to meet with an ex when he wants to just to rub it in his face what he lost? I would not be mean or anything. I don't want to be with this person. He just treated me really badly.
2007-07-23 07:24:58 · 30 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why bother with him?
2007-07-23 07:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by wizjp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to meet with a guy who wants you "to rub it in his face what he lost," AND who treated you "really badly?"
2007-07-23 14:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by Resident Evil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As good as it would feel to rub it in his face... keep your pride and don't bother. You will regret it later. Especially if you decide you want to be friends or get back together someday. (You never know!).
Having said that... if you happen to know he's going to be somewhere that you are going... there's nothing wrong with looking your best. Just don't act arrogant. It's not worth it in the long run!
2007-07-23 14:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by busybankinggirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong. Meeting with a person to rub in another's face is vain. You are not only wasting his time, but also your own time being with him. Get out.
2007-07-23 14:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by jquick13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really just be a grasious face rubber-iner! You can get togeather and say hey I'm glad you are doing well, I am doing great I have a wonderful life and I feel wonderful I'm glad we could talk and have no hard feeling from the past (even if there is) and he will most likely wonder why he did what he did becasue you are not pinning after him so really he lost in a way
2007-07-23 14:27:56 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your almost leading him on, and he may think he has a second chance. If you wanted to stay friends with him, than it would be okay.. but you just want to rub it in his face, so yeah it is kinda mean.
however i don't know how he treated you but if it really was bad, go for it girl ;P
2007-07-23 14:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by LiveTheLife YouLove ღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is wrong. sounds like you are no better then him if he really did treat you bad. if this is the kind of person you are maybe you deserved what you got. you may have treated him horrible just being yourself and not knowing it. Maybe you asking this question because you know it is wrong and you really are a good person and didn't deserve your treatment.
2007-07-23 14:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by haggismoffat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-07-23 14:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it wrong? Would you want it done to you? Trust me, he'll know what he lost on his own and (in the near and distant future) you'll feel better about not doing that...plus it would come back to you in some form or another.
2007-07-23 14:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jose M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is wrong but not nice. What if he throws it back in your face. Do you have a boyfriend? Does he want to see you or you see him hard to tell with the way the question is phrased. Do what you want but be careful.
2007-07-23 14:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by Jenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean that you want to rub it in his face? Why not rub 'em in my face? No, it's not wrong.
2007-07-23 14:27:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋