first of all I'm going to keep my baby[6 months preg]
second of all,who thinks my life sux
2007-07-23 04:39:10 · 31 answers · asked by BBG(Big booty girl) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my life sux cus I'm preg at 17.We used a condom
and everything,but apparently his ex girl put a hole through all his condoms when she broke in 2 day ago.
2007-07-23 04:47:56 · update #1
how do you end in 6 months if you didn't want the baby.
its a little difficult if you are 17 but you can always have a great life even if you have a baby. Everything happens for good , do not forget this...
2007-07-23 04:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything happens for a reason. Besides, babies are precious gifts from God. Yes, your life will be hard, and yes you will struggle. Maybe you need this hard lesson in maturity. Instead of complaining, why not make things better? Sign up for classes at a community college and look into childcare assistance programs. There are many assistance programs to help young mothers get on their feet. There's nothing wrong with government assistance if you use it as a stepping stone and not a crutch. Learn from your mistakes, give your child the best life possible, and teach them where you went wrong.
2007-07-23 04:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet alot of people want you to give the baby up. Its such a hard decision to make. I think being totally selfless like that comes with age. However, my God you would make your child live in a secure world if you cannot provide it.
It also depends on your age. Can you provide for the child and work and make a life for yourself?
Get help and support of family and friends. Make the father of the baby pay support- even if it is a little.
Thinking your life is bad is no good to you or the baby.
2007-07-23 04:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might seem like your life sucks now because you are going to have a baby but your life isn't over yet.My brothers girlfriend is 17 dropped out of high school, pregnant, no life, no job, and she lives in a disgusting apartment with her stripper mom and my drug attic brother. She has a pretty shitty life right now, because she cant even work because she has to watch her little brother and sisters wile her mom is gone. Just keep your head up, I hope the best for you.
2007-07-23 04:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by Erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of babies are born from young mothers and they are fine. With good help from family and friends youll be able to raise your baby fine :) and since your so young, the age gap between you and your daughter or son wont be very long, so you can keep up with them and almost be like an sister some times!
2007-07-23 04:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
life doesnt suck...i had a friend who had a baby at 15....actually i kno alot of people who had a baby round the same age as you..........look at it this way, now you'll be a kool young mom when your kid gets older and you have a beautiful child to look forward to raising. Everything will be ok, and its nice to hear your going to keep the baby. Its funny cuz in my area like 85 % of gurls have babies in there teens, so they kinda got each other for support.
2007-07-23 04:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by Neva_Rain'z_N_Heaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We will need a little more info but if you are 17 and going to have a baby I suggest you develop a new attitude. That baby is going to be dependent on you for years and if you have a negative attitude to life so will that child.
I suggest you focus on what is good in your life, rely on family and friends in supporting you with your new child, and concentrate on changing what it is about your life that you feels need changing.
2007-07-23 04:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if your life sucks because of your baby. Please, don't think like this. If you feel your life sucks because your pregnant it's your fault, not the child's. That child is the greatest gift you will ever be given and you need to treat it as such.
Life only sucks if you let it. Wake up each morning and say to yourself that this will be a great day
2007-07-23 04:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Mayor Adam West 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are far too young to be raising children. If you think life "sux" now, you are in for a big awakening as to how bad it can really get.
2007-07-23 04:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at this point, you have to keep your baby. I hope he will stay with you and support you in your decision, Yea, that sux, hun, I'm sorry. Use condoms in the future.
2007-07-23 04:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by RAVEN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋