Family & Relationships - 23 July 2007

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years, we live together and have since 2 weeks into our relationship...


anyway, whenever anything comes up about how his past sexual relationships (Like not details or anything) I get really jealous and feel like I should go out and hook up with someone just so I have a story too...Is that dumb?

P.s. He's the only guy I've ever been with like that, and he's not just telling stories about his past, but when like one of his buddies asks "What places have you done it in?" or etc....

2007-07-23 07:33:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 5 years, and for the past 3 years we have not had any form sexual intimacy, even though my husband initiates all the time. He wants us to go to counselling and I agree.

Basically I don't quite know how to tell him without sounding like a wierdo, but lately my husband has been reminding me a lot of my father!

I can't believe I didn't notice before, the way he coughs, walks, frowns as he reads the paper ... just small things.

Also I do have issues with my father, he sexually abused my sister when we were young, as a result of this, I haven't seen him for years.

I'm not really sure what my question is. I feel like a freak now and I don't know why.

2007-07-23 07:31:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm just not sure what to think. My hubby and I have been together for 7 years, not married but together, probably having sex for 6 years. I've been wanting to have sex a lot lately and hes been turning me down! Whats up with that? Is something going on or do men really not want sex sometimes??

2007-07-23 07:30:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They are super old-fashioned. They are in there sixties and I know I might effect my their health.

2007-07-23 07:30:03 · 29 answers · asked by Gia 1 in Family

me and my girl has been dating for 9 months now, we became very very very close during those 9 months. basically we both mean the world to me and we been stuck doing the same thing every weekend for 9 months, we both want something new, you know actually going out and do something other then the same old same old, but my parents won't let us go out anywhere other then the same old places like Walmart or in our living room, wow big change, we both been working on saving up money so we can get our own place and something occured where we kinda lost all our money because of my car breaking down, grrrr, things happen in the worst time. well my parents really are putting a limit on anything we do well, now she is all upset that we need to do something new and our relationship isn't worth continueing if we don't do something, my parents will pretty much say no to anything, so if you have any Ideas of what we can do or why she suddenly is giving up, please help, PLEASE no one say we too young

2007-07-23 07:29:44 · 4 answers · asked by eclipsefreak 4 in Singles & Dating

I study in chelmsford college.... right now Im trying to sign up onto facebook and I just can't.....

Because of the email address option.... My college doesn't have one... Well I don't think they do... Can you help me.... Or is there anyone on here who is from chelmsford college and is on facebook???

Help me get the email address....


or something........

2007-07-23 07:29:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm soft-spoken, laid back, and most importantly..being myself at nightclubs. I have 2 beautiful women whom I've been seeing for a few months. I sometimes buy them drinks and talk to them very casually. They say I'm nice to be around and sexy when I smile.

Ever since the 1st woman (M), gave me her # (I didn't asked for it), I called her a few times and conversation was short and casual. Even though I left a few VMs on her phone, she was able to call back. Currently, she's a polite woman and still allows me call her.

Ever since the 2nd woman (D), gave me her # (I asked for it), she's been busy w/ school, work, and girlfriends. I left VM's on her phone and she only responded to a couple. Since then, she's a polite at the nightclub, on the phone she sounds as if she has no time to talk.

I respect both women and consider them friends, and I haven't dated them yet. Should I continue my friendship with them? Or tell them who I'm more comfortable with inside/outside of work?

2007-07-23 07:28:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like 30 yrs old and up?

2007-07-23 07:26:45 · 33 answers · asked by Oranges 2 in Singles & Dating

What does it taste like? Is it better or worse than regular frosting? Is it super expensive? How hard is it? Is it hard to chew.....etc....thanks!

2007-07-23 07:26:15 · 22 answers · asked by BTB 10/04/08 4 in Weddings

to meet with an ex when he wants to just to rub it in his face what he lost? I would not be mean or anything. I don't want to be with this person. He just treated me really badly.

2007-07-23 07:24:58 · 30 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

The guy I like whom I asked to keep in touch suggested that we should meet up again soon. Pls note I did not ask to meet again but just keep in touch. He said he had a few things to sort out and he will be in touch soon, it has been just over four months now, shall I keep waiting or should I move on? Do you think he really wants to meet up again, once I only said we want us to keep in touch and did not suggest meeting up? What do you think?

2007-07-23 07:24:57 · 5 answers · asked by amina s 2 in Singles & Dating

My so called friend met someone less than half a year ago. Since she is dating this guy, it's hard to get in touch with her, she'll often ignore me on msn, use excuses to ditch me after we made plans for a couple of beers, etc.

She is getting married next month, and I am very happy she found someone after so much misery. But I am also upset because I haven't seen her in so long, she is so into this guy she won't give me one hour of her time to catch up.

I was thinking the other day, if we are friends, why haven't I been invited to her wedding? Bridal shower? Seen her dress? Help her plan? Go with her to check on marriage stuff, met the groom, etc...

I am wondering if this friendship is only a one way thing, she probably doesn't feel the same way. Seems she remembers I am her friend when she needs to borrow money.

Should I be upset or am I making a bigger deal than there really is?

2007-07-23 07:22:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm getting married on Saturday and had a makeup trial last week. I was not happy with it at all so I have another trial on Wednesday. I want to look more natural with earthtone colors and a matte lipstick. Does anyone know where I could find pics to show my makeup artist?

2007-07-23 07:19:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I pretty much just want a friend to talk to between the ages of 18 and 24. I love horses, fishing, swimming, and i am a hard worker. I am starting college in less than a month and would like to talk to people who have already gone through it or are going through college right now. I am the youngest of a family of 8 and since i'm the only "young" person at home most of the time it can get pretty boring. I am also looking for someone who doesn't want to talk about politics or religion. Those two things should be kept to yourself and you should not try to push your thoughts and beliefs on other unwilling people. I also want someone with character. Someone who doesn't just want to get to know you long enough to lay you and then move on. I'm not like that and hopefully one of you guys can help me find someone that is not totally shallow.
Thanks for your time.

2007-07-23 07:18:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-07-23 07:16:03 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ Love Angel Music Baby 3 in Singles & Dating

I just found out my dh of 10 years cheated on me about 15 years ago when we were dating. Thing is she eventually started dating his best friend. We hung out with them alot, drinking etc. He kept trying to push me and her together to be friends yet never thought it was important to tell me about his past with her. He says it is stupid for me to be mad about it now. Do you agree?

2007-07-23 07:14:10 · 14 answers · asked by frogger 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'v been married for almos 3 year, my wife is giving me hell, it is not that she ask for a lot ,she doesn't respect me. for exemple: when she get back from work, she doesn't say hi or anything she just look at me like i killed her familly, and she always call me fat, lazy, and constantly yelling at me. honesty i think i'm gonna divorce her and let her find someone that is not fat and lazy like me

2007-07-23 07:05:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like my uncle's grand daughter, but not sure of our relationship.

2007-07-23 07:01:56 · 45 answers · asked by Desi 1 in Weddings

Weve been 2gether off&on 4 last 6yr.She was dating this guy 4 a few months but was rarely happy.He's a smooth talker&she fell for it. About 2mo. ago she confided in me that she got pregnant 1st&only time they had sex.She didn't know what to do.She was told by her Dr. she couldnt get pregnant again[she has 2(8&11)].So was this a gift or what?We talked about it alot&she decided to terminate.She couldnt right away though.Days turned to weeks&months and now its too late(personal beliefs)Thats when her whole attitude changed&shes now with HIM¬ happy.Shes scared and doesnt want to alienate him to the point that he abandons his responsiblities.Problem is he knows we are very close and love each other very much.So shes doing what she can to hide our friendship from him.She doesnt want to hurt me,and the baby comes 1st.I dont want to be a problem to her,but I cant imagine life w/o her.How do I let her know that this is killing me&there is no way this can end well 4 any1,if she isnt honest?

2007-07-23 07:01:28 · 15 answers · asked by JustWant2BaDad 1 in Singles & Dating

do girls like (jealous) overly protective guys?

2007-07-23 06:58:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and i are getting married in 7 1/2 months and we're putting our list together. How do I handle inviting my co-workers. I am only close to a couple however, my department has only 6 people (who have spouses).

My wedding is only going to include about 60 people MAX. How do i invite or not invite? How do I avoid hurt feelings? How to get our list which is currently 100+ down to 60 without hurting feelings... Help!!!

2007-07-23 06:56:18 · 21 answers · asked by shelliej01 2 in Weddings

what do you guys look for in us girls?

2007-07-23 06:53:59 · 13 answers · asked by edder fedder 1 in Singles & Dating

i told her i like her im almost positive she likes me but shes shy but still playing games with me. should i say im over her and see if she cares or will that make her say "theres no hope now" and forget about me? i tried to hook her up with a friend of mine and she got so mad she blocked me online and wouldnt talk to me because i called and my friend didnt answer and she knew he didnt answer no big deal? but she flipped out. is that a sign she likes me? she was sayin how hot he was so to see if she was trying to make me jealous i sed do u want me to hook u guys up? she sed k i sed ur sure? she sed yea but after i called him and sed he didnt answer she flipped out and wouldnt talk to me at all for a day then now everytime i talk to her she seems mad. the reason i tried to hook her up with my friend is because she sed hes "hot" but i think she was saying it to make me jeoulous and she's playing games. i asked her if i should still try and she sed she doesnt know and wants to be friendsshe is shy though im not sure if she meant what she sed she never opens up about aything especially about that. maybe she just wants to get to know me better?

2007-07-23 06:53:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I met this French guy...he was so cute. I slept with him like an idiot. This happened twice, and the last time we hung out he was acting distant...I asked him if he wanted dinner, wanted to go to a bar..different things to do during the week. He WANTED me to show him around. Well, then I realized he was posting online ( i met him online) for someone else! I emailed him telling me I wish he was honest with me, and he replied he has, he has just been busy. So then I replied to his ad with a fake email that I had several years back. Of course it was him! I deleted it, but now I want to really email him and tell him what a liar he is and that he was just using me for sex and showing him around! Ugh!!! But I don't want to be psycho...someone dissuade me!

2007-07-23 06:53:55 · 9 answers · asked by Comebackmylove 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't think it would be that painful, but do you think i'm going to need protection like a helmut or any other pieces of protection of the ladies in the class?

2007-07-23 06:51:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How come as men we can get over our ex girlfriends pretty damn fast but women always wanna linger on the guy that treated them like crap and they were always fighting with

2007-07-23 06:50:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

welll see i havent been in a relationship for around 6 months, and then i met this one girl at church, we started talking , and we liked each other alot, our personalities and all.

then around 3 weeks later
i asked her out,
and then it was going alright, and she started acting differnt, and i found out i was being to clingy.

usually all of my other relationships i was clingy and i didnt notice up,
and i was just happy i had a girl like her.
ever since she was my girlfreind i would calll her mostly everyday, and alwalys try to see her.
i used to be way clingier in past relationships and i thought i wasnt being clingy at all in this one, but i didnt give her space

i recently called her and i brought up about the problems and stuff. about being clingy and that i need to give her room
and she understands.

the start of an eraly relationship is the most important,
do you think theres a chacne it can still work out?

tthanks

2007-07-23 06:49:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and What percentage do you think are actually saying the truth? Honestly why lie when you already got caught?

2007-07-23 06:45:19 · 32 answers · asked by Totsie 2 in Singles & Dating

girls and ladies pls answer

2007-07-23 06:45:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Both a friend and I fell for the same guy. My friend had me go after the guy insisting that i do and made it so we were spending an entire night in close proximity (i.e. she had me dancing w/him, sitting next to him, etc.). He asked me out to lunch and we clicked really well and we've started dating. We're so good together so happy with one another, but at the lunch i wanted to know how he thought of her to make sure. He only see's her as a sister/friend figure in his life (his words.) i did not reveal how she feels about him on her request though.

At first she was fine acted normal and really happy for me, but now that a month has gone by she has become quite distant. I hate this now if i break up with him things between those two will be affected, mine and her relationship will be affected and both me and him will be miserable.

I just don't know what to do anymore....she's always been blunt and straight with me till now...what do u think?

2007-07-23 06:38:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends