Family & Relationships - 23 July 2007

I'm interested in a guy that is 25 and I'm 30.. is he too young for me, or too immature?

2007-07-23 04:29:23 · 18 answers · asked by Azucar 1 in Singles & Dating

they want to send me to jail for seeing my boyfriend that they dont like. So they hold you hostage and i have 2 go everywhere they go so i wont used the phoe or the computer???

2007-07-23 04:28:06 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I feel hopeless, sad, and question my worthiness over the last 14 years. He said that something was always missing between us and I deserve to find someone who will love me. I remember all the good times and can't believe that he was never in love with me; however, that is what he said. We did mostly get married because I was pregnant, but I really thought that we had love between us. How do you move on from here? It's so sad and painful and I cant figure out how I can focus on work and my life while being so miserable.

2007-07-23 04:27:28 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is very controlling, to the point where I am not allowed to talk to people, or wear clothes that aren't big as a tent, or allowed to go see my sister.... How would you go about making change in this situation?

2007-07-23 04:26:38 · 23 answers · asked by passionofchaos 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've recently started dating a man who seems to be very nice, very quiet but very respectful and thoughtful. He seems to really care for me and want to spend time. My concern is that he never asks questions about me even though I ask him. I have asked about his marriage, divorce, job, friends, family etc... He will freely answer but never asks me in return. I took him out for his birthday, he never asked me when mine was, he has never asked about my family or where I'm from or what I even do for work. Any thoughts?

2007-07-23 04:26:31 · 8 answers · asked by SB 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had ongoing problems for years with my husband and control, seeking dominance over me and our children, but I think I have come out of the dark the past couple of years as to what he is doing and how to get around it to maintain my independence and self respect while I figure out how to end this relationship safely and financially for my childrens sake. Right now, I see his grasping at financial control more than ever to maintain his sense of dominance...its all he has left basically. He is refusing to pay his childrens dental bills, health insurance, provide money for school clothes. He will come across occasionally with $100 or so for gas and some groceries (there are 5 children involved). He says that unless his demands are met on how he is treated in this family, he will not pay nothing. Then, he says he is the man of the house and he will pay everything that needs to be bought and provided in his own way..whatever that means. Mean ing if he sees fit. Opionions please....

2007-07-23 04:24:52 · 12 answers · asked by Bree 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a unpayed ticked that is like $800 and i dont have money to pay it and i dont have a job but i need my license to get a job....... anyone know how i can get help tio pay it.......
or is anyone willing to help me...... please i need a job to put my son through school........


PLEASE HELP

2007-07-23 04:23:23 · 9 answers · asked by Shawn A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have always thought that if you are in a relationship, and get cheated on, that it is not the other man/woman's fault. It was your partner's fault. However, is it different if the person is a total stranger to your family? What if the person knows you and your family? Shouldn't that person have to suffer some kind of consequence? Why should they have nothing happen to them when your life is now in shambles? Would it be fair to stand outside their apartment complex and yell loud enough for the neighbors to hear that she's a homewrecking *****? Or maybe dedicating your MySpace page to her homewrecking *** for a while. Tell me what you all think.

2007-07-23 04:22:40 · 45 answers · asked by redpeach_mi 7 in Marriage & Divorce

it seems to me that everytime things get going good my husband gets in a bad mood. we never talk any more because he says we have already talk about everything what should i do

2007-07-23 04:21:28 · 9 answers · asked by Rosie E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

People say that they "don't want to take sides" because they only hear "one side of the story. "

Is there another side to having an affair with a married woman?

Even assuming the wife was the devil. Why not get a divorce first?

Maybe I am missing something. Please enlighten me. Thanks for your answers?

2007-07-23 04:19:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do you wish you would've splurged less or more on?

2007-07-23 04:18:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay so theres a family of 6 people in the same building and their one that really little and there's two that are around my age well one of them is two years older and the other one five years older and i kissed the one that 's five years older and i would always hugg the one that's two years and then i got mad at the one that's two years older than me and i kiss the one that's five years older than me every day and one of those days the one that's twon years older than me saw us and now he's trying to get me back he says that if he doesn't hang around with a this one person if i would go out with him ....i need help idon't like the one that's two years older than me and i don't want to hurt his feelings.....wat can i do????????
i need help....i don't want to play with any of them who do i stay with??????????wat can i say to the ones that two years older so i don't hurt his feelings???

2007-07-23 04:16:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I long haired teen boy who can't even talk to a girl and it's more difficult for him if she is very beautiful and smart.But he seems normal when he chat.

2007-07-23 04:15:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mad..

2007-07-23 04:14:12 · 13 answers · asked by love h 1 in Friends

If a guy asks you to go to a hotel with him after 1 year of knowing him, is this considered disrespectfull? Does he think you're easy and trashy if he asks you to do something like that? And if the girl agrees but changes her mind and tells him no, does this make her appear lady like..or is it too late to appear lady like since she already agreed?

2007-07-23 04:12:48 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would the qualified candidates need as far as past experience?

What kind of references would be helpful?

2007-07-23 04:10:54 · 16 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm Lazy All Of The Time , I just go to work, come home and watch TV. I don't Feel LIke going Out With My Friends because I feel Ugly! I don't Know why it's very weird!!

I want to be outgoing but i just want to go home & hide out!

WHAT CAN I DO!!!! HOW CAN I GAIN CONFIDENCE!

2007-07-23 04:10:51 · 23 answers · asked by liza 3 in Friends

2007-07-23 04:10:50 · 31 answers · asked by Izzi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i hav a bf and my ex keeps telling me he wants me bac, well i just got bac from summer camp where he went 2 and well he has a gf 2, but neways when we got bac on friday his gf told him that she thinks she is pregnant, and now he doesnt kno if she is lying or wat but he still wants to get bac wit me. but i think she is lying b/c 1 nite 2 weeks ago i called him and he was wit her and he told her that i was his ex-gf, and i think she is lyin about it so he wont leave her. wat do i do???

2007-07-23 04:09:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok - I need help.... My ex & I broke up well over a month ago and he still have not moved this things out of my house. To make matters worst, he's left me with his portion of the bills & he has stolen my keys to work, home & my truck! What can I do legally to get him completely out of my life for good? I want his things out without legal consequenses.

2007-07-23 04:07:16 · 21 answers · asked by Heaven 3 in Singles & Dating

I’ve been living in this small town for a little less than 2 years now.. I have literally no friends here. I’m 21 so I don’t go to school or anything so it seems hard to make any friends, especially in a tight-woven little town like this. There are a few girls at my work that are my age and I would really like to hang out with them outside of work but don’t know how to go about it. I’m REALLY shy so if you could help me come up with something that I’d be able to do that isn’t too forward or stupid sounding.. I really have no idea how to go about it!

2007-07-23 04:04:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-23 03:53:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Divorced/w.o. money (Clifton Ct., s. of New Haven) female w. 2 daughters: Ex hubby RICH TURK-advice needed

Details:
Female friend/impoverished in Connecticut-divorced a millionaire Turk who hides his assets.... she from NY originally.
He copied daughter's keys late nite 4 his ex-wife's apartment & when mother at work in a menial job, stole lots of her jewelry, belongings. One daughter says mom's things are in dad's rich home now with his new GF

His new GF also entered friends' apartment and stole bankbook w. inheritance of tens of thousands, forged her name and closed bankbook/took out all $.

Last thing: he bounced child support, leave for Turkey for 5 weeks, My f. friend went to bank where they tried to arrest her for trying to cash a bad check, the one he had bounced on her.

This woman is so stuck, cannot afford legal rep to charge him with felonies change divorced terms to move back to New York where her few friends and family live. She is SO stuck.

Are there legal options

2007-07-23 03:50:38 · 6 answers · asked by Legandivori 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the deal, I'm getting married in Key West in a yr and I'm sooo excited! right now I am finalizing my guest list. Do u think I should invite my drug addicted uncle who I am not a fan of. I think he has hurt my family esp my mom A LOT. I can;'t even begin to get into all the messed up things he has put our family through. My mom think it's good etiquette to invite him so I wont upset the rest of the family, but he is in such a drug endused haze that he doesnt even know my name and I'm 24! I don't think I should appease anyone else. I know my mom is saying this so we can avoid all the drama. do u think I should be the bigger person and invite him? He probably wont come. Secondly, if I do make an exception then I would have to invite my fiances ridiculously insane aunts who like to cause drama and start fights I feel like this is my wedding day and i don't want this added stress or drama as far as i view it i'd rather not have them there. Opinions? thoughts?

2007-07-23 03:43:38 · 21 answers · asked by spadezgurl22 6 in Weddings

some guys i have talked to say they r christians but wen we start talkin i can tell they reelie aint and all they want is one thing...i hate the fact that it seems like they r all the same even tho i know they aint but its just has bin reelie hard..

2007-07-23 03:39:11 · 13 answers · asked by lilgigglez2207 1 in Singles & Dating

i was wondering if its bad that he hasnt called i mean i feel bad cuz i really like him ,soooooo i finnaly called him but no one was home sooo i lfet a essagetelling him to call me but do you think its bad that he hasnt called yet???????????????

2007-07-23 03:35:18 · 21 answers · asked by Cmoneyy 1 in Singles & Dating

I bartend and my ex-boyfriend was at my job as well as my homegirl. My ex-boyfriend was in there with another guy and they both were talking pretty close to my homegirl. She was backing up and they continued to harass her. I asked my ex what was that all about and he said he was trying to hook her up with his friend. He proceeded to tell me that he saw her at another local bar and that she gave him a ride to my job and they stopped at another local bar before they got there. My girlfriend said that she did not give him a ride anywhere. I asked the bouncer at the door if he saw my girlfriend get out of her car with anyone. He said no. Who should I believe? If he is lying why is he doing this? I broke up with him and the only thing I could think of is that he is trying to make me upset.

2007-07-23 03:35:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married for 11 months now and we are fight a lot. We are finding it very difficult to continue to live together. We fight over many things and argue a lot. My wife falsely accuses me that I am doing things on purpose to break this marraige and get a divorce. But I am not! When we fought
before, I would try to get advice from my mom on what to do. She called me immature that I can't handle the situation myself. About 4 months ago we came to know that she has PCOS, and that she might need fertility treatment in case we decide to have kids. I wanted to get family advice on what to do about this. I even suggested that she could talk to her own mom about this. She refused to involve other in our marriage. I have stopped trying to get advice from others now. She made me promise that neither of us should involve others, even if we decide to get a divorce, it should be decided between us. Which I totally agree. She has always been very illogical and unreasonable.

2007-07-23 03:34:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like a girl and my parents are cheesie so help

2007-07-23 03:34:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-23 03:31:36 · 14 answers · asked by Marmeladealorangesanguine 3 in Other - Family & Relationships