ok well i just found out last nite that my ex-boyfriend really does love me and he just wont let me go he basiclly told me that no matter how long it takes he will wait 4 me!and he is a really nice guy i mean my bf just b/u w/ me 4 my best friend but that does not matter now and he asked me bak out and i feel bad because i turned him down!but he was not hurt becuase he said that their is no rush!so plz help me and tell me does he really care and does he really love me or does he just want me bak?o and by the way this ells me sumthn' 2......we broke up a year ago and he has not had a gf since then was he waiting this whole time? plz plz plz help thank u
2007-07-19 10:01:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Omg what are u to do theres so many ideas floating here how can you keep score does he luv u or not was he really waiting for u or did it not wk w/ his past gf how about giving ur selves time to talk it out and seek a common understanding either way i hope u r happy in future
2007-07-19 10:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it can seem like having a boyfriend is like a light switch that is either on or off, but that's not how the heart works. You can't just decide that you will be together again and pick up where you left off.
If you still like this guy and he hasn't treated you badly in the past, then why don't you spend some time doing things together, getting to know each other again, to see what you each feel. But you should make it clear to him that this doesn't mean you are boyfriend and girlfriend again. It means that you're giving yourselves a chance to consider that possibility.
Basically, you don't have enough information yet to decide, and spending some time together as friends can help you to know if you want it to be more than that. But he sounds really eager, so if you follow this advice, make sure that he understands that you don't know what your own feelings are yet.
2007-07-19 17:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by Yankee in London 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you are a teen, since that is what your diction indicates; I will say that neither of you love each other.
He is lying to you. There is no way he waited an entire year for you. What probably happened is that the girl he left you for has dumped him and he is getting lonely. Knowing you are not the sharpest tool in the shed, he has returned to familar ground; trying to sniff out a little action until he can line up another 'hot chick'.
Stay away from him, he is using you.
2007-07-19 17:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by coffeend 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He waited a year? Is he 12 years old or just really that desperate? There is a reason you broke up with him, you need to remember what that was, because it did not go away. You will have the same problems all over again.
2007-07-19 17:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys never change. Something is bound to happen where you will just end up breaking up with your ex again. I mean, it happened the first time...right? but overall, it just depends on how you actually feel about him... if you turned him down, and you regret it...maybe you might still have feelings for him...
2007-07-19 17:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by penguins4me12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm either he wants to just make out with you.Or he has deep feelings for and misses the way you were with him.Wut i would suggest is take a long walk with him LONG.and talk a bout getting together with him agin.And sorta flirt with him and if he makes a move,He has deep feelings for you and aint kidding.But if he does not Hes either really wanting you to make a move or he is not really wanting it enough
2007-07-19 17:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by cheezytim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you want a guy who "TRULY" loves you. A guy who breaks up with you for your "best friend" isn't offering the kind of love you deserve. True love has no interruptions...it should be consistent. It doesn't take a break so that it could sleep with your best friend.
2007-07-19 17:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by eh! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he was waiting or he just couldn't get one and so he's come crawling back. If you like him, take him back. Whatever you do, don't take him back because you feel sorry for him. You can't build a relationship on pity.
2007-07-19 17:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a pussy. go out with him for a few months and make him buy u s h i t. he has incredible low testosterone. hes also an asshole. hes trying to make u feel bad for him and its working. i would fight him and win in a matter of seconds. i take it hes not very strong, hes also insecure and hes a control freak. like tom. peace.
2007-07-19 17:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he broke up whit u 4 your best friend sounds shallow dont go back whit him he might just jump on the next chance that comes along
2007-07-19 17:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋