DRAGON 2008
"I BELIEVE IN U.S."
2007-07-19 10:08:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one is ever that good and be yourself
2007-07-19 16:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there; Know the feeling. Being short and having glasses doesn't help either. Young women tend to be attracted to guys that are bad or exciting, but if you are a good guy, a good woman will eventually find you. The result of that can be a long happy marriage.
At work, the nosers look like they prosper. And can to some extent, but I make six figures today without it.
Be true to yourself and hang in there.
2007-07-19 10:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way man, I always am the good guy and most of the time girls goes for the "bad-***". But what I have noticed alot is that the "bad-asses" usually dont stay in a relationship for that long and that the good guys usually stay in a good relationship for a while. So I'd say it's good to be the good guy but be someone girls will remeber, be really funny or really wacky or really romantic, you just have to find the right girl and the right combination of personality in you and her.
Hope this helps.
2007-07-19 10:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel that way a lot because society tells you that. Most of the reckless and wild guys get all the girls because it satisfies those girls...temporarily. Some businesses thrive on guys who skirt the rules to get ahead. However, companies like Enron learn that the hard way.
Stay how you are and don't change just because you think it will help get you somewhere. The only place it will get you is injured, in jail, or with the 'wrong' girl.
2007-07-19 14:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by txofficer2005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling I'm going to be the oldest person answering this question. And I will sound like it, too.
It does seem like the jerks are much better at "pulling," as the English say. A lot of women like Bad Boys of one sort or another. But being a good guy does end up being its own reward. It's who you really are. You won't feel right being a jerk.
As I write this, I remember my own grandmother telling me thirty years ago to just be myself, that the love of my life was out there, and that she wouldn't recognize me if I was pretending to be someone I'm not. Sounds hokey. But it's true. You are your own most valuable asset.
The love of your life, or at least the next love of your life, is out there somewhere, my friend. Maybe she's even thinking, "Why can't I meet any guys who aren't jerks?"
2007-07-19 10:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by Yankee in London 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you consider good.
Often men make too much effort to be nice and end up looking timid. Timid is all kinds of not how you want to look.
Politeness will improve the way women see you. But keeping your distance, not moving in for a kiss goodnight, etc... will destroy any romantic prospect they had for you.
As far as nice morally, don't be nicer than you really are or you will end up with a girl who is more morally straight and narrow than you want.
Be yourself, treat women with respect, and things will happen.
Avoid seeming timid in your attempts to seem polite. Be open, be strong, be assertive, but remain respectful.
2007-07-19 10:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by Pantros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a woman and feel the same way about men. we just gotta hang in there. someone will come along eventually. i just hate being the good faithful partner all the time only to get f*cked around. and i dont believe in being unfaithful and a liar to others. even if i tried i couldnt do it. its just too much drama. i just want to be loved. i know the kind of person i will be. its just a matter of finding someone with the same intentions. good luck!
2007-07-19 10:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because thats how a lot of people feel and not just guys. that and it seems like the ones that are being bad always get what they are after versus the ones that try to do right get screwed in the end cause thats not what girls want at first they have to be shown that that is what they want.
2007-07-19 10:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by nay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good guys always finish last....isnt that the saying....I find that immature girls like wild, reckless guys, until they are ready to settle down, get married and be committed....I know how hard it is to wait for the right one, but dont give in to being a jerk just to get a woman...you will get one and when you do...the nice guy has the last laugh.
2007-07-19 10:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by Reda T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember it is only an illusion that other people have it better than you. you are going further than you realize when you hold on to your being a good guy. taking the high road is going alot farther than the cheat who takes the short cut and has to go back ten paces.
2007-07-19 10:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by adelaide 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to feel that way, but hang in there. There are enough monstrous, evil, thuggish, dog-abusing, wife-abusing lug-heads around as it is.
Goodness will bring rewards far richer than evil can ever imagine, or some kind of Yoda crap.
2007-07-19 10:11:27 · answer #11 · answered by Old Fat Bald Guy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋