Family & Relationships - 23 July 2007

my friend knows how i feel about him, but he isnt sure if he feels the same way...
I got his name tatood to my chest and he knows about the tatoo but he doesnt know his name is on it...
i want to tell him without freaking him out... anyone know any smooth ways to let him know? preferably through texting.

2007-07-23 23:57:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Instead of working 40 hrs a week, I want to spend 40 hours a week at strip clubs just hanging out, is this a good idea????

2007-07-23 23:49:40 · 9 answers · asked by Jason C 2 in Singles & Dating

in the space of 2 months, they were both negative influences in my life but it does'nt stop me feeling awful.I have a long lonely drive ahead of me today, what can I do to get through this "blue" day, how can I think positive and stop missing them and feeling like I've nothing to look forward to?

2007-07-23 23:48:15 · 15 answers · asked by . 5 in Friends

My fiance who I love very much and have been living with for 2 years is getting bored. She thinks we need to have more of a life outside of each other. I have hundreds of friends, but no one is close, and the few close ones, I cant ask. She wants me to see other women, four to be exact, in exchange for her seeing one. She does not have someone in mind and neither do I. She wants to keep our relationship and marry me, but wants this time apart. She has "taken a vacation from life" this week and moved to her friends house for the week. I miss her. I dont know if I can handle being with another woman. All of my game is long gone, i think. Anyway, help me out, what do you think?

2007-07-23 23:46:58 · 16 answers · asked by hatediminishes 1 in Singles & Dating

all my friends that are girls and they have bfs and all my friends that are boys have gfs ive never had one so i wanna make it good how should i ask out a girl? here are the details shes going out with sum 1 if they break up when should i ask?
shes been my friend since like um... 4 days after skool started.
first one that answers gets best answer with more points thanks

2007-07-23 23:44:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But i still love her and still want to marry her. I she cheating on me or is she just having a little extra fun on the side. She is also pregnant

2007-07-23 23:41:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I need to be driven to and from an appointment. A friend has agreed to take me. The drive takes about 20 minutes each way. Should I offer to pay my friend? Will she be insulted if I either do or don't offer? If I should pay, how much would be appropriate. Keep in mind, these are the suburbs of NY City.

2007-07-23 23:39:51 · 13 answers · asked by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 in Friends

hi i am 23 male working in bangalore. when i sign into yahoo chat rooms i used to come across several men using IM names looks like that of a girl's IM. is there any solution to stop this non-senses? how can we identify the person in the other side is genuine? genuine friends are always welcome.

2007-07-23 23:33:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anil P 1 in Singles & Dating

What can someone do that would really turn u off?

2007-07-23 23:31:06 · 13 answers · asked by Kristy 4 in Singles & Dating

basically he could not wait to turn me down intially. once i gave up he tried to get me back. i refused. he kept trying. every time i cave in and decide to give him anotehr chacne, he goes straight away to playing mr cool . u know not returning calls, only returning an email for every 10 i send him, etc.. then as soon i move on again BAM here he is banging down my door telling me im the one who got away....

2007-07-23 23:30:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't do it face to face as she will cry & i am a terrible coward.

I can text her but she will only call & call & call so I will have to change my number.

I could fax her at her work as the shame of someone putting the fax on her desk will mean she will never call again.

I could try to sleep with one of her friends that are sure to tell her and achieving my planned objective.

I could tell her about my wife but i think she will still hang around for more.

I could just change my number as she has never seen where I live or work, this would be easiest as i could tell my mobile company that i had my phone stolen & then not pay the extra to keep the old number.

I could accuse her of sleeping around & get one of my friends to call & text her so that i have evidence before i start shouting.

Very confused, can you please help?

2007-07-23 23:26:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going to ask my girlfriend to marry me, but I have absoloutly no idea what size ring to get!!!!

PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-07-23 23:24:30 · 32 answers · asked by Impianto-Stereo 2 in Weddings

Seriously there are so many posts here about cheating spouses - nearly everyone has a story to tell. Is it part of our make up to want to cheat on our spouse - some feel that just the thought is enough to classify as cheating, wow , but it does seem that an intimate relationship with one person does lose its excitiement over time and then one party decides that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. If this is the norm it would explain why the saying " you have to work hard at your marriage/relationship " arose - maybe this is the real struggle in relationships - how to keep them interesting and new to resist the "natural " urge to stray onto new ground. Why is marriage still so popular if 50% fail because of a cheating spouse? Would alowing a relaxation of the strict monogamy rule in marriage make them last longer - speaking for myself I would not leave my wife and kids for a brief affair or one night stand either myself or if she did it.
Any ideas?

2007-07-23 23:22:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi we're italian

2007-07-23 23:20:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im 16 and 1 year ago my step sister raped me and i can not ask her why. i hate life..

2007-07-23 23:20:31 · 2 answers · asked by Mercy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-23 23:19:12 · 14 answers · asked by cenkgurler67 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-23 23:16:55 · 8 answers · asked by sweetest of all 1 in Friends

why do you always blame your kids dad, when you choosed to sleep with the jerk in the first place? Did you really think you were going to change him? Try to be honest and not defensive.

2007-07-23 23:06:59 · 19 answers · asked by Bone Daddy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ohkaty,
about 6 months ago my parents saw that i had a hickey.
i didnt have sex oor anything.now i feel like they wont ever trust me again. im still with the same guy weve been together for almost a year. (im 13 by the way) and i just want to know how to gain their trust back. it seems like everytime i try to talk to my mom about it she just ignores me completely and tells me to leave her alone. im so confused on how to make them trust me again.and it sucks.

2007-07-23 23:01:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy in class touched my hands from behind while I was packing things. He then made a gesture as if he wanted to touch my breasts. I kept packing then I looked at him and he looked away. Why does the guy touch me? Is this sexual harassment?

2007-07-23 23:00:17 · 14 answers · asked by Rachelly 2 in Singles & Dating

someone wrote to me "hi how are you remember to write back bbe, xx"

what does bbe mean?

thanks x

2007-07-23 22:59:22 · 11 answers · asked by Zalia 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-23 22:55:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-23 22:54:28 · 8 answers · asked by nicole11208923 1 in Singles & Dating

3 coworkers that I am close to are all pregnant, a close childhood friend of mine is also pregnant 3 months, 2 of her friends are pregnant, and my cousin is pregnant with her third baby. Is this an omen I will or should get pregant soon? I am kinda hoping it is bc I want a baby (I am 24).

2007-07-23 22:52:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She seems nice and all but I still seem to get intimidated by her. She's the kind of person who gets mad easily when you tell her something that you don't even expect to annoy her. I've thought so many times that I don't wanna cross her since she's the kind of girl who has a large reputation at school. Smart, athlethic, popular (I think) she's almost good at anything. She's immature but when she gets mad I get a little scared.

Just the other day she got mad at one of my friends for a very trivial reason and I even thought it was stupid. She ignored her but at one point she told her that she should be thankful that she's still talking to her 'cuz if it was another person she would completely ignore her. I've also heard stories from my friend that it's hard and painful to have her as your enemy since she experienced fighting with her before.

What should I do to not get intimidated? I'm not a smart person and I don't have a reputation like hers so I'm sure I can't stand against her.

2007-07-23 22:51:32 · 8 answers · asked by emina_black 2 in Singles & Dating

when they are not around you! do you feel you loose a conection when there are power struggles?

2007-07-23 22:50:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-23 22:50:10 · 17 answers · asked by Max 5 in Singles & Dating

but my familly seem to be disgusted by it.ive told her i dont care as long as he is good to her i dont care if hes pink green or purple.but why is my whole familly so upset by this.they are being quite nasty to her and its causing a rift between me and my familly .i feel i have to side with my daughter but im also trying not to fall out with my mum sisters an brothers too.advice would be nice as im not sure how to deal with this issue

2007-07-23 22:47:53 · 24 answers · asked by reorete 1 in Singles & Dating

What are the posible dangers of having sex when the girl is having her monthly period. i need to know. coz i think we did it already twice and im worried for my gf...

2007-07-23 22:45:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter was molested by her step father Timothy tobin Roche here in las vegas 4 -5 yrs ago.The mother just told me about it 4 months ago. I asked her 3 yrs ago about this because his parents molested both my 2 children and his 2 children that we share by the same mother. She flat out said no but he had urges. I have now found out that she lied and he confessed to her back then. He has since confessed to me and offered to let me kick his *** freely.!?!! I want more than that please. The police said there is nothing they can do since my daughter doesnt remember now because of the mothers cover up. There is other instances of him molesting others. Well she now has started to FEEL SORRY for him. He is a drug addict(speed) doesnt work in and out of jail, controlling, and talks **** to my daughter! She now has moved him back inside the house where 6 kids live. Nobody will help me I feel like I am the bad guy here and all i want is for him to go to prison for what he did to my daughter .

2007-07-23 22:42:09 · 15 answers · asked by tonyurbanski 1 in Marriage & Divorce