I have a huge problem.I am now out of a long term relationship&I really dont now how to get through it.It's very difficult...
2007-07-19 23:41:12 · 8 answers · asked by ogies 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Join a gymnasium. Exercise. Walk and/or run. Bicycle. Join a club. Volunteer. Read a book. The pain and loneliness will pass and you will once again be comfortable with yourself. Suerte!
2007-07-19 23:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by mitscherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be really hard for you. However, I believe you can survive! :)
First of all, start calling your single friends and go out clubbings or hang out at coffee shops and just have fun together.
AVOID being alone too much because you will remember him/her too much.
AVOID listening to love or sad songs, and AVOID listening to OUR song (the song that remind you of the relationship).
Try and do things on your own. Stuff that you always do with your partner, try to do it on your own or maybe with some close friends. Stand on your own feet. Show to him/her that you can survive.
Start a hobby. or probably you used to have one?
Keep all the pictures, presents, anything that remind you of the relationship inside a box and seal it. Keep it in your storage room.
Start dating if you are ready for another person.
Or maybe you should start getting to know more NEW people. You can do that through your friends, maybe your co-workers that you never talk to, or maybe you can go online and find new friends. Join a club or gym and you can meet a whole lot new people.
I wish you all the best! :)
2007-07-20 06:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by farizah_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing anybody can say to dull the pain you are feeling, the only thing you can do is go out with friends, have fun, maybe take up a new hobby or join a club, which will enable you to meet new people and i promise you the pain will get easier, without you even knowing it. One day you will wake up and he won't be the first thing you think of, you'll be looking forward to the day ahead.
2007-07-20 06:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by sugarbabe180 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be sad-but the best thing to do is give it time & maybe things will change-or get better. (the same happened to me with a long term relationship,) but my last date is now like a "best friend" to me & I'm happy about that-the reason we broke up is we had different interests in things/going places/etc. & we're now happy being good friends only.
2007-07-20 06:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry 4 the separation, but u have to move on by;appreciating urself, doing the things u love doing and avoid communicating, its hard but u can do it, i also took a long time to get over my ex but at the end i did jst be positive. if he wronged u forgiveness is the only cure; by forgiving him u free ur self and move on with ur life.
2007-07-20 06:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by sally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out have fun . Take walks enjoy the moment but don't be a hermet
2007-07-20 06:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by glenn_montgomery88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't tell whether ur a guy ir girl- no offense just cuz of no pic and the name
just move along.....unless you love the guy/girl then chase after him/ her
2007-07-20 06:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to erase him from your memory don't call don't talk don't see him/her until you wipe them off from your memory completely
2007-07-20 06:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋