Family & Relationships - 23 July 2007

How can they be so sure about this? And why do they feel the need to tell the girl they're with? Telling a girl this only makes her feel like she's wasting her time being with him. It's so frustrating. Especially for females that don't want to just be someone to pass the time with. Those of us that want more, that one day want to get married, it sucks when a guy tells us that.

2007-07-23 03:30:48 · 30 answers · asked by JuneBug 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it to avoid lowering thier mood or is it to hide your shame at being cr*p and useless?

2007-07-23 03:30:35 · 19 answers · asked by ? 5 in Friends

ive been textin this guy and he says he wants 2 meet up!
i really like him but feel like he only wants to meet me for sex!
i dont want to be used but dont want him to think i dont like him!
i know that im quite pretty but went i talk to him he makes me feel like im somehow not pretty enough for him!
i dont know what to do, any suggestions please!
thanks
xx

2007-07-23 03:30:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any ideas on what I should get him....been with him for over 5 years now so running out of ideas!

Any suggestions will help, thanks xxx

2007-07-23 03:29:41 · 5 answers · asked by Arisa 1 in Singles & Dating

Do all guys like big breasts or are there some who like flat chested girls.?

2007-07-23 03:27:24 · 7 answers · asked by Stacy J 1 in Singles & Dating

I think my boyriend has a different email address other than the one i have access to. I found him out last time and he was cheating on me with a work collegue and sending dirty emails to her.

is there anyway of finding out with out actually being on his computer if he has another email address / Some sort of free website i can find out.

I wont confront him until i know im right. (or wrong)

Thanks.

2007-07-23 03:26:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-23 03:25:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been married for almost 14 yrs, 3 kids. We were only married one yr when baby Number 1 came along. We are just completely different people, in our wants, our values, our long term goals. We do not agree on anything, from discipline to money, to what our retirement holds. Our future goals are completely opposite. He is not wrong, but I am not wrong either. He is a good person, and I am a good person. We are just two people who probably shouldnt have never gotten married. We live like roommates. He helps with the kids. Once the last kid is in bed, we go our separate ways. He goes to his tv to watch his "shows". I usually end up bed, watching the news or something until I fall asleep. The only time he comes to bed with me is to have sex. Its hard to have sex when you are not emotionally connected to somebody.
I really just dont want to be married. I dont want to be married to anybody else, I dont want to date, or a boyfriend. I just want to live alone with my kids.Y is this wrong???

2007-07-23 03:24:48 · 18 answers · asked by Jackie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-23 03:22:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What are the major causes of divoice ?

2007-07-23 03:22:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What are the major causes of divoice ?

2007-07-23 03:21:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you believe in true love? I do believe in true love but do you think love alone will makes you happy for the rest of your life? How about great sex? Hmmmm sound better....what do you say about that?

2007-07-23 03:19:52 · 20 answers · asked by amarylis01 1 in Singles & Dating

I've just started dating this guy for slightly more then a month. He has invite me to his apartment this saturday evening (1st time), and he says he's cooking.

He's my 1st bf and i'm really nervous. I just really like to know, what's the approprate thing to do:
Should I offer to go with him to purchase the ingredients?Should I go early and help him cook?
Should I bring anything? or ...
Should I just arrive on time, and later help out with the dishes? (that's why my best friend say she does).

I don't want to seem rude but I was told I shouldn't do everything, else he will expect more and more, and my best friend also advice I shouldn't sleep with him (I want to wait for a few more months), do I have to tell him this in advance?

I'm really confused, any advice is greatly appreciated! :)

We're both 21 and he stays with he brother (whom he says wouldn't be around on sat.)

2007-07-23 03:19:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my girlfriend dumped me 3 days ago she claimed i like another girl that i dated two years ago who i wanted to hang out with. so i hung out i with the other girl and we ended up making out, then i did the right thing and told my old girlfriend she was crushed and i had never seen her cry that much. so she obviously still likes me but after practically cheating on her then idk how to get her back. please give me advice on how to get my girlfriend back. we have dated for 6 months on and off and this time she broke up with me i knew we would get back until i cheated on her so how do i get her back?

2007-07-23 03:18:42 · 8 answers · asked by ilmjh 1 in Singles & Dating

Do i look like miley cyrus?????
S SERIOUS QUESTION....... if i lost weight would i look like miley cyrus?
im like 122 now and 5'1! and 13 If I lost like 12 pounds and lost in my face by dieting would I look more like miley??

2007-07-23 03:17:09 · 14 answers · asked by AlwAysAdreAmer 1 in Friends

i would like to say my own vows when i get married next year but im not sure how to put them...im not religouse but i am spiritul and i am deeply in love with the most wonderfull guy who makes every day special...so can anyone out there create something romantic in the contentext of vows just to get me started id be greatfull...

2007-07-23 03:16:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, for 3 yrs i have been friends with this guy and he was cool....like till i asked him to move in..then he admitted having a kid 7 yrs ago with a girl who doesn't let him see the kid, he doesn't know if it's his. he refuses to deal with that. he promises to do better, like do his part, helping pay bills, rent, a real job. he expects me to do for him and be about him and take care of him! it's unfair! he is sleeping with me, we use condoms but wants a kid with me. hello? he has no money saved, he gets weird when i spend time with my girlfriend {WE LIVE A POLY/GF/BF LIFESTYLE} he spouts to me good things but never comes through. promises. i just feel dissapointed, and he just is a good friend but he really has no intrest in maintaining a relationship and now i am just irritated and upset after taking his word. i took his commitment to this relationship seriously and now i feel let down. what do i do? we have talked and nothing changes, he even got up in my face several times too. help

2007-07-23 03:15:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We had my son when we were in high school i was 16 and he was 17 at the time. I'm now 25 and married so i'm totally over him of course, but i don't know if he invited me because it was the thing to do or because he really wants me to be there. My husband said that we should go since our son is in the wedding, but i know for a fact that my sons father's fiance' doesn't like me to much (I think it's because me and him are still close and don't have no baby mama drama). I do know for a fact that he wants us there...but i don't wanna upset the bride on her day...what should i do

2007-07-23 03:10:46 · 18 answers · asked by D N 3 in Marriage & Divorce

all my frends make fun of me.. what shud I do..(they say atlaast I shud have kissed by this age)

2007-07-23 03:09:33 · 45 answers · asked by Answer Freak 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-23 03:07:18 · 32 answers · asked by sammy 2 in Weddings

I am 29 and still feel like my friends and I are girls and guys, not men and women.

2007-07-23 02:59:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It's summer break, schools out and there aint crap to do! lol. All we have is a computer some tvs and a couple of board games. Are there any activities that we can do so we wont be bored.*inside the house

2007-07-23 02:57:36 · 6 answers · asked by coconc93 1 in Family

I'm a virgin and I kind of let it slip to him that I was a virgin (that was 1 month ago) and he said he likes experienced girls. I want to let him know I want to have sex with him. I don't know how to let him know. I don't know what to say about wanting to have sex with him. After we kissed my sex drive is in over drive. lol I really want him. Would he turn me down? I really want to. Don't know what to say to him.

2007-07-23 02:52:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got married two months ago to a man I’ve been with for about five years. We have a child. He has an explosive personality, but for the most part, he's a good guy who works hard, is faithful and is a great dad BUT...he has a temper that he can't seem to control. I don't know if his abusive father has anything to do with it since he's the oldest, but he gets so flustered over every little thing and spazzes out when it's not called for. He's started arguing with me at the top of his lungs in front of our child (or when she's sleeping) which has made me extremely concerned.

I know nobody's perfect and everyone has their own quirks but is this something that I have to learn how to deal with? Is there a way to help him with his anger issues or am I kidding myself. Should I consider an annulment?

I love him and my daughter loves him but his outbursts are wearing on my nerves.

Please no sarcastic or rude comments. It would really help to have mature opinions. Thanks.

2007-07-23 02:45:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The last girl i met I was head over heals for her, ive never had a better feeling for a girl in my life and now im going to find it hard to top well thats at least what i feel like right now.. I met her in the shops one day and talked to her for ages, i really liked her, i asked her how old she was and she lied saying she was 17 and i thought she was 20, i asked twice just to check if she was mucking around with me and she said lied and said she was 17, so i left because i knew she would be working there some other time and i decided i wanted to see her, i went in like 4 times over 3 weeks cause i went on holidays and she just turned around and said im actually 20 i was so cut, and she just pretty much lauged and walked away.. she just wanted attention lil slut, then when i told her off she was really arrogant. Then the time before that i met this girl and at the last second when i was about to go i asked if she had a boyfriend and she did and just said thanks for keeping me company...

2007-07-23 02:45:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is a christian from a Pentecostal Church. She has been dating a single man who is really nice and treats her like a princess. They are both deeply in love but she has been married before and was divorced. (Her ex husband was the one in the wrong - and had an affair, although he won't admit it).

The problem is that her new man is a devout Catholic, and believes that he cannot marry a divorced woman as it would be adultry. Is this right? Is there anything (preferably from the Catholic Bible) that would show him that they can marry?
I care about my friend and want her to be happy.

2007-07-23 02:45:01 · 36 answers · asked by nettyone2003 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend asked me to marry him and i said yes but im only 16 and we are waiting for 3 years am i too young?

2007-07-23 02:44:37 · 12 answers · asked by Rachael A 1 in Singles & Dating

I am really in love with her. Although I'm 33 I look and feel younger. I really like this girl, it's not about sex, I wouldn't even think of having sex with her until she reaches 18 , 19 or when ever she is ready.

We look forward to hanging out together, her parents and my parents are really good friends.

Last weekend we had a family and friends gathering. I completely ignored her because I don't want others to think I am interested in her. I think she felt like I ignored her, she wanted to hang with me but I refused. She was very cold to me saying good bye.

Usually we hang out and talk and laugh. I love her so much but society is sick and always thinks the worst. I am not a pervert, I really care for her.

I feel that if I don't tell her how I feel I will loose her. If I keep ignoring her everytime I see her.

Should I tell her that I love her? Maybe she does not feel the same about me but I really need to know. I know I will loose her.

2007-07-23 02:39:44 · 32 answers · asked by johnduo0007 1 in Singles & Dating

umm, has any girl ever told her dad or mom that she's pregnant? how do I do it? Like, I know he wont get like really mad I've never seen him that way. what am I suppost to expect?

2007-07-23 02:36:24 · 24 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Singles & Dating

All relationships have ups and downs. I am not talking about physical abuse or drug abuse that stops you from functioning. What have we lost in this generation that makes it so easy to destroy a family and move on?

2007-07-23 02:33:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce