sister to them,and it's hard for me to get serious and find a bf.
I don't think that the problem is me being immature cause all my friends tell me i'm to mature for my age. So can anyone help me out here, give me some tips to show them i'm not a "sister",or if anyone has the same problem what did you do?

2007-07-19 23:37:54 · 8 answers · asked by S.O.S 2 in Singles & Dating

I need advice!

My fiance is 8 months pregnant but we are not staying together. She still stays at their home. We have planned to have our wedding in December 2007.

I went to the church where we plan to have the wedding, and the priest requested to have my fiancee present before he can register us and book the date for our wedding.

Am worried. What will be the priest's reaction when he realises my fiance is pregnant? Can he decide not to register us. We expect she will be back to her health, by December since she expects to give birth next month (August).

2007-07-19 23:35:46 · 7 answers · asked by lone 1 in Weddings

2007-07-19 23:30:13 · 19 answers · asked by Kristy 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 23:26:30 · 9 answers · asked by samantha jacqlynlsy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 23:22:20 · 15 answers · asked by idk 1 in Singles & Dating

you see, me and my dad are not that close, and i think this might affect me in the future..i mean, we barely hug, is this wrong especially to girl in her teen years?

is it just me who isn;t close with my dad, i mean he came home drunk one night and i was awoken by this, and i heard him saying stuff about me being older now, and growing, and our relationshipgrowing apart as well, he even said that we don't even hold hands anymore, and i was hugely affected by this... i mean come on, he's my dad...

pls..help..

2007-07-19 23:22:01 · 6 answers · asked by PrettyInPunk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

its too hard for me....
sometimes I think ..maybe I am not able to fall in love....
maybe its not the right time...

dunno....

what u think....

2007-07-19 23:12:35 · 14 answers · asked by Ms.Lady 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello, I have posted here because I am married for 21 years and have a problem which I think is an addiction more than anything else. I have not ever been with another woman and feel somehow that I need to experience it with someone else no matter how brieflly before its too late and I am no longer attractive to others ( I'm making a big assumption here that I am at all). I dont have the feeling that I want to abandon my marriage and children for the sake of satisfying my curiosity about this issue but unfortunately the thought doesnt go away particularly when there is a potential to do something - there is a very attractive person at my work who is very lively yet wise and understanding and things could develop further but I feel guilty about the deceit and not being able to be seen together etc.
This is not something I feel at all should be discussed with my wife as it is an unpleassant situation to present to someone unless you are sure you want to end the relationship.

2007-07-19 23:11:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-19 23:06:16 · 7 answers · asked by mmsabde 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 22:41:32 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He's found me thru Friendster and emailed - asking for forgiveness and a second chance. All these years he's managed to stay away, and my son and I have moved on perfectly well without him. I'm now in a relationship and my bf and I love each other and are happy together. My son has a good friendly relationship with my bf. First off, I thought, why now? what for? Honestly, I don't know what to make of it. Your inputs would be much appreciated.

2007-07-19 22:38:16 · 13 answers · asked by cricket 2 in Family

l have a sister who is a talkative,she talks too much as if there is no tomorrow, she tells her secrects to everyone unknowly and latter she will feel so bad about it,she is 25 years old,she said she dont know what is wrong with her,that she tried so had to controls her mouth but is not possible.l feel so pity for her, cos she talks she cant controls her month and latter she feel bad and cry,l just want to know
1)IF IT IS A SICKNESS

2)WHAT WILL HELP HER CONTROLS HER MOUTH OR TALK LESS

3) ANY ADVICE FOR HER WILL HELP PLEASE

2007-07-19 22:36:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-19 22:33:39 · 13 answers · asked by vikas 1 in Friends

I've been married for about 4 months and now I 'm pregnant. my husband is a very good man who loves, cares and respect me so much. the problem is, he came to my life when I was in a deep depression because I was deeply hurt by someone whom I called my boyfriend but he actually wanted to sleep with me only.he was my first "boyfriend" and I had my first experience in everything from him.until now, I don't know if I love my 'boyfriend' so much that until now I can't forget him and want to be with him despite all the bad things he gave me, or maybe I am already crazy that I cannot see that there is a good men loves me so much I'm married with.I often hurt my husband feelings by saying I want to see 'him', I miss 'him' so much, I can't stop thinking about 'him', etc. for many times I wanted to end my marriage cos I know I hurt my husband alot.but he doesn't wanna get divorce. I keep thinking if I am so crazy or I am the kind of person who loves one man only in my life or what?help pls.

2007-07-19 22:27:56 · 14 answers · asked by depressed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do i still really luv him? just got 2 massachusetts 4 uni. he's in seattle. been together 2.5 yrs b4 i left. i want some time & space for bout 6-8 months, but he wants 2 move 2 MA now. i feel strange having him here now. do i just want 2 grow up & away from our wierdness of b4 so it'll b better later, or have lost the luv? shud i b selfish, tell him come later, & make him more depressed, or just let him show & me be pissed cuz i wasnt redy? do i even want him here? i'm so confused by my feelings. do i want out, or a break? do i love him anymore?!

2007-07-19 22:22:14 · 10 answers · asked by nere k 1 in Singles & Dating

a gift on my birthday (a showpiece).
plz suggest wot do i give her on her b'day

plz dont suggest the same thing ( showpiece) coz its very comman now-a-days...i wanna give somthing different

2007-07-19 22:20:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really miss my boyfriend, its summer and we dont get to see eachother as often, and i've only seen him once since June 26th... Any advice... Sorta? I really just want to talk to someone...

2007-07-19 22:19:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My second wife insist that she "accidentally" got pregnant with our now 15 year old son. Her first husband married her after she "accidentally" got pregnant by him. That marriage became physically abusive and they divorced. Our marraige is filled with mutual verbal abuse. To this day she insist that both pregnancies were accidents. What do you think?

2007-07-19 22:09:11 · 28 answers · asked by The Central Scrutinizer 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Normally in our life, one guy is having sex with his girl friends that is not wrong. But one girl is having sex with her boy friends that is wrong. I cant tolerate these kinds of justice. Why most of the gents (especially in South India) are like that? I think Women are equal to Men in all the things. Am i right?

2007-07-19 22:01:44 · 12 answers · asked by Banu J 1 in Singles & Dating

HELP!!

I have been seeing my girlfriend for 7 months now.. recently she has some family problems and i have not see or spoken to her for a couple of weeks now (apart from the odd text)..

Anyway my last relationship ended rather badly as my ex cheated on me... Last night i was out with my mates and one of their sisters who has fancied me for years was there....

I got really drunk and ended up staying at her house and sleeping with her... We didnt go all the way just kissing etc but i feel so guilty now its a joke..

What do i do, i know i shouldnt have done it and i feel like a right w.nker... But i was missing my girl and she cant see me at the minute what am i to do...

I am afraid that the girl who fancies me will spill the beans to my mrs... Which in all fairness i deserve so what am i to do confess or lie

2007-07-19 21:43:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

where can i meet rich guys in cali? im serious.
i know money is not everyhting.
thanks

2007-07-19 21:39:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I worked full-time at a manufacturing plant. My manager and I always got along... we didn't see eye-to-eye on everything... but we did concur most of the time. She is beautiful, smart, very professional; family oriented (3 wonderful kids); OH, and has a boyfriend; of 3 years, one kid is his, but hasn't aked her to marry him. She says its not time.

Now, I can read her, as a woman, like a book... her moods, if she had problems at home with the kids, or if something was on her mind. But I had difficulty reading her as a manager; she kept everything professional.

Since I have left employment, we haven't spoken much. I operate my own business, and I would love to contact her. She is one of the most loyal and faithful people I know, and would not do anything, (working too late, spending too much time with friends, etc) to jeapordize her family life.

She is exactly what I've always wanted; a loving mom and wife that is hard working and has family values.

What should I do?

2007-07-19 21:36:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

First of all, I will be moving to France in 2 years- after College. So I will return to live permanently.

Man one is closer to my age and is very fun but we dont talk about the important things due to language barrier. He is very patient with me and I with him. The main problem is the lack of time as I cannot see him until after 10 pm each day. I think he would live in the US with me until I finish college- as he has discussed it with me.

Man two is more experienced and a few years older- he is fun but we talk about important subjects. The only downfall is the most important thing in his life- religion- is something we dont share. Also, being older, he is ready to settle down and talks about it even though I have only known him a very short period of time. I would like to settle down but I still have 2 more years of college. I do not think he would come to the US to be with me for 2 years

I want to pick someone who I think there could be a future with. Please advise.

2007-07-19 21:33:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont want to hurt his feelings but i dont want to get back together with him (i broke it off). its hard not to avoid him cuz we c each other at volleyball EVERYDAY.

2007-07-19 21:30:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

;ove

2007-07-19 21:14:56 · 14 answers · asked by aruna w 1 in Friends