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I always thought a wishing well was were guests wrote the bride and groom messages of love, encouragement and advice?

However, am I wrong with my understanding of the Wishing Well. Some people here say it's for putting one in.

Which one is correct?

2007-07-23 05:20:01 · 15 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Weddings

Ok say you play in the band and you play trumpet and you let some on play it and thay have herpes and you boil it bleach it desantize it nad put germ stuff on can you still get it or will you not have to worry

2007-07-23 05:19:14 · 3 answers · asked by in luv with austin 3 in Family

What does it mean when a girl kisses you on the neck? We hadn't done more than hug yet, but when saying goodnight the other day after going out she hugged me and then kissed my neck. Then she just held her head in my shoulder for some moments. What did she mean by this? What made her do this?

2007-07-23 05:17:15 · 7 answers · asked by wren_joshua 1 in Singles & Dating

Through my own experiences of meeting with many women over the years and those of friends, we have come to the conclusion that women just aren't as promiscuous as we would like them to be.

2007-07-23 05:14:04 · 17 answers · asked by disown 2 in Singles & Dating

I had just come out of a 5 year relationship, and a few months later i meet the woman i had been looking for, we had some much in comman. She has 2 great kids. I proposed 2 her after knowin her for 10 days! She spent every week driving to c me. The problem is that I belive that I have OCD which makes me lie, even abt small unimportant things, like did i but the rubbish out etc. She was goin to move in with me, until she found out that i had OCD and has now returned to scotland and found the church. I had moved up to scotland to be near her and thought this was a fresh start with her, and the offer of a second chance, but now she says that she has moved on in her life.

I know that there is not much room to say everything that has happened over the last few months between us, so i would like any views on what i should do.

I am now trying to get treatment 4 what ever problem i seem to have.

Many thanks all

2007-07-23 05:11:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why am I going crazy over this? I keep thinking my husband of 14 yrs is cheating. I have already snuck up on him at work and found nothing wrong, he still calls me every couple of hours from work to see if everythings fine, he still doesnt go out, his paycheck hours are basically accounted for. The thing is, he hasnt been too interested in sex and that makes me cautious. He blames it on his medical condition and says hes too tired and weak but I just cant seem to buy that. Why doesnt he feel that way at work when his job requires manpower? This morning for the first time, he left about an hour earlier than his usual time. Claims that there was a meeting. Again, I became angry and thought something suspicious especially after last night when he didnt want sex. What would you guys think if all other signs show no cheating but he doesnt want sex? By the way, his job requires him to be on the streets all day and in and out of homes.To me,theres plenty of time there to cheat!

2007-07-23 05:09:02 · 27 answers · asked by Blue 4 in Marriage & Divorce

The other night my bestfriend called me and told me that the guy I've been dating had said something about me that was very insincetive.The guy I am dating is best friends with my bestfriend's husband's brother.well the brother-in-law tells mybf and her husband what the guy said about me and this pissed her off so she called me.then she tells me not to say anything to the guy I am seeing because she doesn't want her brother-in-law and the guy pissed at her.ok we are all in our late twenties and early thirties and this sounds sooooooo highschool.I wasn't pissed my feelings were a little hurt and I just wanted to talk to the guy and understand things . My thing is that now that I know what he said I can't act like I don't know and he will know somethings up because things won't be normal with us untill I talk to him.but my friend kept telling not say any

2007-07-23 05:08:26 · 8 answers · asked by DRae 2 in Friends

My son and I went on vacation visiting my family for two weeks this month, my husband had to stay home because he couldnt get time off of work, and while I was there my husband was acting really funny, always calling and checking up on me, making accusations. I dont usually do this, but when I came back home, the night i got back, I looked through his phone. They say the one that accuses, is the one cheating... well anyway... There was a girls number in there that was not there before I went on vacation. The next night, I looked again to get the rest of the number( i only remembered the first 3 digits) and it was gone. deleted. He doesnt work with ANY females, and all of his friends, are my friends... what would you think?? Im waiting for the new phone bill to come out so I can check for number, if it is on there, how should I confront him? I know he would lie through his teeth.

2007-07-23 05:02:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He would be living with his mom, out of state.My dilema is his school. I want him 6 months out of the year and six months would interfere with his school.

2007-07-23 05:00:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mother is getting married next weekend and I'm her MOH. The rest of her wedding party consists of my aunt (her sister) and my aunt's two girls. THe oldest is eleven and the little one is eight. I'm doing the hair for the entire wedding party but I have no idea what to do for the kids. The oldest one has shoulder length straight hair with bangs and the youngest one has a short bob. Any suggestions on how to dress up their hair a little?

2007-07-23 05:00:00 · 12 answers · asked by Kitten 4 in Weddings

She is one of the nicest, kindest people you would ever meet, however her taste is questionable. IAnd she is extremly cheap. I have just started event planning and offered my services to someone else for free as long as I could take photos for my portfolio. She asked me to help her plan hers, and I agreed. I know, I know it is a questionable decision. I need some ideas that will help me make this wedding worth putting my name on, that doesn't break her budget and that will work well in a white rented tent. For example, a good place to buy budget linens, alternative ideas to flowers for centerpieces (no candles), creative ways to use lighting.

Thanks!

2007-07-23 04:59:41 · 10 answers · asked by Tara C 5 in Weddings

am of Indian origin, born in the US. Hubby came here for M.S. In-laws has visited us 3 months every 6 months past 2 yrs, and now might move in. I have a ? abt life with Indian in-laws? Are these normal?
1. All at dinner or watching TV. someone needs water o r phone rings - I have to go get it.
2. New Years Prty: I'm not supposed to sip wine. I said fine if hubby also forgoes it. MIL said dont' wear shorts in summer. I said fine, if hubby also wears only jeans. all shocked.
3. shopping for new car, house: they come along. ALWAYS. I can't speak freely to hubby. Have to save it for later.
4. TV: only their channels are watched.
5. Phone: I'm on phone, call-wtng, not urgent. but i have to hang up.
6. all back from 5 day trip. I have to immed. "take care" of all - coffee etc. I'm not "tired".
7. We cannot sit on same sofa. I get a call (friend has cancer or great job, hubby cannot give me a quick hug. High 5 is OK, gasp)

2007-07-23 04:58:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay. So here's the story. I was sitting in my living room when my father walked in. Usually he sits down on the living room sofa, but today he did something different. Instead of sitting down on the sofa, he walked into the center of the living room. I tilted my head in confusion as I watched him sit down in the middle of the room. I was about to ask him why he did so, when suddenly he curled up into a hurdled ball, and fell asleep. What should I do?

2007-07-23 04:57:31 · 7 answers · asked by /b/ 1 in Family

I proposed her and expressed interest in marrying her immediately after her break-off. She is not interested in me but considers me as a friend. She is now irritated by my hammering. How do I attract her towards me?

2007-07-23 04:56:50 · 15 answers · asked by shamik j 1 in Singles & Dating

guys would you be upset if your gf or maybe potential gf if things worked out, was a virgin and wanted to wait until she was ready for sex if she offered oral in between that time?

2007-07-23 04:50:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, perhaps haunted is not the right word. I am married, but not happily. We've been married for 16 years. I still love someone I met before my husband. When I met the other man timing wasn't right so it didn't work out. I have always felt that I will love him always no matter what. I still see him once in a while at work and we're still friends at work. Anyway, how can I stop my mind from going in the "wrong" direction as a married woman? I know it's wrong but sometimes I get down thinking about it. Has anything similar happened to you?

2007-07-23 04:50:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I need serious answers only. I dont know if this is normal or if i need help!

My son is 3 and his dad was in is life for the first 6 months and then went off with his girlfriend and was rarely in touch with my son. However now he has decided to return and has got his new girlfriend pregnant. He always acted violent towards me infront of my son also.

The thing is I can't stand my son being out of sight! Even when i go to work or uni. I only ever leave with my son with my mum cos she's the only person i trust. I worry my friends will use my son 'to show off' and act as if my son is theirs!

Now his dad wants him & even though i'm apprehensive because of his violence, i also don't want him trying to make any other female to 'play mummy' to my son. I dicussed this with him years ago & he still put my son into his, then girlfriends arms when my son was 2 weeks old! I cried myself to sleep for weeks because of that!

Do i need help or is what im feeling normal?

2007-07-23 04:48:20 · 35 answers · asked by Ella 1 in Family

I've lived with my fiance for over a year. He was in the military in another state and so I lived with him on breaks and summers, and with my parents during the school year. My fiance is now out of the military and moving to the state where my parents live.

We have decided to wait until I finish college before getting married, but I don't see why we can't live together when I return to my home state. My parents approved of us living together before.

My parents have said that they will stop paying for my education and will take me off of their health insurance (I have diabetes) if I move out. Though I respect their opinions, I do not agree with their "conditional love" approach to parenting.

It's not the first time they have held my health over my head. I am an non-drug-using, straight-A college student who is tired of being controlled by my parents. They're only thinking of how this will make them "look." If I do live at home they will call me a "freeloader". HELP!?!?!

2007-07-23 04:46:29 · 6 answers · asked by elnorunner 1 in Family

there's this girl that likes me and shes 16 and I'm 18 and people tell me that its illegal cuz shes a minor. And we've gotten intimate before but we havent had sex yet. Can i get in trouble if I dated her? What about if I had sex with her just because?

2007-07-23 04:44:57 · 16 answers · asked by Gary L 1 in Singles & Dating

girls: do you prefer guys to wear something down there, like briefs or boxers, or go commando?

guys: do you like to wear something down there, or go commando?

2007-07-23 04:44:54 · 8 answers · asked by Pococabana 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you do? What about the moral issues? Or one should be man enough to control his natural desires and wait for that next special person after all the divorce mess is cleared. This is the time when vulnerability is high. Am i right?

ps. some people have told me to satisfy my natural needs. But it looks cheap to me. Suggestions and advice please...

(male 28)

2007-07-23 04:44:28 · 11 answers · asked by reflection 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he says it's too much of a hassle.....so i get no adult time when my step-son visits...parents need breaks too.....

2007-07-23 04:43:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok the guy i like found out that i like him i told him that i didnt and i walked away but when i came bake he asked me to go on a walk w/ him and we walked 4 an hour and a half and talked and saw the fire works..does he like me or was he being nice...i dont really see him that often but when i do we look at each other and smile what should i do the next time i will see him for sure will be on my b-day at his dads wedding what shoud i do wait till then to see him and talk or get his # some how...and do you all think he would try and do the same??
plzzz help me!! :(:(:(:(:(:(

2007-07-23 04:42:13 · 15 answers · asked by The girl who needs help??!! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I’ve been dating this guy for a few weeks & I wanted to know what would u do or think if a young lady told u that u guys might have to stop seeing each other because she is starting to have feelings for u. For now he does everything right. He has shared very intimate things with me, from his family to his talent of being a singer & song writer. He is very attentive, affectionate, he holds me, he talks to me, he listens to me, he looks out for me & makes sure my needs & wants are met in almost every way. He has on a few occasions given me the last bite of his food if it was something I really enjoyed eating & I’ve heard that’s suppose to be something big. The thing is we have never really talked about where we wanted things to go & instead of assuming he wants a relationship I’d rather back off then scare him away. Does this make sense? Guys you know women can jump into something very fast & I don't want to do that. Also, after a few weeks he may not want to talk about a relationship.

2007-07-23 04:41:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

first of all I'm going to keep my baby[6 months preg]
second of all,who thinks my life sux

2007-07-23 04:39:10 · 31 answers · asked by BBG(Big booty girl) 1 in Singles & Dating

I usually take my sister out to play some arcade game 'till we finished the final boss stages. Our favorites are "Time Crisis" series!

If we don't go anywhere, we just cook our dinner together with lots fun chat to do... or read some interesting novel and share our POV each other. The last is "Harry Potter and Deathly Hallows".... and we're going to reread it again! LoL!!

How about you then? Any fun thing to do while dating your brother or sister?

2007-07-23 04:37:50 · 6 answers · asked by Professor Franklin 4 in Family

I work with this guy Max, and he said that he liked me one day. and i liked him 2. He would call me and we would talk on the phone. We would hangout after work and he would tell me how *Pretty, and *Attractive i was. He would hold me infront of his friends, flirt with me, and stare at me All day. I hungout with him and his friend. The next day My friend told me that he only likes me as a friend. But today i walked in and he kept staring at me and smiling. I just Semi-ignored him but not all the way. I started to talk to this other guy i like him name is Kevin. When he saw that i was talking to kevin he tried to pretend like he was just cleaning but he was really trying to listen into our conversation. Then the Max moved behind me and just stood there as i was talking to Kevin. I gave Kevin a hug and left, but the Max kept starting at me. Why is he doing this? Is he jealouse and now likes me? what should i do??

2007-07-23 04:36:59 · 9 answers · asked by gypsy18 1 in Friends

We have a rough 2 weeks out of every month. She is 44 and has severe pmdd symtoms. What are the best things I can do to eleviate the the symtoms. Seems like I do more for her, but its never enough. The other 2 weeks she's an angel.

2007-07-23 04:36:53 · 9 answers · asked by Terry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

(Males Only Plz!) How do you know when your marriage/relationship is over? He says he loves me but i don't really feel it. I am very attractive and everyone says we are complete opposites. He is a little bit less than your average Joe. He also tends to disrespect me and look at other girls in front of me..why does he do that? Doesn't he appreciate what he has?

2007-07-23 04:33:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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