Family & Relationships - 19 July 2007

This question is open to men and women. Do you find stretch marks ugly? Or does it not bother you?

2007-07-19 10:17:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am currently going thru a divorce. My husband and I split because he was always gone in the marriage and my dumb butt cheated, which I completely regret! I am now in a relationship with a great guy and my soon to be ex is dating other woman but for some reason we cant stop thinking about each other.

He tells me that he misses me and we always talk about the great times we had with our children and the times we had when we were together. He was my partner in crime and we worked very well as a team, but for some reason greed pushed us off track.

What does this mean? Does it mean that I should try to work it out with him? I have changed for the better and he promises to change his old stubborn ways but I am scared to let go of my current relationship and work on my marriage. I am scared that he says he will change but doesnt. What do you think I should do?

2007-07-19 10:17:00 · 12 answers · asked by Going to NY 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating one of my girlfriends for a few months now and as of a month ago I started openly dating her sister who also lives with us. I have never been happier. I have been a dog and a cheater my whole adult life. I have been able to be open and honest for the first time. At first I was certain this would blow up in my face but so far so good. They both seem to be liking the situation. I make great money and they are both being well taken care of so they seem to be down with this arangement. I want things to stay this way permanently. The problem is we have had to hide the true nature of our relationships from everyone. My buisness would be greatly effected if certain people new about this. Not to mention when both sides of our familes come over we have to pretend I am only dating the one sister. I want to be completly out in the open to everyone about this but am afraid of the consequences. What to do

2007-07-19 10:16:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would lure the guys

2007-07-19 10:16:04 · 21 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Singles & Dating

If not where can I bring it?

2007-07-19 10:15:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I split up from my partner Marie a fortnight ago. Im 38, she's 31. I have a son who's recently been diagnosed with ADHD and can be a little bit of a handful at times! Marie who has no children says she is jealous when I give my son attention and jealous of the girl I had my son with and hates it when I have contact with her and when I have to go and pick my son up. I've been with Marie for 10 months. She's a School Teacher. The weekend before we split Marie booked the Wedding. She pushed for us to get engaged, although we had numerous arguments regarding going drinking around her ex, who tried to glass me over my head! Her ex came over one evening and sat himself down next to her and she just smiled and chatted to him! Fully aware of what he tried to do to me. I'm no angel and started arguments as I was stressed about medication my Son was on. I run a new business and was stressed about this too. I just feel shes never been there for me! She hasnt been in touch. Will she be in touch?

2007-07-19 10:15:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

young as in 18-20

not on the internet

2007-07-19 10:13:45 · 22 answers · asked by ukuleleninja e 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy and i dont know what to do!

2007-07-19 10:12:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really wish I would like the guys that like me. But I don't, so I feel guilty because they're really nice guys. I only seem to be attracted to guys that are not interested in my. Why am I like this? I'll never fall in love because i'm screwed up.

2007-07-19 10:12:14 · 12 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it unmanly to want to fall in love? A lot of my friends just want to have sex with girls. I actually dont want casual sex. I want to fall in love with a girl before I have sex with her. What does this say about me? Am I too sensitive? Is that gay?

2007-07-19 10:10:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In March I moved to a new state. I'm have no one here but my husband and my children. He is in the Army, so we must go where they send us. We have had problems in the past over his daughter and his ex-wife. We also have had problems in the past caused by him hiding things, lieing to me, and sneaking around behind my back. He has not ever cheated on me that I know of and swears he hasn't. The problem is... he is still lieing to me about stupid **** and lies to me about little things. To make matters worse, his daughter is living with us while her mother is in Iraq. her mother has "brain washed" her into believing that my husband does not love her because of me and my children. His daughter believes this even though she lives here. She doesn't listen to me or my older children when we try to help her at sports or school studies. She things $$ is love and we don't have it to spend like her mother does. I almost left my husband a week ago because of all of this. HELP

2007-07-19 10:10:25 · 12 answers · asked by GRITS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Don't want to hear any move on or look for other fish in the sea type answers, I have found the fish I want and am working hard to fix myself; excercise (lost 30 pounds already), am starting to see a counselor, and just generally looking at my life and trying to be a better person.

She still agrees to see me as friends, but I still love her and care for her deeply, and truly want to have a relationship with her. I don't know what to do, and don't want to scare her into not seeing me at all by begging her back or trying to pressure her. It has been two months since we were together.

2007-07-19 10:09:26 · 18 answers · asked by manimal2878 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 10:09:20 · 13 answers · asked by rdrslvr 1 in Weddings

Been to a reception or had a reception where no one showed up, I've been having this dream that this would happen at my wedding reception next year. So if it did what did you/they do?

2007-07-19 10:08:07 · 11 answers · asked by ☺ ♥ ☺ ♥ 2 in Weddings

DRAGON 2008
"I BELIEVE IN U.S."

2007-07-19 10:08:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can this be done without the consent of the ex-spouse?

2007-07-19 10:07:46 · 7 answers · asked by Chelsner 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like holes in the floor of heaven.

2007-07-19 10:07:19 · 16 answers · asked by sks 1 in Weddings

(continue) friends? Why is that?

2007-07-19 10:07:05 · 16 answers · asked by You are stellar 2 in Singles & Dating

i went on a trip with a bunch of my friends ..... i didnt know him at all ... but i sat next to him the whole way and we talked alot and every thing that i like or didnt like he agreed and said that same with him ... when he talked to me he looked right in my eyes but i was only with him for 3 days ... it seemed like he liked me .. but his best friend was sitting right next to us ... how do i know if he didnt say anything cuz his friend was there ???

2007-07-19 10:06:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

DRAGON 2008
"I BELIEVE IN U.S."

2007-07-19 10:06:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean your with someone now, but you meet another person.....who you are now friends with.....and you start to wonder if maybe you should break up with this one your with now?? I'm not going to do this though. It's just out of curiosity that's all.

2007-07-19 10:05:32 · 4 answers · asked by daddys_princess_star 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-19 10:03:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so my brother is homosexual and likes others of the same sex. My hubby obviously is not. My brother told me that he likes my husband. Now he is hitting on him and everything. My husband and i banned him from the house for a month before but he keeps coming back, my bro leaned in to kiss my hubby and my hubby pushed him away and told him to get a life. He slapped my husband's butt and growls at him. He tells him to stop and talks to him about how he is uncomfortable. What should we do? We have twin girls and I am preggo with triplets, and even though they are not even a year old, I don't want him to act like this in my home and around my children. He also leaves messages at the house that are sexually obscene, I don't appreciate it and he knows it? How do we get him to stay away from us.

2007-07-19 10:03:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a Bi female that is married. I have a fantisy & that fantisy is that me & my husband find out selfs another bi female that would be interested in being with us in a serious relationship & I have found the bi female that is willing to be with us but I was wondering how many of you would think that it would be interesting if we all got married I mean the three of us got married?

2007-07-19 10:02:07 · 11 answers · asked by Sexy Mama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well i just found out last nite that my ex-boyfriend really does love me and he just wont let me go he basiclly told me that no matter how long it takes he will wait 4 me!and he is a really nice guy i mean my bf just b/u w/ me 4 my best friend but that does not matter now and he asked me bak out and i feel bad because i turned him down!but he was not hurt becuase he said that their is no rush!so plz help me and tell me does he really care and does he really love me or does he just want me bak?o and by the way this ells me sumthn' 2......we broke up a year ago and he has not had a gf since then was he waiting this whole time? plz plz plz help thank u

2007-07-19 10:01:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her maiden name was Mary Margaret Langevin and she graduated from Lexington High School (Mass.) in 1965. I have already exhausted all of the search engines on line so don't even suggest any of them. Thanx

2007-07-19 10:00:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My dad passed away a few yrs ago, so I asked my uncle (dad's bro) to give me away.

Although I have two brothers, they are both younger than me ~ plus I am in my 30's & it seems weird to have a *younger* bro. "give" me away ~ considering my age, independence, etc. It's not like I am just leaving home to be w/my fiance or anything ~we have been together for a number of years now.
Besides, I would rather have my bros as groomsmen so they can both be more involved w/me & the rest of the wedding party.

I considered asking my mom to walk me down the aisle ~ but we are both super clumsy & I am afraid we will both trip =( OR she will be emotional which will make me cry ~ my uncle is tall & sturdy & NOT emotional ... a good person to keep me walking straight ;)

Anyway, people assume that one of my brothers is going to be walking me down the aisle & are suprised when I say it will be my uncle. I assume the "proper" choice is to ask a bro, but has anyone seen it done differently?

2007-07-19 10:00:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If this is you, do you ever feel cheated that you didn't get to at least experience being with at least one other man, or are you completely content being with just your first love?

2007-07-19 09:55:56 · 11 answers · asked by TB28 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's say a person fell in love w/ someone, but they were famous and seemed impossible to reach....and they're willing to do almost anything for that person. Where should he start or...should he even try?

2007-07-19 09:55:52 · 1 answers · asked by Best Answer 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I own a cat , and this cat has taught me so much about females ..
( In my experience except for the shape and size difference, most females are exactly like cats..Same Attitude, behavior, grooming - and of course purring are the same ) I am just surprised that why more men do not turn to their cats to learn about females ..My question to you females is are you exactly like cats or 90% , 80% like cats??

2007-07-19 09:55:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating