all my frends make fun of me.. what shud I do..(they say atlaast I shud have kissed by this age)
2007-07-23 03:09:33 · 45 answers · asked by Answer Freak 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all my frends make fun of me.. what shud I do..(they say atlaast I shud have kissed by this age)
Im from India where virginity is becoming a crime...
2007-07-23 03:17:40 · update #1
Don't even worry about your friends or anyone else's rude answers. Everywhere you look in this world there are bad influences. It is so refreshing and so appealing that a guy would have these types of qualities. To me, there is nothing more manly than someone who knows how to control themselves. This is not a sign of weakness, it is a sign of strength because one of the hardest things to conquer are our desires. I am sure that you are the kind of son that respects his parents and makes them proud, and to me there is nothing bigger than that. That is the most important thing. I am Indian, and I live in America, but I am no different from you. Most of my friends have very different behaviors than I do, but that doesn't change my beliefs about what is right and what is wrong. Please don't doubt yourself because of what your friends say. Let them talk now, and then when they get married, what will they be able to share with life partner that they haven't already shared with some other random girls? They will have nothing special or unique to offer them. They will have already experienced their moments with someone else. Just follow what you believe is right...I am sure that your future girl will appreciate it and realize how lucky she is!
2007-07-23 08:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. U'll be "touched" by a girl in time. Let them tease. When u finally do get kissed, or whatever by a girl, u'll have something special that ur friends can't really relate to. Just lie to them one day. I mean, if they're mature, they should leave u alone after a while. I'm from the states, I know what u mean. I got married recently, and waited until marriage. Among INdians here, it's a good thing, but among Americans, they figure, u should've been married earlier. I'm 29. I know this might not be helpful in ur case, but u just gotta deal with it. I think ur awesome, for once, I really do feel ur pain...but to me, it was worth it...it will be for u too. Don't do anything u'll regret just so ur friends will stop making fun of u.
2007-07-24 16:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not a crime that you are so upset and concerned about it. I know nowadays there is a lot of peer pressure bcoz of changing lifestyle of Indians. You would be a little introvert but that doesn't make you any less of a person.
Just forget what ur freinds say and wait sometime , its better to kiss or get physical with someone special to u rather than some random chick who is like a *****.
And I am sure u will soon find someone . Dont force i t on any of ur female friends it will ruin ur friendship only.
2007-07-23 04:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would I be wrong in assuming that you are a concerned that most girls you date will have some expectations on your experience level ?
Don't worry. I was older than you when I started. Just relax, and take your time. It will happen if you let go of the pressure. And whatever you do, don't break down and pay for it. I'm sure someone will or has suggested it and I just don't think it's the right way to learn.
2007-07-23 03:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by Barry T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF you were from the west, things would have been tough. But you are from India ! dude, Good news ! You are normal. Its your age to get married now, Soon Your mom and dad will find a beautiful bride for you and then everyone will stop teasing you.
But one thing is sure, Your wife will be very lucky that she got a pure and chaste husband, one who has not even touched a girl....... a thing that has become impossible to find in today's age.
2007-07-23 17:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by goddess_of_fame 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you facing any problems, other than your friends teasing you for not having touched a girl at 25? I'm sure your answer is "No". If your friends' taunts are unbearable, just spin a story about your having had a great time with girls. Don't lose your virginity just to silence a bunch of stupid fellows.
2007-07-23 05:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Modest 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL, MOST PEOPLE HAVE DONE SOMETHING BY 25, BUT EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT. YOU HAVE TO LOOK AT THE REASONS WHY YOU NEVER DONE ANYTHING WITH A GIRL. IF IT IS YOUR CHOICE NOT TO DO ANYTHING WITH A GIRL, THAN SO BE IT, YOU WILL WHEN YOU ARE READY. LIKE I SAID EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT. IF IT IS BECAUSE YOU ARE SCARED OF GIRLS AND WHAT THEY MAY THINK THEN, MAYBE YOU SHOULD DO SOMETHING TO INCREASE YOUR SELF ESTEEM. LIKE GET A NEW HAIR DO OR TRY TO WORK OUT A LITTLE MORE. I'M MEAN I'M NOT REALLY SURE OF THE SITUATION, BUT THAT'S WHAT I CAN THINK OF. I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR YOU. GOOD LUCK WITH THE LADIES!!
2007-07-23 03:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by TIFFERS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is fine. You have done a very good thing by practicing brahmacharya at least in deed. If you follow the moral path, many people jeer you. This is because they are immoral. They want everyone to be like them - immoral. Do not care. Trust in God. Get married.
2007-07-23 05:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by Devarat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need to go out more. Join a club, make lots of friends and hang out. Don't look for women when you hang out, just have fun. Eventually you'll meet someone through connections and networks that'll be perfect for you. Just keep in mind that sex is fun but it is overrated!
2007-07-23 03:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by Conflict 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In India its becoming difficlt to find a girl who is pretty and without a boyfriend. So dont listen to advice to hold on to ur virginity from girls.
I am clear that marriages are not made in heaven. (I have my brother's marriage as proof). Its surely better to have fun as and when u can than to wait for marriage and later realize that marriage can be bull ****.
2007-07-23 06:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by r 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋