do i still really luv him? just got 2 massachusetts 4 uni. he's in seattle. been together 2.5 yrs b4 i left. i want some time & space for bout 6-8 months, but he wants 2 move 2 MA now. i feel strange having him here now. do i just want 2 grow up & away from our wierdness of b4 so it'll b better later, or have lost the luv? shud i b selfish, tell him come later, & make him more depressed, or just let him show & me be pissed cuz i wasnt redy? do i even want him here? i'm so confused by my feelings. do i want out, or a break? do i love him anymore?!
2007-07-19 22:22:14 · 10 answers · asked by nere k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me get my magic crystal 8 ball! (A quick shake, and mmm...) try again later.
2007-07-19 22:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by El Zacatecas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For him to give up what he has in seattle to move to MA with you is a huge move. If you are unsure of your feelings, you need to let me know NOW before he makes the move. Because you are not sure if you still want to be with him, don't completely break it off and regret later. Let him down gently... maybe tell him you need some time to get settled and when you do, you both can revisit the issue of him moving.
2007-07-20 05:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by single_n_hopeful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling like this now, you need to tell him. Let the both of you move on and find someone new. You need to let him get on with his life and he can't do that and neither will you until you be honest with him and talk to him about what you are feeling.
And don't let him guilt trip you into staying with him cause that wouldnt be healthy for you or him. Your heart needs to be in a realtionship 100% or it won't work out.
Good luck
2007-07-20 05:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by ckamk1995 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you would rather he wait until you feel more comfortable in your surroundings. Tell him you also need more time to study, since college is much harder than high school. Tell him that right now you don't think that you will have enough time to be with him. Tell him that once you get adjusted, you and he can talk about it again.
2007-07-20 05:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How the hell are we supposed to know!? We are not you, we don't know how you feel. Figure it out yourself! Jesus christ. Search your soul deep within your self. Go climb to the top of Mt. Everest and seek the monks of the forbidden pits of ice and go into a deep three meditations. Ahhh ooooooooom.
2007-07-20 05:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds as though moving away has made you realise you dont need him there and it sounds as though the change has lost you that love but if you dont want him there you really should say as it is unfair for him to move to be with you and find out that you do not want him there
2007-07-20 05:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need too search around for some others and when you find the right guy ull no
2007-07-20 05:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are not really certain since you are asking this question.....my suggestion is to tell him the truth and move on......take some time off....
2007-07-20 05:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your confised in felling's now let it go because you truely loved him there would be no dought at all and you'd tell him come now and could not be fast enough so i'd move on --it answer's it self
2007-07-20 05:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that you miss him.. you better llet him that you are missing him, or you are in love on hin.. if you are in love and if you he is a goood selection, try to avoid.. to give a place to other feelings.. if not you will have to feel one day..
2007-07-20 05:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋