I'm soft-spoken, laid back, and most importantly..being myself at nightclubs. I have 2 beautiful women whom I've been seeing for a few months. I sometimes buy them drinks and talk to them very casually. They say I'm nice to be around and sexy when I smile.
Ever since the 1st woman (M), gave me her # (I didn't asked for it), I called her a few times and conversation was short and casual. Even though I left a few VMs on her phone, she was able to call back. Currently, she's a polite woman and still allows me call her.
Ever since the 2nd woman (D), gave me her # (I asked for it), she's been busy w/ school, work, and girlfriends. I left VM's on her phone and she only responded to a couple. Since then, she's a polite at the nightclub, on the phone she sounds as if she has no time to talk.
I respect both women and consider them friends, and I haven't dated them yet. Should I continue my friendship with them? Or tell them who I'm more comfortable with inside/outside of work?
2007-07-23 07:28:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both women work at the nightclub and they are good friends outside of their work.
The 1st woman gave me her number and I didn't asked for it, she gave it to me.
The 2nd woman gave me her # because I asked for it. She said that womens working at the nightclub are NOT allowed to give customers her #, but I felt lucky she gave it to me. I wonder why?
Am I doing something wrong in this picture?
2007-07-23 07:30:42 · update #1
the 1st woman gave me her # and told me she cant give it out to any customers (NOT the 2nd)
2007-07-23 07:33:49 · update #2
They both work at the nightclub and have been hit on many times. It doesn't appear that either of them is interested in you as a love interest. They enjoy your company because you are probably a gentleman which is a change from what they are used to. I'd just remain friends with them.
2007-07-23 07:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are doing something wrong. If a woman gives you her number, she is probably assuming that you are going to ask her out on a date. If she drops a hint, and you don't take the initiative and ask her out, then she probably assumes that you are just not assertive (manly) enough for her, or she may take it as a sign that you really don't care for her all that much.
2007-07-23 14:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aside from this being as confusing as hell, yes. you are doing something wrong.. woman #1 is there for when you need her and woman #2 is probably prettier and sluttier, thats why she has no time to respond to you.. but as nature may have it, you want the one that treats you bad... i think you should reconsider woman #1, always availible..
2007-07-23 14:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Rodriguez #57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋