Family & Relationships - 19 July 2007

He is 26. Into all kinds of gadgets, video games, movies, sports but he seems to have everything. On my birthday we were only together for about 3 months and he took me out to dinner and then to see Cirque du Solei.

2007-07-19 12:45:02 · 1 answers · asked by Micaela 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

mine call me "Trevie"


how boutchall?

2007-07-19 12:41:06 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When me n my bf first got together, I cheated for about the first1 1/2 years. Then I stopped bcuz he kissed my friend when I was pregnant. Anyways, it's been a rollercoaster and now he won't stop worrying about me leaving him bcuz he's having nightmares about out cuz an ex tried to contact me and he picked up the phone. I wasn't trying to get back with my ex, and it's driving me nuts. By the way, it's been 4 yrs. since we first got together and I haven't even talked to my ex in 2 1/2 yrs. How do I get him to let go of the past andlive in the present. We have a child and I'm sick of having to reassure him that I'm not going anywhere. He also wants to marry me, but I'm not ready, I'm young and I think marriage changes ppls relationships. Anyways, what should I do? What would you do? I want us to have a good relationship, but he's such a downer and he's so negative. PLZ HELP!!!!!

2007-07-19 12:36:08 · 4 answers · asked by Jenel 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

For your own wedding. What do you think? Is it wrong or weird or whatever? Do most people go out and buy their own or what?

2007-07-19 12:34:22 · 20 answers · asked by The BecaNATOR 5 in Weddings

My bf who is separated from his wife and going thru a divorce to legalize their separation, just found out that his wife is sick and may have cancer. Now I feel like he feels guilty leaving her and he would offer to take care of her (they have a child together). What happens to me now? He said he may take care of her, but it's me he loves. Sounds like a lot of bull, but I do believe he loves me, he just cannot get out of the situation.

2007-07-19 12:31:55 · 12 answers · asked by Jana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just say how old you are, how long you were in the origonal relationship and how long you were cheating without getting caught.

2007-07-19 12:31:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok guys, how would you describe your dream girl??? (looks, personality, etc.)

2007-07-19 12:28:26 · 28 answers · asked by gracie_thunder 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 12:24:00 · 5 answers · asked by saskgrrl 1 in Weddings

I am a 28 year old, single, straight male from New York. I have gone on maybe three dates in my entire life. I do not have much experience with relationships at all. I have not even had my first kiss yet. I am completely and totally ok with this. The problem is, other people in my life seem to have an issue with it. I simply have no interest or really the energy to pursue this stuff. I work 50+ hours a week and belong to 3 different volunteer organization (don't suggest I meet someone through the orgs. they are all groups that have an average age of 50). I don't want to get married or have kids. People say I am selfish and/or miserable simply because I am satisfied being single. I also live at home with my parents and other adult siblings (26 and 24) and have no reason to move out and my parents agree. I might as well stay until they are gone. Why do people have to say such mean things to me, even my friends, are they simply jealous of my freedom?

2007-07-19 12:19:16 · 18 answers · asked by X. 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm now 15 weeks pregnant, my fiance left when was 12 weeks pregnant for work in mexico city. He sent an email explaning that the person who promised him a job lied, and he has no work, or money to write, or call or to eat, he says he's lost 12 lbs since he's been there. I put 50 dollars credit on his phone but every time I call it kicks me to the voice mail and says it's full. I write him about 3 times a day, he borrowed a few pesos to send me that email but all the emails i've sent him are telling him that i have money to buy his plane ticket to come home, but I won't buy it until I talk to him or receive an email from him. Am I correct for doing this? Am I stupid for even thinking he's going to return to me and our baby? I have his mothers phone number but I haven't phoned her yet, should I? My mind is racing a million miles a minute---and I don't need any smart A$$es either please, I'm severly depressed and this is not a healthy thing during pregnancy...can someone help me???

2007-07-19 12:16:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently filed a motion against my ex to get summertime visitation as well as 2 nights a week, every other weekend and 2 weeks of vacation time. What is the likelihood that I will receive all of this? If it is not likely, how much time is likely? I live in NJ.

2007-07-19 12:15:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How come when girls sleep with alot of guys, they're considered a slut, but whe guys sleep with alot of girls, they get a pat on the back?

2007-07-19 12:13:35 · 23 answers · asked by Thing H. 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it just a normal dream about any old thing or is a dream about something that is sexually arousing to the guy like a naked woman?

2007-07-19 12:12:02 · 10 answers · asked by caramel_latte 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm in Arizona and got married in Feb. We bought the license to marry. Since we were already at the courthouse we just married right there and then.
A family member says that I need to purchase the original. What do u think or know?

2007-07-19 12:08:31 · 4 answers · asked by yahoo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl that lives in my complex. We have spoken hey whats up a few times. Recently I have introduced myself to her and she was friendly as well about it. Im not gonna lie about this, each time i approach to her she has a smile on her face as i do. I thought its that she just might be friendly but i actually think that she is attractive and i really do like her, I think about her a lot for some reason. I have not seen any guys around her or have seen her with a guy in a long time since i moved in. ladies what is the next move or what should i do next? thanks j

2007-07-19 12:07:51 · 3 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you use a church with pews on the left pews in the center and pews on the right with two aisles on either side of the center aisle?

2007-07-19 12:07:47 · 11 answers · asked by LeenaJo'sMommy 3 in Weddings

2007-07-19 11:58:45 · 1 answers · asked by therock316_2001 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 11:57:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm naturally pale and have never been a fan of tanning (by sun or bed). I commute about an hour to and from work each day... and now that it's sunny I've developed a bit of a tan on my left shoulder and upper arm.

I'm afriad when I wear my strapless gown in about 2 months it will look a little silly, especially from the back with my extremely pale white upper back contrasting with my shoulder. I've never really played with self-tanning lotions or tried the spray-on tan thing.

Have any of you ladies tried self-tanners or spray-ons and were happy with the results? I don't want to look orange ;-)

My fiance suggested I just start wearing sunscreen on my left shoulder, but it isn't going to take away the color I already have... any suggestions or personal experiences would be appreciated. Thanks!

2007-07-19 11:57:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

For the past few weeks, I have noticed that my sister in law has been talking to my husband a lot. I got the new cell bill and her number was all over it. Mostly calls made by him. She tells him everything and I started to feel uncomfortable with it. I told the both of them that I didnt like it and they both got mad and said that they are "family" and nothing was going on. ANyway, after that incident, everything cooled down., so I assumed.My sister in law recently got her nipples peirced and decided to show it. She was showing to only the girls of the family. Later I was told by my best friend that her ex boyfriend spoke to my husband and he told him that my sister in law showed him her breasts. I asked him about it and he denied it. I mentioned it to her and she did too. My best friend of 22 years, never lies to me about things.. She has my back 100% . Do you think something is going on between them two? What would you do? Am I assuming things? I need some advice..

2007-07-19 11:55:22 · 19 answers · asked by its not that serious 2 in Friends

My in-laws treat my children(from another marrige) different from their grandchild. I am ready to snap, but afraid since we are staying with them that they will say leave. What I want to say is till you treat your other grandcchild like crap keep away from my kids. I mean my children can be doing the same thing and they will get yelled at but the others wont. What can I do?

2007-07-19 11:53:52 · 6 answers · asked by cupidangelgirl2002 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A guy i know dont express his feelings to his girlfriend. He don't even tell her that he loves her. Does he love her or he just is not a emotional type of guy. How would you even know if he liked someone if he cant say how he feels?

2007-07-19 11:52:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are these reasons adequate for filing a divorce or requesting an annulment:

1) Husband is a chronic gambler.
2) He is unemployed and does not help pay the bills.
3) Threatened to attack wife with kitchen knife.
4) Takes control of his wife's car after his own has been recalled for late payments.
5) Borrowed a $100,000 loan based on forging wife's signature for a joint agreement with the bank.
6) Frequent disputes between the couple; a clear indication of incompatibility.

The wife is supporting the entire family including her husband with only one job. Since he is such a useless bum, how can she get rid of him?

Any help would be appreciated. Thank you very much.

2007-07-19 11:52:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what can i do to harm my mom . she disrespects me and should pay highly for it.

2007-07-19 11:50:43 · 17 answers · asked by alexhoops4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he 17yrs old almost 18 both parents at home i dont know if im just overly concern or what . he wants to be outside all the time he said he cant waite until he turns 18. it hard for me to let him go to the park back and forth becuse of crime gangs etc. our neighborhood is not all that great . hes not a gangmemeber i have an open mind to certain things i know he getting older and that what to do other things but what the limit i let his friends sit outside and eat pizza hangout i figure this is how i will find out what his friends are like. some have single parents or no mom at all or parents that just dont careis it a faze that he going through i dont know

2007-07-19 11:48:50 · 7 answers · asked by star 2 in Family

How do I find information on efficiencies in Raleigh, NC? Who could I talk to or where could I go? Any thing... thanks

2007-07-19 11:43:34 · 1 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and if so how can i put my fella off gettin his groove on cos i cant b assed

2007-07-19 11:42:40 · 21 answers · asked by RACHY 3 in Singles & Dating

Been married for 10 years and were like roommates raising our 2 kids...

2007-07-19 11:35:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We am looking for some place nice in Texas or one of the bordering states to go on our honeymoon, besides Mexico..

Do you know of any good locations that would be nice for a honeymoon?

We want to be around water.. It doesnt matter if it is beach or lake.. We jsut want some place that is really nice and relaxing where we can share our time together, and have fun.

We dont want to travel to far away since we will have kids staying at home with the grandparents. So we want to be able to return incase of an emergency fairly quickly..

2007-07-19 11:33:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I dont ask out bois, i never have. i think they shud ask me out. and if they dont-we dont go out. it's just how i am. i never believed in girls b'n the ones 2 ask out bois. Am i werid?

2007-07-19 11:28:45 · 9 answers · asked by Merci 2 in Singles & Dating