Is it unmanly to want to fall in love? A lot of my friends just want to have sex with girls. I actually dont want casual sex. I want to fall in love with a girl before I have sex with her. What does this say about me? Am I too sensitive? Is that gay?
2007-07-19 10:10:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No that's definitely not gay... I wish all guys wanted to fall in love. Guys need to be more sensitive.. You sound like a dream guy.
2007-07-19 10:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Its endearing, genuine, honest, heartfelt and has integrity. Any, I repeat, ANY girl would be lucky to find a guy like yourself. Falling in love is something HUMAN BEINGS long to do regardless of gender. Our culture just needs to change quite a few stereotypes about men and emotions etc. I think its sad, because I know men long for that connection just as much as women. Maybe in a different way, but yeah, men want love too.
2007-07-19 10:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's always gay to want to fall in love with a GIRL
2007-07-19 10:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you will probably get more women than a man that is afraid to fall in love and is just looking for a piece of @#$%
don't change. you sound like a good guy who respects women.
it is definately not gay.
2007-07-19 10:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by NATALIE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not gay. It just means that you want to have a real relationship. You no what you want and that's a good thing. Be proud of yourself :}
2007-07-19 10:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by lalala 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well you will probly just discount my answer cuz i am gay but let me tell you it is not gay to want to fall in love. (and acually like 90% of gay guys just want sex). it just makes you a romantic and alot of girls like that. They don't want to be used as sex toys. And they really apricciate guys who will love them and respect them and not just expect them to give it up.
Cameron
2007-07-19 10:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by Cameron Defton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it says that you aren't gay guy. thats kool that you know what you want before going out and just droppin the pants for a piece. means that you are actually a bit mature.
2007-07-19 10:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. Casual sex is for chumps who want crabs. It's great that you are sensitive and want to fall in love. After all it takes a man to love and an animal to have sex.
2007-07-19 10:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Its only gay if you want to fall in love with men. Do what you want and let your friends do what they want.
2007-07-19 10:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're one in a million.it says you have consideration for people,women especially and that you don't follow the crowd. in my book, that's a good thing. stick to your guns. those friends of yours may think they know what they want right now but you know what you want in the future.
2007-07-19 10:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋