If this is you, do you ever feel cheated that you didn't get to at least experience being with at least one other man, or are you completely content being with just your first love?
2007-07-19 09:55:56 · 11 answers · asked by TB28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I wonder often. But my guess is that even if I had been with many, or a few...I might still wonder what this or that good looking guy was like. Just human nature....Just imagination....doesnt mean i am going to run out and cheat
2007-07-19 10:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by Bite me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did my own bit of exploring and whatnot. My husband did too. We both still look, but we aren't going anywhere. I sometimes wish I didn't sleep with the guys I did, but they were learning experiences. I am now with the ONE man I want to be with. Some people require the experimentation in order to learn how to be better lovers, some just click with the first and only. It all depends on who we are. You're either faithful or you're not. If you feel the need to be with more people, then the guy/girl you're with is not the ONE.
2007-07-19 22:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Joules Byrne 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with my very first. First boyfriend, first lover, and first husband. And yes, we have our problems. But, I am trully happy. I am very content. I don't want anyone else. I have a wonderful man taking good care of me and believe me that is hard to find. I've heard lots of stories. But, I think that if you're happy with who you are with then take it! Because another woman will be waiting right when you "say forget it" to snatch him up.
2007-07-19 17:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by BabiGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a one woman man, there is much to be said for ignorance in this field. I love my wife, and dont have to compare her to past loves, or anyone else, we can just be us. This foolish idea that you have to sleep around to be happy in a marriage is the biggest load of crap i have ever heard. Be happy that you are in a special enough relationship that you dont have to find out.
2007-07-19 17:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Qyllix 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, how could you not be curious.? I believe this is why you should not marry "your first", thats only my opinion, it does not green light being a ho. My questions is, sure its natural to wonder and be curious but is it because there is a problem, do you feel you are not being fulfilled? There should be more or better?
2007-07-19 17:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by unpublished critic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been curious, but ive never tought of cheating. Im completely satisfy with my hubby = )
2007-07-19 17:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by Latina4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you know your husband wants to be with you there is no reason to look somewhere else. Trust is a big turn on.
2007-07-19 20:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll be honest...i think that this is one of the reasons my wife wants us to be friends with benefits...she has only been with me...and for the last 9yrs we've been great...but recently she's been looking into more or so it seems...
on my side...i did have a chance to explore...soe the oats as it were...and maybe that's why im more stable here...i dunno...
2007-07-19 17:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by **wj25** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES,... now I'm going through a divorce after 30 years, better later than never!!!!!!
2007-07-19 17:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish that I was able to say that I had only been with my husband. I wish with all my heart.
2007-07-19 17:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋